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co_MeKSnyAo • Jared Kushner: Israel, Palestine, Hamas, Gaza, Iran, and the Middle East | Lex Fridman Podcast #399
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Kind: captions Language: en the following is a conversation with Jared Kushner former senior adviser to the president during the Donald Trump Administration and author of breaking history a White House Memoir he's one of the most influential and effective presidential advisers in modern history helping conduct negotiations with some of the most powerful leaders in the world and deliver results on trade Criminal Justice Reform and historic progress towards peace in the Middle East on Thursday October 5th we recorded conversation on topics of War and Peace history and Power in the Middle East and Beyond this was about a day and a half before the Hamas attack on Israel and then we felt we must sit down again on Monday October 9th and add a discussion on the current situation we open the podcast with the second newly recorded part my heart goes out to everyone who has and is suffering in this war I pray for your strength and for the long-term peace and flourishing of the Israeli and Palestinian people I love you all this is Alex Freedman podcast and now dear friends here's Jared Krishna we did a lot of this conversation before the Hamas attack on Israel and we decided to sit down again and finish the discussion to address the current situation which is still developing if I may allow me to SU omiz the situation as it stands today it's morning Monday October 9th on Saturday October 7th at 6:30 a.m. Israel time Hamas fired thousands of rockets into Southern Israel the rocket attack served as cover for a multi-pronged infiltration of Israel territory by over 1,000 Hamas militants this is shortly after at 7:40 a.m. the Hamas militans went door too in Border towns killing civilians and taking captives including women and children in response to this Israeli Air Force began carrying out strikes in Gaza also fighting on the ground in Israel to clear out Hamas militants from Israel territory and preparing to mobilize Israeli troops for potential ground attack on Hamas and Gaza now of course this is what it appears to be right now and this along with other things might change because the the situation is still developing the IDF is ordering civilian residents of Gaza to evacuate their homes for their safety Benjamin n yahu declared war in several statements and warned Israelis to brace themselves for a long and difficult War just today Israeli ministers ordered a quote Complete Siege of Gaza interrupting supplies of electricity food water and fuel from Israel to Gaza as of now October 9th the death toll is over 1,200 people and over 130 hostages taken to Gaza by Hamas uh so as I said the events are rapidly unfolding so these numbers will sadly increase uh but hopefully our words here can at least in part speak to the the Timeless underlying currents of the history and uh as you write about the power dynamics of the region so for people who don't know Gaza is a 25 mil long 6 Mi wide strip of territory along the Mediterranean Sea it borders Israel on the east and north and Egypt on the Southwest it's densely populated about 2.3 million people and there's been a blockade of Gaza by Israel and Egypt since 2007 when Hamas took power I could just summarize that Hamas is a Palestinian militant Group which rules the Gaza Strip it originated in 1988 and it came to power in Gaza in 2006 as part of his Charter it's SW War to the destruction of Israel and it is designated by the United States European Union UK and of course Israel as a terrorist group so given that context what are your feelings as a human being uh and what is your analysis as the former senior advisor to the president under the Trump administration of the current situation in Israel and Gaza so I I think you did an excellent job of summarizing a lot of the the context but watching what's unfolded over the last 48 hours has been truly heartbreaking to see we're still in the early stages of what's developing but seeing the images uh on X of um you know militants terrorists going door too with machine guns gunting down innocent civilians uh seeing beheaded Israeli soldiers seeing uh young 20-year-olds at a rave uh a dance party to celebrate peace uh with militants flying in and then you know shooting machine guns to to kill people indiscriminately uh seeing uh young children uh captive and then held prisoner seeing 80-year-old grandmothers a holocaust Survivor also being taken captive uh these are just images and actions that we have not seen in this world since uh 911 this is a terror attack on the scale of which uh we have not seen and it's been incredibly hard for a lot of people to comprehend um my heart goes out obviously to uh all of the the families of the victims uh to the families of those who are held uh in captive now and uh to all of Israel because one of the beautiful things about the state of Israel is that when one Israeli is hurting the entire nation comes together uh it's a shame that it's taking an action like this to unify the nation but I have seen uh incredibly uh beautiful signs over the last 48 hours of a country coming together uh the Jewish people have been under oppression before uh the Jewish people know what it's like and seeing people rally together to uh fight for their Homeland to to to try to reestablish safety uh is is um is a very beautiful thing to watch I wish it wasn't something we had to watch but it is uh with that being said though the backdrop I've been speaking to friends over the last couple days I have one friend I spoke with um last night who was saying that uh you know a good friend messaged him saying I'm going in we're going to do some operations to try to free some of the hostages held in one of the kutes messaged him the next morning he was one of the first through the door to try to free these hostages and he was killed by a Hamas militant and sadly we're going to be hearing many many more stories of Brave Israeli soldiers trying to uh get these terrorists out of Israel trying to free innocent civilians who unfortunately are risking their lives to do it and um you know they're all heroes but some will have a less good fate than others uh sadly so it's a very very heartbreaking moment um and I do think that it's very important at this moment in time for the entire world to stand behind Israel I think that Hamas has shown uh the entire world who they really are I think what they're is what they're willing to do um and you know all of the uh strong security that Israel's put in place over the last years which in some instances was criticized I think is now being validated that um that there was a real threat that they were looking to deter so um short answer is my heart is broken uh praying for peace praying for strength praying for um praying for Israel to do what it needs to do to avoid being in this situation again which is either eliminating or severely degrading hamas's capabilities uh there there cannot be peace in Israel and in the Middle East while there is a terror group um that is being funded by Iran that is allowed to uh flourish and is allowed to plan operations that are going to aim to kill innocent civilians and so as somebody who was formerly in this position who uh was intimately involved with Israel with uh the strategies to to minimize uh attacks from Hamas and to try to uh turn the region around and I think we did do a very substantial job under President Trump the Middle East went from one of the most chaotic regions in the world you had uh Isis uh in 2016 Isis had to califate the size of Ohio they were beheading journalists they were um they were they were killing Christians um they controlled 8 million people they were planning attacks um uh all over the world from their their Cali F they were uh using the internet to radicalize people we had the San Bernardino shooting in America we had the Pulse Nightclub shooting uh in in in Orlando and there was real threat and then you had Iran which was given $150 billion in a Glide path to a nuclear weapon and they were using their new found riches to fund Hamas hasbalah the houthis uh different Rebels uh all over the the region that were looking to dest further Syria was in a civil war where 500,000 people were killed Yemen was destabilized syri Libya was destabilized and it was just a mess and all of America's allies had felt betrayed president Trump came into power we rebuilt the the trust and the relationships with all of our traditional allies and we were able to eliminate Isis the Cal territorial caliphate and then we were able to project strength in the region really go after Iran's uh wallet uh we were able to stop uh through through crushing sanctions a lot of their financial resources which they were using to fund all these Terror groups and so we left the Middle East uh with six piece deals and and a fairly uh peaceful world so seeing what's happening I think it was completely avoidable I think it's horrible to see that it's occurring uh and I pray that those in power will make the right decisions to uh to to to restore safety but also to potentially create uh a better Paradigm uh for peace in the future so I have a lot of questions to ask uh you about the journey towards this historic progress towards peace with the Abraham Accords but first on this situation to step back at some of the history uh is there things about the history of Hamas and Gaza that's important to understand what is happening now just your comments your thoughts your understanding of Hamas I I think you did an excellent job Lex of of really giving the summary just a couple things maybe I'll add to it is that Hamas was originally found did from the Muslim Brotherhood in Egypt uh which is a group that's caused a lot of issues uh in the region um they've uh they've attacked Israel many times in the past there's a lot of discussion about how Israel uh is an occupying power well in Gaza in 2005 they withdrew from all the land and then they say Israel's an apartheid state well Israel then gave governance of the region to the Palestinians and then what's happened is is the Palestinian people's lives have now gone down not up since then uh I will say that under uh hamas's leadership uh in in Gaza the people who have suffered the most are the Palestinian people and I see I've I've watched cries uh throughout my time in government from people saying we want to see the Palestinian people live a better life I agree with those people I think that the Palestinian people in Gaza are essentially hostages in uh in Gaza you have basically 2. you know two million people that are being held hostage by 30,000 Hamas a terrorists and that's really the problem and I would just encourage people to uh to push their attention and energy in this moment and their anger towards Hamas those are the people who are killing innocent civilians who are uh murdering indiscriminately and those are the people who have held back the Palestinians from having a better life and just finally what I would say is you know what we saw with Hamas was that if you go back to 2007 they basically had just one plan that they did over and over and you know we were very careful to try to monitor very closely and stop the Iranian money and the resources from coming in and again we took a little bit of criticism from the International Community from keeping the Border tight but unfortunately every time you'd allow construction materials to go into Gaza they'd use them to build tunnels not homes you would have equipment that would come in to build pipes they turn it into bombs so um it was very very hard to figure out how do you get the resour resources into Gaza to help people live a better life while at the same time the leadership in Gaza was taking all those resources and turning it into military equipment to attack Israel what role does Iran play in this war in this connection to Hamas it can you speak to the connection between Hamas and Iran that's important to understand especially as this most recent attack unfolds sure so the correlation I mean there's reports that Iran is behind the attack Hamas has has thanked Iran for their support and um and it's been very well known that Iran supports the destruction of the state of Israel and I won't say Iran as a country I'll talk about Iran in the leadership there's actually a beautiful thing I saw on the internet where at one of the soccer games in Iran they were trying to you know rally support for the Hamas uh Terror attacks and a lot of people in the crowds were chanting you know Fu to the regime because I think the Iranian people the Persian people generally are peaceloving people who don't want to see this focus on destruction and Annihilation but uh you saw this in 2015 2016 when the Iranian government had resources the region was less safe and since you know now uh there's been more resources allowed to go to the Iranian regime uh by lack of enforcement of sanctions and as a result Iran is funding Hezbollah Hamas um they were funding the houthis now there's a little bit of a Daton between Saudi and Iran which has led to that going down which only further proves that Iran was behind the houthis which is what the Saudis had been saying for years and Iran was denying so there's a very strong um relationship between the two and we always knew that the way that Iran fights Wars or fights conflicts is never directly it's usually through its proxies and in this case Hamas has been a proxy for Iran who wanted to obviously see the destruction of Israel but also does not want to see the Israelis and the Saudis uh come together for a peace agreement so the name of this operation of the Hamas operation ation is alaa flood referring to the aloa mosque how much of this attack is about the alaa mosque in actuality I don't think any of it is but the aloa mosque is is something that uh all of the uh Shia jihadists have used for years in order to justify their actions that are aggressive towards Israel so uh this is something I'll maybe even take a step back and go through when I was working uh initially in my first year on the peace plan I was doing a lot of listening and quite frankly a lot of what people were saying to me didn't make sense and the reason why I was trying to figure out they were talking about uh sovereignty over ala mosque the Ala mosque is a mosque that's built in the holy of holies the Haram Al Sharif uh in Israel where the the Jewish betam mdash the Holy Temple was built in a very religious place about after the temple was destroyed um then there was a big mosque built there and it's one of the more uh holy places in Islam uh now so uh so the big uh thing everyone was saying is what do you do with this land where you have a mosque built over a very big Jewish site and I was hearing all of the experts and you know I always say experts with quotes because only in Washington can you work on something for a decade and continue to fail and then you basically leave and are considered an expert um but that's one of the problems with Washington which maybe we could talk about later but the notion here was I went and I said let me try to understand what the issue is with the Israeli Palestinian conflict with the people right I always felt the politicians were a little disconnected so I commissioned several focus groups one in in Aman one in Cairo One in Dubai and one in rala and I asked you know people U Muslims what is the is Arab what is the Israeli Palestinian conflict about and time and time again the most popular thing that they said was that Israel was not allowing access to the mosque for Muslims to pray and what was interesting was is that Israel's policy is to allow anyone who wants to come and pray peacefully at the SES to come and pray sometimes they have security issues when there's provocations um but by and large since 1967 when Israel um was able to take back Jerusalem in a defensive War just to be very clear they were attacked um in the South and they were attacked uh uh from from the East and they basically were able to beat back the jordanians and the Egyptians and and then reconquer uh the old city of Jerusalem and during that time immediately after uh Israel then passed the protection of holy places law which was they basically took resources they didn't have and they said we're going to uh restore the Christian sites the Muslim sites the the Jewish sites and they worked to allow everyone access to the mosque so today um any Muslim who wants to come can come and pray at the mosque the mosque is um Israel's acknowledge that King Abdullah uh the King of Jordan uh is uh is the custodian of of the mosque and as long as people want to come to the country and pray peacefully they're able to do that but if you look at a lot of the propaganda that's been used by ISIS or Iran to uh to recruit um uh terrorists or to justify their incursions they often say they're doing it in the name of liberating the aloa mosque but from an operational and pragmatic uh perspective today any Muslim who wants to go to the mosque you can book a flight to Israel now through Dubai because there's flights between Israel and Dubai and as long as your country has relations with Israel and they'll accept your passport in there you can come and pray and that's what Israel wants Israel wants Jerusalem to be a place where all religions can come and celebrate together but you have a lot of actors that look to find ways to use these religious tensions uh in order to se Division and justify violent Behavior I wonder how it's possible to lessen the effectiveness of that propaganda message that a lot of the war a lot of the attacks about access to the alaka mosque is there something you can speak to why that message hasn't disseminated across the the Arab world so Israel is good at a lot of things they're not very good traditionally with public relations um you know after the Abraham Accords you know we made the first Abraham Accords deal in August 2020 and then we made uh five other deals we first did uh United AB Emirates then we did a deal with Bahrain then we did a deal with uh Kosovo then we did a deal with um with Sudan then we did a deal with Morocco um and then we got the GCC deal done as well the deal the the tension between Qatar Saudi UAE Egypt and Bahrain and that was allowing us to create a pathway to then pursue the Israeli Saudi normalization so we had so much momentum then that the goal was just keep getting more countries to normalize relations with Israel uh once you create the connection between people and create the ability for people to do business together the ability for flights to fly between then you would just start naturally having people coming and everyone has a smartphone today so they can then post and combat the uh the misinformation that's been out there but this misinformation is not something that's new you know one of the characters who played a very big role in in spreading the anti-Semitism and the violence and uh in Israel in the 1920s was a guy named Haj Amin Al husseini who was a known as the grand Muti of Jerusalem he was uh very close with Hitler and melini and he was working with them to try to get some claims to the Middle East once the Jewish people were annihilated and what he did for a very long time was he did the same shtick only it was before you had smartphones and YouTube where he would say the mosque is under intact these imperialist zionists are coming in to try to destroy the mosque and he would use that to raise money from Indonesia from Pakistan from all over the world and then use that that threat to justify recruiting you know groups of young vulnerable Muslim men and then you know getting them in the name of of religious rights to go and kill people which is not which really is more of a perversion of the religion than I think the true essence of what Islam is I think Islam at its core is a peaceful religion and I think that's where a lot of the great leaders in Islam want to take it but the people who use Islam or the the mosque or as a justification for violence uh those are people who I think are are really um they are disrespecting the the Islam religion as you said you helped make major strides towards peace in the Middle East with the Abraham Accords can you describe what it took to accomplish this and maybe this will help us understand what broke down and led to the tragedy this week yeah so you know I always believed in foreign policy I I learned very quickly that the difference between a political deal and a business deal is that in a business deal you have a problem set you come to a conclusion and then if you buy or sell something you either have you know more cash or you have uh a company so more to do less to do political problem set is very different where you know the conclusion of a problem set is essentially the beginning of a new paradigm so when I would think about how do you how do you move pieces around the board you couldn't say let me just solve the problem you have to think about what happens the day after the signing and how do you create a paradigm that has positivity to it so uh the biggest piece of what president Trump did during his uh four years in office was uh he really strengthened the relationship with Israel number one and he did things like uh recognizing Jerusalem as the capital of of Israel he moved the embassy to Jerusalem he recognized the Goan Heights he got out of the Iran deal um we did an economic conference in Bahrain where we brought Israelis uh to meet with you know Saudi and Emira and Qatari businessmen and everyone came together and and each one of these instances were Unthinkable previously and everyone said that if you did it the world was going to end and every time president Trump did one the next morning the sun rose the next evening the sun set and things moved on and so by doing that what president Trump did was he he slaughtered a lot of the Sacred cows of these these false barriers that people had erected and showed people that the vast majority of the people in the Middle East whether they're Jewish Muslim Christian whatever religion they are they just want to live better lives and so what we basically did was create a paradigm where the voices for peace the voices for together now finally had a forum in where they were able to do it and we did that in the backdrop the way we're able to be successful was we severely limited the resources of Iran and they were focused more internally and they couldn't cause the trouble that they were causing everywhere else since we've left obviously the Dynamics have changed but um the the way you get to peace is obviously number one through strength and number two by finding a way for people to be better off tomorrow than they are today and what I found was that most of the voices looking for violence or trouble were people who were just focused on what happened two years ago 20 years ago 70 years ago a thousand years ago people who are trying to solve those problems in that context uh often we're we're looking more to use those past grievances as a justification for their power and for the bad behavior that they were looking to perpetuate so managing as we have talked about extensively managing the power dynamics of the region and providing a plan this is something you did with the economic plan titled peace to Prosperity a vision to improve the lives of the Palestinian and Israeli people can you first of all describe what's in the plan sure so this was something I took on uh I was working on the political framework between the Israelis and the Palestinians and trying to understand what were the issues and the issues were were not very many it basically was you had a land dispute yes you had to figure out where do you put borders ultimately uh you had a security uh Paradigm which I was much more favorable to Israel's perspective on uh and obviously the events of the past 48 Hours have fully Justified that um that that that bias um and then uh in addition to that you had to deal with the religious sites but I felt operationally that wasn't actually as complicated as people made it because you wanted to just leave it open for everybody then I went through and I I felt that the Palestinian leadership was fairly disincentivized to make a deal because there was just this Paradigm where for they had been millions of dollars coming in from the International Community and I think that they feared that if they made a deal they would lose their relevancy internationally and the money would stop flowing into the country so what I tried to do is to say you know my my Approach when I would get into a hard problem say how do I understand all the different Escape patches how do I try to eliminate them and then build a golden bridge that becomes really the the only but also the most desirable pathway for the uh decision makers to walk through and it wasn't always hard and sometimes have to go and you know hold their hand or you try to pick them up and walk them across but but but a lot of these leaders are very reluctant to change um and the Dynamics of the Palestinians also were such that uh I think they were fairly stuck where they were so we developed a business plan for uh Gaza the West Bank uh we threw in some some uh improvements for Jordan and Egypt as well I was based it off of the vision 2030 uh that they did in Saudi Arabia which I thought was a Visionary document I went back through this process and I studied uh basically every um economic project in the post World War II period so we looked at what they did in South Korea why it was successful with some strong industrial planning we looked at Japan we looked at Singapore we looked at Poland why it was successful we spent a lot of time on the Ukraine uh plan for the country and why it wasn't successful and that was mostly because of governance and Corruption which actually resembles a lot of what's gone wrong uh with the Palestinians where there's no property rights there's no rule of law and what we did is we built a plan to show you know it's it's not that that hard right in the sense that between the West Bank and Gaza you had 5 million people and um and we put together a plan I think it was about $27 billion uh we got together a conference I had the head of AT&T we had Steve schwarzman from Blackstone came which was very gracious of them with had all the leading Arabic businessmen the leading Builders leading developers and the general consensus of that um of that of that uh of that conference was that this is very doable you know we think that for Gau in particular cost maybe maybe 7 to to8 billion doar to rebuild the entire Place uh we felt we could reduce the poverty rate in half we can create over a million jobs there um the only thing that people said was holding it back wasn't Israel what was holding it back was governance and people wouldn't have confidence investing there with uh with the rule that uh that Hamas was was perpetuating so I encourage people actually to look at the plan it was very thoughtful it was 181 Pages we went project by project uh each project is costed out uh it's a real plan that could be implemented but you need the right governance and all of the different Arabic countries were willing to fund it the International Community is willing to fund it because they've just been throwing so much money at the Palestinians for years that's never been outcomes based or conditions based it's just been you know entitlement money and unfortunately it hasn't really achieved any outcomes that have been successful so it's a great business plan it just shows too rebuilding Gaza you know could be easy but like I said you know the problem that's held Palestinian people back and that's made their lives terrible uh in Gaza has not been Israel it's really been hamas's leadership or lack of leadership and their desire to focus on trying to kill Israelis and start war with Israel Over improving the lives of the Palestinian people in the current approach of Hamas the more violence they perpetrate the more they can hold on to power versus improving the lives of people so they as you said maybe can comment on they do not propose an economics plan I mean Hamas has been running it now for 16 years um and they don't have a lot to show for it and you know our posture with them was basically a very simple deal you know if you think about what's the end state in Gaza um it's actually not that complicated it's you know there's no territorial disputes right the border is the Border there's no religious issues uh there as well you know you're not dealing with Jerusalem uh you're basically just dealing with the fact that um you know Israel wants to make sure that there's no threat from Gaza so it's a demilitarization or some kind of security guarantee um from a credible Source where Israel doesn't feel like Gaza can be used to Stage attacks into Israel or to uh fire Rockets into Israel and by the way these are things I was saying you know three four years ago uh that that was the objective and that was really the fear now that's been proven you know unfortunately the fear has has manifested um and in exchange you can rebuild the place and you can give the people a much better life but Hamas has not shown a desire for that or a capability for that and I don't think there's enough trust to allow them to do that which is why you know under the Karm circumstances if you do want to have peace there Hamas has to be either eliminated or severely degraded uh in terms of their milit military capabilities I would love to ask you about leadership especially in the on the side of the United States what is um the current Administration the Biden Administration done different than the Trump Administration as you understand uh that may have contributed to the events we saw this week so all I can talk about are are where we left them right we left them a place where they had tremendous momentum in the Middle East uh I met with them during the transition and said you know look you know we even got the um the Qatar Saudi conflict done which was a big no peace between Israel and Saudi would have been possible without that so we even got that done uh in in our lame duck period and um and they came in and they said look we want to focus on the three C's which is coid climate change and China and I said that's that's great but you know the Middle East we have an amazing place right now at stable there's momentum uh Iran is is basically broke uh we put such crippling sanctions on Iran that they went from about I think it was 2.6 million barrels a day of oil they were selling uh to um to about 100,000 under Trump so their their foreign Cur foreign currency reserves were basically depleted and they were broke uh same with the Palestinians we stopped funding to uh to to to the to to unra the UN agency which is totally corrupt it's it's you know we've put $1 billion in there over time I did a poll um in the Middle East in uh Gaza to say okay we've invested $1 billion do here as a country are we popular right uh the US had a 7% approval rating us Aid had a 70% approval rating but it just felt like a waste of our taxpayer dollars and again we wanted to make it conditions based the Biden Administration came in uh number one uh they they they they started insulting uh you know Saudi and Russia oil prices went up at the same time what they did was they stopped domestic production of oil uh they made it they disincentivized a lot of oil and Shale uh uh production uh with regulations they they stopped pipelines oil prices went up um they stopped enforcing the sanctions against Iran probably to get the oil prices lower to make up for what they were doing they ran to Iran to try to make a deal uh they started funding the Palestinians again right away and I even said you know if you're going to fund them if that's your policy I I respect that again elections have consequences and uh you can take a different policy but what I would recommend is get some conditions make them do some reforms make them uh give property rights to people make them you know do real economic Investments for people but they just went right away so they were funding the Palestinians not enforcing the sanctions uh and then overall just projecting a lot of weakness uh in the region so uh one of the the most um embarrassing examples is what happened in the United Arab Emirates again an amazing probably one of America's best allies over the last you know 20 30 years uh they fought with us in in Afghanistan they were the first Muslim country to stand up and do that after 911 because they didn't want it to be a war of the West against uh against uh the Muslim uh Muslim religion so they joined the fight because they saw it as a fight between right and wrong uh they have rocket shot into their country uh from from from uh from uh from from the houthis and they basically don't get a call from the US for 17 days they need their equipment that they buy from the US which creates job in the US they need it restocked we don't call so they've severely degraded the trust that we had to rebuild with our allies I think they've been working now to get it back they after two years started working with with Saudi and Israel uh which I think was good you know I think that they realized after uh stint that maybe the the process that President Trump had created in the region was the right policy and keep in mind you know president Trump's policy was uh that I was working on was very strongly criticized uh during the first three years before we're able to achieve the results because it was departure from the failed policies of the past and so first there was Return To those policies appease Iran um let's criticize Saudi Arabia then they started embracing and working on the Israel Saudi deal which I was was was really exciting I think we're all very excited about it um but they did it in public and I think that that also was something and I didn't have access to their intelligence so assumed that by doing it so publicly they thought that they'd either had to deal with Iran because they were letting them get all this Revenue where Iran wouldn't be a problem but one of the reasons with the Abraham Accords we kept it so quiet during the whole time was because we always felt like the troublemakers in the region particularly Iran who we thought would would be disadvantaged by having uh UAE Saudi Israel altogether Israel's uh nuclear power you have you know other strong economies it Iran seeks instability they seek looking to create uh division in the region and if you can create that economic sphere where you have security from hia to Muscat from Israel to Oman all the way through with Saudi Jordan UAE Qatar um Egypt that's an incredibly powerful block if you can make it secure and then get economic integration that really could be a Middle East that thrives so Iran obviously wanted nothing to do with that and that's why they've been working to disrupt so I think the Administration has they took an incredibly stable situation with momentum I think they underestimated um the uh the the way that Iran would approach the region to undermine I think they gave way too much rope to Iran and I think that they didn't seize when they had an opportunity of strength with the Palestinians to try to drive to a conclusion that I believe could have prevented uh us being where we are today not to mention that you know even just three weeks ago I mean it's a bad look that they uh they just you know basically gave $6 billion doar to Iran uh in exchange for hostages and then Iran's basically funding these Terror attacks are killing American citizens you have uh in Israel and um and it's just it's a heartbreaking situation again totally avoidable and one that I think has been uh very badly mismanaged to date if Trump was currently president you were still working with him on this part of the world what actions would you take what conversations would you have what ideas would you be working with in order to unite the the various allies that you mentioned in the Middle East over this tragedy and um not let it be a thing that divides the Middle East but uh make it a thing that catalyzes progress towards peace further progress towards Peace So I want to say one thing Lex I have a lot of friends who are fans of trump we not fans of trump but one thing I want to say with absolute certainty is that if president Trump Trump was in office this never would have happened and uh when President Trump was in office anyone who supports Israel uh or who wants to see you know Jewish people not be innocen slaughtered uh he would never have allowed that to happen it did not happen when he was in power and I hope people recognize that um as as something that's that's very very true um how I would play the ball where it lies right now keep in mind we we transferred the ball it was on the green now it's almost like it's gone back you know 15 yards and it's in a sand trap I think the way that I would play the ball right now is uh number one is you have to show strength I actually think uh President Biden's words were the right words I see that they're moving uh aircraft carriers to the region again the purpose of having a strong military uh I believe obviously you know if you get into a war you want to win the war but the purpose of a very strong military primarily is to avoid a war um I don't know what kind of credibility the Biden Administration has uh to show the strength but right now you have to um support Israel completely you have to really um let people in the region know that there'll be consequences if they uh if they if they try to escalate again we saw a little bit of Rocket Skirmish from Lebanon from Hezbollah um but again this is the type of thing that they have to know there'll be severe consequences if they make this a multi-party fight uh and I think sending a strong message to Iran I think that they have to see some consequences from this and know that they're not going to be allowed to have a free reign to cause instability and that you know Iran doesn't usually fight face to face they usually do it through proxies um but let's just all be honest about where this is coming from and let them know that there will be a consequence if they um if they instigate these actions and again at least with the Biden Administration they've had contact with Iran they've been talking with Iran uh but they've allowed Iran I mean again the number I saw last year I think under Trump the number was maybe like four or five billion dollars of oil revenue and in total I think last year it was something like $45 billion in Revenue this year I think it'll be even more that's a combination of them driving up oil prices but also allowing much more sales uh you would think that they would find a way to get them to behave and allow them to to have this happen or if that's not the case then be tough go back to being tough that's what you have to do building off of Abraham Accords as you mentioned uh Israel Saud normalization there's been a lot of promising progress towards this what does it take to uh not allow this tragedy uh damage the progress towards Israel solity normalization I think right now it's probably not the best to think about that I think that we want to think about that after whatever is going to happen is going to happen now I think right now the number one priority for Israel has to be to uh fully regain uh Security in the country and then number two is to figure out how you can like I said eliminate or degrade uh the Hamas capability or other Iranian threats to make sure that you have your security apparatus I think that the Israeli leadership right now should proceed uh with that and I don't think that they should be thinking about normalization with Saudi at this moment um my instinct and I've been watching this Israeli Saudi uh normalization play out obviously just speaking with people and seeing what I've been reading um and watching with great excitement I think it would be a game Cher for the region I think it's uh it's one of Iran's worst nightmares to have Israel and Saudi uh Interlink together I think it'd be great for the Saudi people from a security perspective what they're discussing with America would be uh very strong the ability to you know get uh different elements across would be incredible so what I would say with it is that the industrial logic um held yesterday and I think it will hold again tomorrow so um you know I always expect countries to act in their interests I think that uh the deal that's on the table right now between Saudi Israel and America is in saudi's interests it's in America's interests and it's in Israel's interest uh what's going to happen now though is uh the political Dynamics are going to shift and I think that you know as we've seen with political Dynamics they come and go I think um let's get through this moment um and then I hope at the right time that those talks will be able to resume and conclude in an appropriate way and you know it's funny Lex when I was working on the US Mexico uh agreement for the trade you know we would have every day there'd be a you know TW that would go out or there would be an issue I mean people forget how how intense it was between um America and Mexico and I would speak to my counterpart of Mexico after a rough day and you know we're working on something we're making progress it'd get blown up and I'd speak to them and say you know what look they're not moving America they're not move in Mexico let's just you know let's stop for today let's pick up tomorrow and let's find a new way to bring this forward so I would just encourage everyone working on that not to give up uh to keep working hard at it um and to find a way but like I said I would take a little bit of a pause for the for the time being let's let the current situation play out and then hopefully uh there'll be a way for it to move forward I just hope there's still people on the US side picking up the phone and calling uh UAE Saudi Arabia just as human beings as friends as allies and just keeping that channel communication going cuz I uh maybe you can correct me but I just feel like there's just simple human dynamics that play out here the divisions can form and just run away from you over simple misunderstandings over um just inability to see a tragedy uh from the same perspective because of conversations that could have happened but didn't happen I think there'll definitely be communication but you know words on phone calls is is only worth so much it's really you know trust between people and power and obviously when you're in a position of power you represent your country country and your country's interests but the ability to have trusting relationships where people feel like they're okay taking you know more risks to help each other uh that's actually what's most important so communication I hope for but uh you know deepening and trusting relationships uh that's what I believe makes progress and keeps people safe and we talk quite extensively about the value of trust and negotiation and just working with leaders which I think is a fascinating conversation and you've taught me a lot about that let me ask you about the end here what are the various trajectories this war can take in your view uh what are some of the end States as you've said which are desirable and are achievable I I mentioned this earlier but whenever I would get a problem set in government I'd always think through from a first principles perspective what's the logical outcome right and forget about all the reasons why it can't happen that's what everyone in governments always rush to talk about but I do think here number one Israel has to have a secure environment where they don't feel threatened from uh from from Gaza and number two is the people in Gaza need to have an environment where they feel uh like they can live a better life and have opportunities so that's the end State and so I think that the International Community should come together I do think that uh the people who are usually putting blame on Israel should now realize that maybe they've been a little bit of harsh here and that Hamas has been as big a threat if not an even bigger threat than Israel has been saying and I do think that if the International Community comes together and unites behind Israel and really forces Hamas and their Iranian backers to stop hostilities to stop saber rattling to stop um misrepresenting uh the history uh in order to justify their violent behavior and if they say instead we want to hold you accountable no more money and they all say that they're going to stand behind Israel's efforts to eliminate uh their National Security threats um and then we will all come together and only fund again into a framework that we believe can be a long-term solution where the Palestinian people really have a chance to live a better life that's really the best way to get there there's tons of complicated factors uh but that's the end state that the global Community should be looking to come together and it's very achievable it's very very achievable so there's uh as we stand here today there's a lot of different ways that this war can evolve if a ground Invasion happens uh by Israeli forces of Gaza and if the number is correct of 100,000 Israeli soldiers do you worry about various trajectories that can take uh of the consequences that might have of of an unprecedented ground troop attack yeah so I think as a leader you know you can't change yesterday but you have the ability to change tomorrow and that's a very important uh fundamental I mean that that's true for all of us not just leaders but you know we saw with uh with 911 how America was caught off guard uh by terrorist attack we acted um you know somewhat rationally somewhat emotionally uh which led to a 20-year war with trillions of dollars lost you know that I think almost a million lives lost not just American but all lives and it was a total tragedy what occurred um I think right now the Temptation is to to be strong I think that that's that's a necessity I do think eliminating risk is the right objective I think the goal should be to stay very clear about what the objective is but also um this attack was very well planned uh not to walk into another trap I think you have to be very smart very cautious I've been happy to see that uh what they've been doing uh in retaliation so far has been uh somewhat measured and they've taken their time to try to assess uh what's achievable again I don't have access to the intelligence and you know we're talking at a very early stage uh in this conflict so a lot could happen even by the time this is published but um but my My Hope Is that um they'll just stay very focused on what the objective is and try to make sure that they're acting appropriately in order to do that and I will say this too that this has been different than what I've seen in the past and that the uh the the attacks were so um heinous and so um so disgusting that I've seen the International Community rally around Israel more so than I ever have and I hope that Israel continues to keep the moral High ground and continue to communicate what they're fighting for why they're fighting um and I do hope that the international community supports the objective and they can work together to achieve it Benjamin and yahu BB somebody you've gotten to know well in negotiation in conversation uh he has made statements he has declared war he has uh spoken about this potentially being a long and difficult War uh what have you learned about the mind and Benjamin and yahu that might be important to understand here in this current War BB is definitely a historic figure you i' meet with a lot of different world leaders and some of them I would say they're they're very very special transformational figures and some I would say how the hell is this person running a country um and BB somebody who has has done a lot for the state of Israel he has a tremendous understanding of the security apparatus he has tremendous Global relations so for a crisis like this I think BB's the leader you want if you're Israel to be um to be in that seat I think he's um he's ambitious in what he's going to look to achieve um he understands his role in history as somebody who's helped strengthen Israel economically militarily and I don't think he wants to see his legacy be somebody who left Israel more vulnerable than it had to be so I think in that regard he'll be incredibly strong but I also think that he'll hopefully be calculating in the risk that he takes um and not um create more risk than than needed and that's easy to say you know the two of us sitting here having a conversation when you're sitting in that chair as a leader um in the fog of War it's a very very um it's a very hard decision to make uh he's been here before he um he he knows the weight of the situation I'm sure he knows the moment and I pray that uh that he'll do uh what's right here to bring the best outcome possible I wonder if you can comment on the uh internal political turmoil that BB has been operating in and how that relates to the uh the tragedy that we saw on the one hand the political turmoil is um it's a sign of a vibrant democracy I think it's been um actually nice to see how people have fought for their country and their beliefs in a democratic way you compare that to the Palestinians where there's no democracy there's no free speech there's no Free Press um you know you can't disagree with uh with the leadership um you know in Israel um if you want to you know be uh you know if you want to be homosexual you can have a uh you can have a go to a parade and live your life and in in Gaza they'll throw you off building and kill you it's um so so in Israel you have the freedoms which I think make it a special place and you have a very vibrant democracy with that being said you know the times in Jewish history where the Jewish people have been most vulnerable have been when there's been Division and that's when uh the temple was destroyed uh but that's not just with the Jewish people and with Israel that's in all societies so I definitely believe that this division has left them um less prepared for the situation than it would I do think think there's real lessons we should be taking from this here in America where we're in a time where we're very divided but I do think that uh it'd be very wise for our leaders to find the areas where we do agree and find ways to you know secure our Southern border to make sure that we know who's in our country what risks uh we all face um and I do think that um that division definitely creates risk for countries let me switch gears here and just uh zoom out and look at our society and our public discourse at the moment what do you make of the scale and nature of the Palestinian support online in response to the situation this is something I I've observed over the years uh since I got involved with the Israeli Palestinian issue um with a lot of interest um I think a lot of the people who are pledging support for the Palestinian people uh I think that they want to see the Palestinian people live a better life and I actually agree with them in that regard unfortunately I think many of them are incredibly ill informed as to the facts on the ground I think all the people who are advocating online for the Palestinian people uh who who are you know going to these marches and support of them I think they'd be best served if they really care about AFF effectuating the outcome of joining with uh with Israel right now and directing their anger towards the Hamas leadership I think that it's very clear that the group that's responsible for the Palestinian people living the lives that all these people are angry about is Hamas and if they direct their anger towards Hamas and put the attention on the failings of Hamas and put forth a vision for what they'd like to see leadership in Gaza do and they respect that there's a real fear that Israel has and any country would have of having a group of terrorists next to them them that's calling for their destruction I think that that recognition of finding a way for Israel to be secure and then having um an opportunity for the Palestinian people to live a better life is the right Pathway to try and pursue so to you there's a clear distinction between Hamas and the Palestinian people in that Hamas is the enemy of progress and the flourishing of the Palestinian people 100% it's very very clear and I think that if people were honest about the situation if they spent a time to really understand it again you know if you follow the conference I did in Bahrain we had all of the leading businessmen there and they said we can rebuild Gaza very easily we all want to the leading Arab businessmen the leading American businessmen everyone wants to they're just held back by Hamas and so I do think having an honest conversation about this at this point in time has really only one logical conclusion and my hope is that maybe this conflict leads to that conversation being had and if it is then maybe that brings more unity and understanding and we kind of get to a conclusion better that could improve the lives of the Palestinian people pragmatic question about the future do you hope Donald Trump wins in 2024 and how can his administration help bring peace to the Middle East I think when Donald Trump was President we had a peaceful world everyone said if he was elected we would have World War III meanwhile he gets elected and he not only is the first president in decades to not start any wars he's making peace deals he's making trade deals he's working with our allies getting them to pay their fair share in NATO he's uh you know having a dialogue with China with Russia he's weakening Iran and so I do think that the job he did as a foreign policy president was tremendous I think um you know now more and more people are starting to recognize that again under President Biden this is the second war that's broken out in the world and when you have a weak American leadership the world World becomes a less safe place and so U My Hope and prayers are are that um that that President Trump is reelected and that he's able to then restore uh order and calm and peace and prosperity to the world from a place of strength that's the only way he knows how to do it what gives you hope about the future of this region of Israel and of the Middle East the Middle East for 20 years was an area of conflict uh they spent all their money on bullets and bombs um you have young leadership now in Saudi Arabia and UAE and Qatar and there's a much more ambitious agenda now for the region to make it an economic superpower and hub of the world Israel is one of the most burgeoning and exciting Tech economies in the world and if you think about it it's almost like having uh Silicon Valley knock connected to California the thing that's held the region back for all these years has just been the conflict and the division and the lack of connectivity but if you have that region and if it could all come together if you can create a security architecture you have an incredibly young population you have a lot of wealth and resources and a lot of capabilities and and and knowhow and so uh I think that if it's managed correctly and if Iran is is is able to be restrained and and and suppressed with their Ambitions to cause um destabilization I don't mean Iran the country I mean the Iranian regime because actually once you have this economic sphere if you could bring Iraq into it if you could bring Iran into it uh that makes it even bigger and stronger and the Persian people are incredibly entrepreneurial and Incredibly industrious so I do think that the region has tremendous potential it's just been held back by bad policy bad leadership bad objectives and again you know when President Trump left office in you know 200 um 2021 uh the Middle East was really on a very very positive trajectory and if the right things happen it can continue to be so so you know I'm praying at this moment in time that uh we navigate the current crisis that the important objectives are achieved of eliminating the terrorists and their threats and then allowing the leaders who are focused on giving their citizens and and their neighbors the opportunity to live a better life are able to work together and and and really dream and be ambitious and find ways to create a paradigm where humans can flourish what is the best way to defeat hate in the world hate is is a very powerful force and it's much easier to hate people you don't know um it's funny when I was working on prison reform one of the most interesting people I met was a reverend actually down in Texas who negotiated the first uh Tru between the Bloods and the Crips uh two of the notorious gangs in America in prison and I was very excited to meet him and when I met him I said well well how'd you do it and he said it was very simple he says I got all the guys together and I I had a tremendous amount of barbecue brought in he says and I got them meating says no drinking says drinking sometimes gets people a little bit more against each other he says but I got a meeting and they started sitting down together and they started saying you know what you're just like me and all of a sudden they started finding areas where they were more together yeah look I've traveled all over the world now I've I've I've been very fortunate to meet people from different states in America I have different political Persuasions different ages different classes and what I found is that there's a fundamental driving amongst all of us where we all want to live a better life and you know people don't want to fight naturally but it's easy to fight when you feel wronged or you feel like somebody disrespected you or somebody did something um from hatred and and and hatred leads to more hatred which sometimes just pushes that cycle further and further so I believe that each and every one of us has the power to stop that cycle and we don't do it by you know being on Twitter and yelling at people we don't do it by just being critical we do it by finding the people we disagree with by listening to them by asking questions by sitting with them and then if we each take responsibility to try to make the world better then I think that there's no limits to the incredible place that this world can be so as you've said youve traveled all across the world do you think most people are good most people have love in their heart I do believe that yeah and you have some bad people I mean you have some real evil people I mean a big part of the work I did was on uh prison reform and you know previously the mentality was is that the prison should basically be a warehouse for human trash and if you've made a mistake in this world then you know we're going to throw you out and we're going to make the rest of your life uh incredibly difficult because you're going to have a criminal record you're not going to have access to jobs but what I found is when I would sit with people in prison the people I met through my father's experience and who I met along the way is that you know people make mistakes we're all human I think it's the right thing from a religious perspective to give people Second Chances uh I always believe you shouldn't judge people by the worst mistake they make in their life and un fortunately now in the era of social media people will say one wrong thing it sticks with them forever they get cancelled or they get put out we're all humans we grow from our mistakes we learn from our mistakes and I think that um some people are just just evil there are some evil people but I do think the vast vast vast majority of people are good um and I do think that people sometimes also can be in a bad place and then Society can push them to a worse and worse place but we all have the power to make them feel loved make them feel heard and um and I think there's also tremendous power that we have as people to uh to help people get to a better place and so you know my wife and I we've always tried to be a force for good we've always tried to be um you know we've always tried to provide a place where people can discuss with each other when we were in Washington uh we would host dinners at our house all the time or we would have Democrats and Republicans sitting together you know uh know we just had I saw Senator Feinstein just passed away we had great uh dinner at her house when she was a Senator with her and her husband and uh Mark Meadows when he was on the freedom caucus and we had actually a fascinating discussion about ran Mark was much more Hardline than me I had to actually bite my tongue I was impressed at how much he did whereas you know FY and her husband were like super into you know they knew the Iranians well they thought they were peaceloving and it was an incredibly robust and respectful debate and so um I don't think we maybe concluded anything that night but it was interesting for people to get together uh having a dinner my house where I had dick Durban uh you know the number two ranking Democrat in the Senate uh Lindsey Graham and Steven Miller who's known to be a very Hardline in Immigration discussing what an immigration reform could look like I mean they left that dinner saying wow you know we we hadn't spoken to people on the other side and we actually agree on like 85% of things like maybe something is possible and so I believe that we should always be trying to push to make the world a better place and you only do that by by listening to people and and connecting with each with people and by respecting people and finally I'll just say on this is that you know I I meet people all the time who have so much confidence in their perspectives and um I'm very jealous that that these people are able to be so confident about every single thing because for me uh I have you know some degree of confidence in the things that I've studied and what I've learned but I'm always trying to find you know people who disagree to kind of sharpen my perspectives and to help me grow and to help me learn further and so I think that's kind of kind of the beauty of the world is that you know the knowledge base continues to grow the facts continue to change and what's possible tomorrow uh continues to become different and so uh as humans we have to continue to to thrive to to learn and to grow and to connect and if we do that everything's possible well Jared thank you for uh your compassion first of all but also your wisdom today on this very difficult this tragic set of uh events these difficult days for the world um it's a big honor to speak with you again uh every time I speak to you uh I learn a lot about the world and I I deeply appreciate like I said like your humility and your understanding of the details uh of all the complex power dynamics and human dynamics that are going on in the world once again thank you for talking today thank you and Lex if I could say just one final thing which is that uh my thoughts and prayers are really with all the people people in Israel and uh and the innocent civilians as well uh on the Palestinian side and my prayers are with the IDF soldiers that they should be safe and they should be um really uh watched by God to uh accomplish whatever Mission will enable to make the world a safer place thank you for listening to this newly recorded segment of the conversation that addresses the current situation in Israel and Gaza and now we go on to the second part of the conversation recorded on Thursday October 5th given your experience in negotiating with some of the most powerful and influential leaders in the world what's the key to negotiating difficult agreements in geopolitics let's start with a big question if I look back on the different negotiations I had when I was in government either with leaders of countries with representatives of leaders or even with members of Congress to pass legislation the most important thing I would draw back to would be trust I think getting to know each other understanding what was motivating the other party to get to the outcome and making them feel like you weren't going to use whatever information they gave you to benefit yourself at the expense of them is probably what I would call table Stakes to have a shot at accomplishing anything that was hard in a negotiation after that I would say taking maybe a first principles approach to what the outcome of whatever problem you're looking to solve should be now you have different kinds of negotiations I always tried to create a framework in the negotiation where it wasn't me against you it was always let's agree on what the outcome is that we're trying to accomplish let's all sit on the same side of the table and say we want to get to this outcome how do we get there uh really trying to create a road map and so once you understand the destination you want to get to the end point then you'd have to work backwards and really try to put yourself in their shoes and try to understand what were their motivations macro uh most of the time you have to assume that a Leader's primary objective was to stay in power and so all decisions made would be made through the framework of what it would take to to do that and how would impact their ability to do that and then finally I would just say that in any negotiation you have to understand the power dynamics as well and you have to then wait your approach in order to maneuver pieces to accomplish the objective and so um in areas where we had stronger power dynamics I'd always look at it and say what are the potential Escape Routes where a politician would say this is just the reason why we can't get there and I'd always think how can you try to eliminate those Escape Routes or make them much harder to accomplish then ultimately think about what's the golden bridge that you want to create for them in order to get to the other side where they were motivated to get there because it was in their self-interest to get there but also because it helped accomplish the different objective and I have many examples that that I live through with that obviously negotiating uh in Congress for for prison reform I had to form a lot of trust with uh Democrats whether it was Hakeem Jeff or dick Durban and then also on the Republican side with um I had Mike Lee I had Lindsey grah I had Tim Scott uh Senator Grassley and then also Doug Collins in the house was tremendous and you know every time we maneuvered something we would get attacked either from the left uh you know there was a time we were being attacked by you know Nancy Pelosi John Lewis uh for not being you know inclusive enough and then there were times that we maneuvered it we'd be attacked from the right for maybe going too far and ultimately we had to find just the right place where we can get it done and the same thing happened with uh usmca where we were negotiating the biggest trade deal in the history of the world which was $1.3 trillion in annual trade between Mexico Canada the United States of America and we were able to form good trust with the other side and try to say how do we create win-win outcomes and ultimately we're able to do something in a record time that people thought was very uh hard to do and both of them in a divided time of the Trump Administration uh were bipartisan wins with with big big votes in the Senate and the house uh you have a lot of stor of this kind sometimes a soft approach sometimes a hard approach like there's I think this story where with BB there was uh a potential like a dramatic election coming up and you have to say no no excuses no delaying you have to we have to make this agreement I know BB cares about Israel more than the particular dynamics of the election like you have to draw a hard line there yeah but In fairness too like you know for him during the time that we were dealing with him he was always an election versus election and then election and and you know what he was saying wasn't wrong and I think he was more expressing his concerns given the Dynamics and you know we never held those concerns against him we just said those are real concerns he had we respected those concerns but then we helped him prioritize to help accomplish the right things and that's ultimately what the partnership is right I'm my job was to represent America his job was to represent Israel and you had other parties representing their own interests and as long as you assume that you know people were acting mostly in good faith you were able to navigate areas where you didn't have you know complete overlap of of priorities and objectives just to go back to the trust thing you sometimes see that with leaders where they're kind of it looks like they're trying to screw over the other person when they're talking and so not having that I think is a really powerful thing for earning trust like that people actually can believe that your results driven are and are working towards a certain end is there like a skill to that like what is that genetics you're born with that or is that something like you develop so basically it requires you to look at the game of politics and not have a kind of cynicism about it to where everybody's trying to man manipulate you and actually just go in with a kind of open mind and open heart and actually speak truthfully to people like on a basic human level I would say that I always would think about how can I be a partner to others like I would want somebody to be a partner to me and a lot of it comes from just my different experiences in business I've had great Partners I've had terrible Partners um my father uh you know again a lot of my my childhood was I was exposed to business my father uh you know on Sundays he would take us to to job sites into the office with him instead of to football games like my friends you know fathers would do and so we're exposed to business and what he would say about his father who was an immigrant uh to America came over with nothing had no formal education but he would always say a good good deal with a bad partner will always be a bad deal and a bad deal with a good partner you'll figure it out and so going through some of the challenges in that I had in my life early on whether it was uh the issue with with my father that we'll I'm sure we'll talk about or even going through some you know tougher financial times during the great financial crisis I really learned a lot about partnership and I always thought how can I act in a way where I could be the type of partner or friend to others that I wish others would be to me so when you look for a good partner don't you think there's the capacity for both good and bad in every person so when you talk when you negotiate with all these leaders aren't there like multiple people you're speaking to inside one person that you're trying to um encourage catalyze like the goodness in the human yeah so so lead leaders are generally chosen by their country country and so um my view was if I had an objective I didn't get to choose who was the leader of other countries my job was to deal with that leader understand their strengths understand their weaknesses understand their power dynamics as well you know one of my greatest takeaways when I grew up I'd read the newspapers about all these powerful famous people and then as I got older and had the chance to meet them and do business with them and then ultimately uh you know interact with them in government is I realized that they're just like you and me they wake up every morning you know their kids are pissed at them their wife doesn't want to talk with them you know and they've got you know a set of advisers around them one saying you know let's go to war one saying let's make peace one saying do the deal one saying don't do the deal and they're all thinking where do I get advice how do I make decisions and so understanding the true human nature of them and then the different power dynamics around them I thought was very key and so I didn't have a choice do I deal with them or not it was a function of how do you deal with them effectively in order to find areas where you have common interests and then work well together to pursue those common interests in order to achieve a certain goal you uh first of all you're incredibly well read I've gotten to know you and I've gotten to know ianka and the the book recommendation list is just incredible so first of all thank you for that you told me about the guns of August by Barbara tuckman it's a it's a book on World War I and I went down a whole Rabbit Hole there he like an incredible historian but anyway the there's a bunch of stuff you learn from that but one of the things you told me is it influenced your general approach to diplomacy of just picking up the phone and giving it a try so as opposed to planning and uh strategizing just pick up the phone yeah so so this was a book I read uh way before the notion of serving in government uh was ever even on my mind or or reality and I remember thinking about it reading it and thinking how World War I started where you had um you know somebody was assassinated and then you had all these different alliances that were created and then in order to accomplish objectives it triggered all of these um people getting in bed with everyone else because of documents that were created without the intent of going to a massive war and I think in the course of World War I it was one of the greatest uh atrocities that we've seen as Humanity we've had 16 million people killed in that war and I as I was reading the book I remember thinking to myself even though you know things are set in a certain way go sit with somebody go talk to them and say this doesn't make sense this is wrong how do we create a better pathway and as a civilian all my life you know I would read the newspapers I would I would I would you know observe how different leaders would act but when we had the opportunity to serve in government and have uh the position you realize you're not a civilian you don't have the luxury of sitting back and letting the world happen the way it's happening you have agency and you have uh the potential to influence the outcome of things and one thing I've seen is you know most political prognosticators are wrong anyone who tells you what's going to happen really has no clue and it's not because they're bad or they're not intelligent it's because nobody knows and at the end of the day the outcomes in the world are usually driven by the decisions of of humans and if you're able to come together form relationships listen to each other uh you can do that and one of the great examples uh that I speak about in the book is with North Korea where if you remember in 2017 it was very intense when President Obama was leaving office he told president Trump that the single biggest fear that he had and this is a time when the world was a mess you had uh the Middle East was on fire Isis was the heading journalists and killing Christians they to califate the size of Ohio Libya was destabilized Yemen was destabilized Syria was in a civil war where 500,000 people were killed Iran was on a Glide path to a nuclear weapon yet the single biggest fear he had was North Korea then it got compounded by the fact that we get into office and president Trump brings his generals around and he's you know learning how to interact with all the generals and says okay what are my options and they said calm down we've been using all of our ammunition in the Middle East we don't have enough ammunition to go to war over there and he says let's not let's not let that be due public let's try to restock and come up with a plan yeah and at the time there was a lot of banter back and forth and uh you know I was able to I got a call from a friend who was a an old business contact who actually had done business in North Korea and he said you know I'd love to find a way to solve this and I was getting calls from friends at the time saying I'm trying to go to Hawaii for a vacation should I not be going is it not safe I mean we forget we forget the psychology of how intense that was at the time and then through that interaction he caught some of his contacts in North Korea and then we were able with the CIA to open up a back channel that ultimately led to the the deescalation the meeting between Trump and Kim Jung good which led to a deescalation so that was really the mindset which was whenever there's a problem just pick up the phone and try and I think president Trump had a very similar approach which was let's let's give it a shot and he wasn't afraid to go after the hard ones too and I'll say one final thing on this which is that in politics the incentive structure is just much different than in the real world right in the sense that you have a hard problem then if you try to solve a hard problem the likelihood of failure is great whereas in the business world if you're going after a hard problem we celebrate those people right we we we want our entrepreneurs and our great people to go after solving the big hard problems but in politics if you try to take on a hard problem you have a high likelihood of failure you'll get a lot of criticism uh on your pathway to trying to accomplish that if you fail and then if you fail it has a higher probability of leading to you losing your opportunity to serve and so it's just one of these things where people want to play it safe which is not the notion that that that really was taken during the time that President Trump was in office do you think it has to be that way I think I think there's something in in the human Spirit like in the public that desires politicians to take big take on the big bold problems right like why why is it the politicians need to be so afraid of failure I don't think it has to be that way and that's I think one of the great lessons from the time of the the Trump Administration and he brought a lot of people from the business world into government uh the business people have a much different mindset than government people and there was a lot of resistance and I think part of why there was so much resistance was because you know I think about it from my personal sense was that if I was successful with no traditional qualifications to do diplomacy it meant that all the people with traditional qualifications and diplomacy didn't necessarily need those qualifications in order to be successful and that same that same sentiment manifested itself in many areas in government and and I think that in the business world it's it's outcome oriented it's results oriented and you know what we would see in in New York is there they would stab you in the eye and DC they would stab you in the back and it just became a whole different Dynamic of of of how you work through these different areas so the answer is it doesn't have to be that way you just need the right courageous leader and that's why I'm so optimistic about what the future of America and the world could be if you have the right people in power who are willing to take on the right challenges and do it in the right way so if we just lingered on the North Korea and the deescalation and the meeting what's the trajectory from this could be the most catastrophic thing that destroys the world to you find back channels you start talking and start arranging the meeting like is there some insights you can give to how difficult that is to do in that in in the North Korea case which seems like to be one of the more closed off parts of the world and in the other cases that you worked on yeah it's it's always very challenging and especially when you're going against the grain of what's established right we did something different to think that an old business contact that I had could then do it I mean that's the type of thing that you know if the Press knew what we were doing they would have you know derided it and criticized it in Every Which Way but that was one of the benefits of operating very much below the radar is that we were able to try all these different things and not all of them worked but some of them did and you know that is what's amazing about the world right this could be the biggest story on the front page of every paper and they're inciting fear and everyone and it's not illegitimate fear I mean there were missile tests uh you know over over Japan I mean you had a lot of uh very CH big challenges with that file and then all of a sudden we make contact we go through negotiations to set a meeting there's a meeting between President Trump and Kim Jung gun and then all of a sudden there's there's a framework um to try and move things forward um and again I think that there's a lot of possibil there for what could happen if it's worked in the right way I just want to know like how you word that first email or text message like what emojis to use like the hugging Emoji I it's just personally I've gotten to know a lot of powerful and uh rich people and just it's funny that they're all human just like you're saying and like a lot of the drama a lot of the problems can be resolved with just like a little camaraderie a little kindness a little like just actually just reaching out we're all human beings and and people want to be successful and people want to be good and and you're right too there's there's way more emojis involved in diplomacy than I ever would have expected but and every leader I'm sure has their favorite emoj this is also I learned about people they use like they there's the everybody has their go-to Emoji like I usually go to the heart very quickly Emoji there's some people who go the hugging whatever that where you're like do the hugging thing anyway uh this conversation quickly turn to the ridiculous but to do another book reference you mentioned the book 13 days in September by Lawrence Wright well in discussing all the work you've done in in Israel in the Middle East I just want to ask you sort of the interesting aspect of that book which is the influence of the personalities and personal relationships on these negotiations you kind of started to allude to that with the trust but how much do the personalities matter in this so going from North Korea to the Middle East here to within Congress and all that kind of stuff yeah completely in every way I mean that that that's an incredible book and it's a very entertaining read it has obviously a lot of good historical uh context on some of the key players whether it was on Mor sadad or Manan ban or Jimmy Carter and and and sance and and a lot of the others who were involved with those negotiations and the thing that I kind of took from that experience was just how personal it was and and again one of my favorite stories from that book was how anir sadad who was a big big leader he had a Mystic who was according to this book again history I I I like reading it but I always you know realize that you have to notice that this is just the perspective of a given author that's writing it but the way that they write this book was that he had an adviser who was a Mystic and the Mystic was having a back Channel with the Israelis and the Mystic told saddat if you go to Israel and you make a speech at the knesset bean is ready to give you the Sinai and so um he goes to Israel they set this whole thing up he goes and gives the knesset they go for their meeting after and Sadat says okay well are we going do this thing and Pagan says what are you talking about I'm not giving you an inch of our land and it was just one of these things where it was a miscommunication that brought about the symbolic visit of Anar sedat to Israel and that was one of these Notions that just made everyone think that something was possible that they thought was impossible a moment before actually we had an example like that during our time in government when we did the Abraham Accords uh the first step of the Accords was really a phone call between President Trump uh prime minister Netanyahu and Muhammad Ben zad who at that point was the Crown Prince and and de facto ruler of the UAE but all we had was a a phone call and then a statement that was released and what was interesting after that is we said okay well how do we integrate countries nobody's done this in a long time and we were trying to figure out all the issues and there's big miscommunications between Israel and UAE and we were navigating through all the issues and so after a couple weeks I said you know I've got to go over there and try to sort through these issues so we make a plan to go to Israel then we're go to UAE and then a young gentleman who worked with me named AI burkowitz says well if we're flying from Israel to UAE instead of flying on a government plane why don't we see if we can get an L plane and we'll do the first official commercial flight and so I said that's a great idea let's call you know Ambassador Alba Yousef who was a tremendous uh player in the Abraham Accord is working behind the scenes you know day and night and was really a big um a big catalyst so he calls youf and he said sure no problem let's give it a shot so so we go and we do it and he says if we can work out these issues what we'll do so we go to Israel we do our meetings we get everything back into a good place we set up this this this trip over we fly an LL plane we fill it up at the time it was during coid with a health delegation we had the the financial Ministry because we had to open up uh uh you know banking relationships they could wire money between countries uh we want to get you know Health Partnerships then we just had a lot of legal things and National Security things we wanted to start putting together so we do this flight and we end up uh Landing in UAE and the picture of Us coming off the plane being greeted by um you know Emirates and toes with a l plane with an Israeli flag on it just captured everyone's imagination and so was one of these things where it's like you work so hard on the details the negotiation I mean hundreds of hours to kind of make sure everything's perfect and the one thing that you do kind of you know yeah let's give it a shot that image ended up capturing everyone's heart so going back to sadad that visit was very critical and what was interesting was is according to this book it happened because of a miscommunication that was the first part the second part of the book that's just amazing theater and actually the book was based on a play was just going back and forth with all of the the different methodologies that they tried uh that failed but they kept trying out it and then ultimately seeing how the personalities were able to find ways to make the compromise that ultimately was a very very big thing for uh more stability in the Middle East and so amazing book I would highly recommend it a very entertaining read and and something that at least gave me encouragement to to keep going when the task I was pursuing seemed so so so large I mean if we could just Linger on the personalities you you write in the book that words matter or you you write in the context of saying uh in the diplomacy business words matter and then you said that we're in the results business is a badass line but um but if we just stick to the diplomacy business and uh words mattering it seems like one of the things you really highlight that individual words can really have like you can fight over individual words so like how do you operate in a world where like single words matter I think you have to be respectful to the craft that you're in where words matter but then realize that they don't matter as much and then also focus on the fact that you know the actions are actually what's going to matter more than the words and so you have a difference between leaders and politicians you know politicians are there to say the right thing and to hold the power leaders are people who are willing to do things that will be transformational from my perspective and so when I would think about um diplomacy words without actions or without the threat of actions and that was something that President Trump did very well was that people knew that he was willing to take take action he was very unpredictable in how he would act and that made our words much more effective in what they did so it's all a combination but you know coming from the private sector we were all about results right if you're in government you can work on something for 10 years and fail and then retire and they consider you an expert in the private sector if you work on something for 10 weeks and you don't have a success then you're unemployed you know so it's it's it's a different kind of notion and um and it was just understanding the mentality and trying to adjust and and Bridging the divides uh between the different trainings is that the biggest thing you took from your business background is that just be really result focused it was just the only way to be I mean if I was giving up uh you know a nice life in New York and if I was giving up you know the the stuff that I really enjoyed the company that i' I'd help build and you know the the the the the life that I was enjoying in order to do government I was going there to make a difference and you know we had to focus on it the other skill set so there was a couple skill sets that I found were quite deficient in government uh first of all there was a ton of amazing people I mean people talk about the bureaucracy uh what I found was is you had incredibly committed uh passionate intelligent capable people all throughout the government and what they were waiting for though was Direction um and then cover in order to get there and so there were a lot of tasks that I worked on whether it was you know building the wall at the southern border where I was able to work with uh you know Customs border patrol um you know Army core of engineers uh military DHS professionals uh DOD and we basically all came together and then once we had a good project management plan we were able to kind of move very very quickly I think we built about 470 mies of uh border barrier in about two years basically and that was very that worked very well because we basically brought private sector project management skill sets which uh which were quite often missing in government the second one is just you know we spoke about negotiation earlier I would say that most people in government it's just a different form of negotiation than you see in the private sector um and way less effective in that regard which is why I think it's good the more we can encourage more people with private sector experience to do a stint in government and to really try to contribute and serve their country that's how our Founders I mean George Washington and all the the founding fathers they they're working on their Farms they they left their Farm serving government then they went back to the farm and that was kind of the design of you know the representative government it wasn't a career political class it was you know people coming in to you know show gratitude for the freedoms and the Liberties that they enjoyed and then you know you know do their best to kind of you know help others have those same opportunities that they had and then they'd go back and live their lives and so um so I think that there's a lot of opportunity with our government of people with more business mindsets who are going to think about things from a Solutions uh perspective go and serve is that one of the main problems here so you you also mentioned the book The Great degeneration by uh Neil Ferguson an awesome historian he's been on this podcast it helped you understand the inefficiencies of government regulation I'd love it if you can give an insight into why government is so inefficient at times like when it is inefficient when it doesn't work why is that the case the bureaucracy that you spoke to uh the negative aspects of the bureaucracy so we don't have enough time on this podcast to go into it but it's uh there's there's a lot of aspects that work as well right but I do think we've gotten too big you know Neil's book that you mentioned you know one of the things that I took from that I read it I think in in 2012 right kind of in the middle of the great financial crisis was he was talking about how government regulation uh often was put in place to deal with old crises right so it was never going to solve future problems it was more to kind of create to solve for problems that had happened in the past and I remember thinking about that uh one thing I was very proud of of the work of the Trump Administration was that you had four years consecutively where there was a net decrease in the cost of regulations so to give you a context in the last year of Obama in 2016 there were 6 million man hours spent by the private sector complying with new federal regulations and that's not really what the intent of our government was right if we have rules or regulations those should be legislated by Congress they shouldn't be put in by you know by bureaucrats who are basically saying I want to follow this objective so using kind of the power of the pen in order to do that so the deregulatory effort was actually very critical to Trump's economic success that happened in the beginning of the administration and then what I saw with regulation was anytime either there was legislation or regulation coming the people pushing for it were usually the people who would benefit from the regulatory capture so you had these you know you look at you know the great financial crisis where you had these big banking reforms well what happened during the big banking reforms then you had a big reduction in the amount of banks that occurred and the big Banks became even bigger whereas I don't think that was the intention of the legislation but the people who were writing the legislation and influencing it had a lot of the constituencies from those larger institutions and then what happened as a result of that a lot of these smaller institutions didn't have the ability to uh be as competitive they had more restrictions more costs they became less profitable but these were the banks that were serving small business which is the biggest uh creator of jobs in our country and then as a result the bigger Banks got more powerful and what happened in the country as a result of the the regulations that they put in place the wealth Gap in the country grew it didn't shrink and so I think often times what they say these regulations are intended to be the result often becomes the opposite and so you know what what president Trump did and his administration was they did a massive deregulatory effort and I think they pledged that for every one regulation they put on because you do need some regulation in an economy and in a society uh they would take off too and in the first year they limited eight regulations for everyone and so um so that was just something I took from it which which was uh I thought very interesting and you had to really I think you just have to think through what are the consequences going to be of the different actions you take and often government gets it wrong by taking an action that feels right but has big negative consequences down the road let's go to some difficult topics uh you wrote In the book about your experience with some very low points in government uh you've been attacked quite a bit uh one of the ones that stands out is the accusations of collusion with Russia and you tell in the book in general this whole story this whole journey on a personal level on a sort of big political level uh can you tell me some aspects of the story sure so to give the listeners some context um and people remember this now it's been kind of Swept Away uh because it turned out not to be true was that after president Trump uh won the election 2016 instead of the media saying we were wrong because again everyone thought he had zero chance of of winning they said okay well we couldn't have been wrong it must have been the Russians who worked with him and so at first when this started coming up I thought this was ridiculous I mean I I was very intimately involved with the operations of the campaign I was running the finan of the campaign I was running the digital media of the campaign I was running the the the the the the schedule for the campaign and I knew that on most days we had trouble like you know work working coordinating with ourselves you know let alone you know you know collaborating with another government and or colluding as they called it and so um we did a great job I think as an underdog campaign very leanly staffed and then they said that you know we were working with the Russians and so um at the time I didn't take it too seriously because I knew there was no truth to it but it was amazing to me to start seeing all of these institutions whether it was CNN The Washington Post New York Times these were news organizations that I grew up having a lot of respect for taking these accusations so seriously and then working themselves up in order to um in order to just cover it for two years then as a result you had a special counsel you had a a house investigation a senate investigation and I personally spent about I think over 20 hours uh just you know testifying before uh these different committees uh again spent millions of dollars of out of my own pocket on my legal fees uh to make sure I was well represented and the reason I did that was because I saw Washington it was like a sick game right it's almost like you know even though there was no underlying problems to the accusation um I felt like this is one of those things where they're going to try to catch you and then if you step on the line they catch you with one misrepresentation they're going to try to put you in jail or worse you know and so for me that was a big concern so and it was amazing I mean my my my poor mom you know I told her to stop you know reading whatever I said I promise you we didn't do anything wrong it's good but you know she'd call me and say well you know our friends were you on the upper side were talking with Chuck Schumer says Jared's going to jail you know we know for sure that he colluded with the Russians and this is like a leading Senator saying things like this and so it was just interesting for me to see how the whole world could believe something and be talking about it that I knew with 1,000% certainty was just not true and so seeing that play out was very very hard obviously you know I was accused of a lot of things there were times in Washington I was radioactive I remember one weekend um you know it was all over CNN you know the people they panels on CNN like the news organization that I grew up thinking was like the number one trusted name for news in the world talking about how I'd committed treason because I met with an ambassador and said we'd like to hear your perspective on what you think the policy should be in Syria where there was a big Civil War happening and and and Isis and a lot of different things so it was quite a crazy time in that regard but luckily again we we were able to fight through it it was a major distraction for our Administration U I think we were able to kind of stay focused on the objectives and the policies uh but it was a crazy time and I I learned a lot uh from that experience it's crazy how just an accusation can be viral and can just go one of the things that worries me is the effect on your mind the psychology of it to make sure it doesn't make you cynical like people that trying to do stuff those kinds of stories that can destroy their mind so one of the things I'd love to sort of understand you who kind of rolled in from the business world and all of a sudden the the entire world from CNN to everybody is accusing you of colluding with the Russians like what do you uh like when you're sitting at home how do you keep a Calm Mind a clear mind an optimistic one that doesn't become cynical and actually just keep trying to push on and do stuff in the world yeah so it was a surreal experience um I would say number one is I I felt very confident that I hadn't done anything wrong so you know I'd always tell my lawyer like you know the good news is I've got a good fact problem right like I need a a good lawyer to get me through it but it's it's much easier to be a good lawyer if you have a very innocent client and so you know the fact that I knew that I didn't have I I didn't believe that I had any legal liability helped me kind of intellectually separate the challenge I needed to do to fight through it from it and then I just basically said like you know I'd had hardship earlier in my life where I dealt with the situation with my father and what I realized there is that you can't really spend energy on the things that you don't control all you do is spend your time and energy worrying about what you can control and then how you react to the things that you have there and so it took a lot of uh a lot of discipline it took a lot of strength and again I give my wife uh vonka and even Donald a lot of credit for um you know for kind of having my back during that time and and and you know encouraging me just to kind of fight through it um and then I also had to make sure that I didn't allow that to distract me from my job I felt like I had an amazing opportunity in the White House to make a difference in the world and if I would have spent all my time playing defense you know in politics it's a Time duration game in business you have whatever duration you set for yourself in politics it's time duration we had four years um every day with sand through an hourglass my mindset was I need to accomplish as much as I can in these four years and I guess the traditional game that's played in Washington is whether it's the media the opposition their job is to distract you and then try to stop you from being as successful as you want to be and so just fought through it and um wasn't always fun but we we got through and and thank God it's um it's something people don't talk about and it has been amazing to me just the lack of self-awareness and and reflection of a lot of the people who hyped this up for for two years they don't think there was anything wrong with it and and that's uh interesting but you know my view is we got through it it's good so it's in the past and then I started moving to the Future and that's really where I spent time yeah but I want to linger on it because to me that has a really discouraging effect on anyone who's trying to do positive in the world like these kinds of attacks are intense yeah I mean you you say kind of one of the lessons you learned is that you really have to be perfect but I hate that to be the lesson like I feel like you should be able to do stupid stuff take big risks and like people celebrate the big risks and not try to weave gigantic stories over over nothing I just want to kind of understand the two aspects of this how to not have such stories of so much legs and the other is how to stay psychologically strong you kind of waved it off that you didn't have a fact problem but it can just have a effect on your psyche yeah you seem to be pretty stoic about the whole thing but like how I just on the psychology side how did you stay uh calm and not become cynical where you can continue to do stuff and take big risks I didn't have a choice what do you mean I mean I could have spent every day feeling sorry for myself or complaining or saying things aren't fair but the the general way I I looked at it was that in life every opportunity has a cost and you know you could look at it and say maybe this was a massive cost either in in dollars or in time or in reputation or in or in um or in in emotional drain but you could also say that you know I had an opportunity to work in the white house and I had an opportunity to work on some of the hardest challenges and you talk about how that's not celebrated that is something very different in the private sector when you take on big challenges that is celebrated in government when you take on big challenges people want to see it fail or they want to criticize those people who are trying to take that on and I think that's wrong and I think that you know as a country we should be thinking big we should be dreaming big and we should be encouraging our politicians to try and to fail more and to you know to to go and to uh to take on big things knowing that there's risk of failing obviously want them to succeed not to fail but but let's take on the big things let's try to do that um so I think it's just very basic that you know you're in a situation I've made decisions I can't go back and change decisions in the past I still felt you know very blessed to be in the position I was in and I knew that I just had to work through it and like I said I was very lucky to have you know support from my wife and from my family and from good friends again I I think i' I'd chosen very good friends in life and my friends were with me I had one friend who who you know my lowest moment uh you know got on the plane you lived in Arizona got on a plane and came just have dinner with me to say just just pick your head up I know you're down now you're going to be fine just just fight through that meant a lot to me and again I I always think in my life you know you don't learn as much from your successes you don't learn as much from your high points you learn the most about who you want to be and how the world works from your lowest moments and at those lowest moments it just it made me better and it taught me how to be a better friend to people who are in tough situations um and I tried to just get get tougher and I tried to just get better and work through it yeah you said that you and Ivanka it this this this intense time brought you to together and helped you kind of deal with the intensity with the chaos of it all so I think it was just number one knowing that you had a partner and knowing that you had somebody who who loved you and believed in you I think that was definitely by far the biggest of anything and Love Is The Answer love is very important uh but then there's also a lot that I've learned from her uh always um you know getting me to to read different books or or learn different things which I love but uh she's also I think an amazing role model and I I go through our time in Washington where uh there were so many people who were I thought very um nasty to her unfoundedly and I'm not talking about individually because again you know most people interacted with her were super kind but I would see people um you know on Twitter different places go after and she always stayed elegant and I I felt like that was something that she never stooped down to a lower level she kept her Elegance the whole time and she really went to Washington wanting to be a force of good and I see all the time that she she follows her heart she does what's right um and she has a very strong uh moral compass and and I I feel very lucky to have her as a partner and I I respect her tremendously yeah she walks to the fire with Grace I would say and she's recommended a bunch of amazing books to me and she's she has an an incredible a fascinating mind so uh but one thing that jumped out to me is you both love diners Jersey diners so I I lived in Philly for a while and I've you know I traveled quite a bit and traveling from Boston down to Philly maybe to DC you can drive through Jersey that's something about Jersey I don't know what it is it's the best you listen to Bruce Springsteen there's a uh Lucy K has this bit where I think it's part of criticizing cell phones today where people are too much on their phone they don't just sit there be bored but he's uses that story to tell where he's just driving and the Bruce Springsteen's song comes on and he just wants to pull over to the side of the road and just like weep for no unexplainable reason um and I think that's true because life is difficult life is full of suffering or struggle or challenge or so there some sometimes it's Bruce Springstein but like some kind of song like this can really make you reflect on life that Melancholy feeling but that Melancholy feeling is the other side of the happiness coin where if you just allow yourself to feel that pain you can also feel the highest Joys that's the sort of the point Lucy K makes and there's something about jersey with the diners often late at night there's several Diner experiences I should say okay there's like the familyfriendly there's a nice waitress and this a sweetness a kindness like hello sweetheart that kind of thing there's also like the 3:00 a.m. Diner where you're like the ones that are open 24 hours mhm that has a romantic helmet when you're a young man or young woman you're like traveling the loneliness of that it's all of it mm the American Diner is like from like Jack caroak on represents something I'm not sure what that is but it's like a real beautiful experience and the food itself too oh always fresh yeah the thing with Diner there's so much to love about it and I grew up obviously in New Jersey when I'd go uh you know with my father to to business he'd always stop we'd eat at a diner late night I'd be coming back with my friends we'd stop at a diner and it's a tradition that aanka and I love doing as well and I think there's there's a notion of it's very egalitarian and that you know people from all places are there uh you could order basically whatever you want I mean the the the menus at the diners look like the phone book great and it's amazing how they keep you know so much fresh ingredients to do it at least the good ones do uh I love as a jersey guy you get mozzarella sticks and uh and an omelet you know at any hour of the day because most of them are open 24 hours and that's uh basically my my ianka and my go-to will throw in a milkshake or two as well but for for me as a kid you know my father would take me sometimes I'd sit with him in the meeting sometimes I'd be at the table next to him he' give me a bunch of quarters to put in the the music machine that they would have on the the wall and it was always just a great experience uh doing it in Jersey and I joke that you know if you grow up in Jersey you grow up with just just enough of a chip on your shoulder that you have to go and make something of yourself in life it's a it's a special place I had an amazing childhood there and uh very very proud to be from the state and I I will just give a little bit of a plug now because the state has now actually turned the corner and and they had A1 billion budget surplus for many years um you know it was a state that was basically bankrupt and uh and now actually under a pretty Progressive Democrat Governor Phil Murphy uh he's turned the state around and it's actually has a very uh bright future ahead and it's it's probably one of the best places uh to raise a family in the country right it's got very low crime one of the best public school systems in the country uh pretty good Healthcare System a lot of uh green Parks people know the turnpike but it's got a lot to it uh that's really great so I'm a big big fan of Jersey in I like how this is the first for this particular podcast you literally gave a plug to a state so New Jersey everybody go it's where it's at it's there South Jersey there North Jersey I mean all there's all kinds of jerseys too I mean the whole thing it just I and don't get me started on the Jersey Shore Lex that's Jersey Shore is whole thing and I'm not talking about the snooky part I'm talking about the real nice parts great food great people me nice Parts it's all beautiful the full range of human characters that are in New Jersey are all beautiful I agree with that and every time I travel across the world there's always to meet somebody from New Jersey and you kind of give a knot of deep understanding it's the cradle of civilization manys okay so back I don't know how we got there oh all right going back to the the low points you mentioned your father if we could just return there uh even just the personal story of uh your father of that you write about that of the Betrayal that happened in his life and then how he responded to that betrayal and he was after that arrested can you just tell the story sure um so my father uh is an amazing person and uh we grew up in New Jersey my father was a big developer a great entrepreneur built an amazing business um he got into a dispute with uh two of his siblings and through that dispute they basically took all of the documents in his company went to the US attorney's office and um and uh you know turned into from a a civil dispute into a real public dispute my father did something you know wrong in that process and you know when he got arrested for that he basically said you know what what I did was wrong and he he took his medicine and he he did it like a man and he said I'm going to go to prison and and he did that for a year and so uh for me uh that that was a very uh challenging time uh in the family obviously you know I it was a shock it it was a total change I mean I grew up my my childhood was I think a very nice childhood you know my parents always said you know do good in school work hard um you know I was very um uh very focused on my Athletics I was captain of the basketball team captain of the hockey team uh you know I ran a marathon with my father and it was always about pursuing went uh went to Harvard graduated with honors and then was in NYU pursuing a law degree and a business degree and I was working at the Manhattan District Attorney's office at the time actually thinking I wanted to go into public service um because my father always taught us we were always surrounded by politicians and he always said you know my parents came to America they lived in the land of opportunity and they had these opportunities uh because this is the best country in the world and so you should you know be successful work hard don't ever let your opportunities become your disadvantages because you have advantages in life you have to work harder and that's what he instilled in myself and my brother and always pushed us to make the most of ourselves and when we did that um you know everything changed overnight when my father got arrested obviously it's very embarrassing for a family when you're on the front page of the papers I would see uh the newspapers writing all these things about my father that I didn't think were representative of the person that I knew um it was uh a big change for our family and you know I was angry I was angry I said you know I could be angry at at the prosecutor I could be angry at uh my father's brother I could be angry at my father's lawyers I could be angry at my father for for making this mistake and then I kind of said that's not going to change anything and I had a real shift and I I do think that that was a turning point in my life where I basically said let me focus on the things I can control let me focus on the positive things I can do and from that moment forward I said how can I be a great son to my father how could I be a great uh older brother slash you know substitute father for my my two sisters my younger brother how could I be there for my mother how could I be there for my father's business and I just went into to to battle mode and I put my I my my my I put my armor on and I just you know ran into it and for the next two years it was uh every day was painful I mean I was dealing with banks I was dealing the company was still at subpoenas I was still in law school I I tell my father I wanted to drop out of law school and business school but he said please don't so I would basically go to law school one day a week or maybe I'd skip it most days and i' go to his office every day and my friends would that if my professors wanted to fail me the the the law professor would have to give me a test that had four pictures and say Circle who your professor is you know but I would basically take a week off I'd read the books and I did well and I got my degrees um and uh it was just a very very challenging time but like I said to you before is that you learn the most about life and you learn the most about humanity and yourself when you're in your most challenging periods and I'll say that you know that experience also changed you know the people I interacted with spending weekends with my father down in in a prison in Alabama I met the other inmates I met their families um I spent time then trying to advise the children of other people who were going through the same experience that I'd gone through on how to navigate it you know correctly and you just learn a lot about the world and you see that you know in life everything could get taken from you your status your money your friends I saw that certain people were uh very disloyal to my father at the time who he thought were friends it was only a handful but again I learned from those people how can I be a true friend to people how can I be better and I I learned a tremendous amount uh through that experience you're right that your father told you about being humbl I'd love to ask you about this that in life sometimes you get so powerful that we start to think we're the dealers of our own fate we're not the dealers God is the dealer sometimes we have to be brought back down to earth to get perspective on what is really important what do you think he meant by that what did what did you learn from that experience what the way I interpreted at the time and those were very very memorable words and it occurred I was down after I picked up my father from the AR arraignment I drove him down I drove the car and my father and I are very very close and he didn't say a word for the whole time and I think he was processing um number one what was happening to him and I I couldn't even imagine but I actually think the bigger pain for him because my father is such a committed person to the family is like did I let my family down did I let my kids down and I do think he felt at that moment like his life was over uh he couldn't really see past what this challenge was going to bring and if there would be a life for him after it so I I could see that he had a lot of fear and he really wasn't saying much and then I didn't know what to do and so I just stood by him and stood close and you know later that that that day or the next day he got up and started walking he had an ankle monitor for whatever reason the prosecutor was such a so aggressive he was a Flight Risk so they made him wear an ankle monitor they were very very aggressive and nasty and at the time my father was the biggest uh donor to Democrats the prosecutor was a republican it was a very political thing and um and what happened was is uh he was walking around the pool and I just started walking with him and he said to me you know Jared in life sometimes we get so powerful that we believe that we're the dealer he says but we're not the dealer God's the dealer and we have to you know come down to earth to understand like you said so what I took from that was that my father with all of his success had started to believe that that maybe certain rules didn't apply to him and I think that that's where he made a mistake and I think he had a lot of regret that he made the mistake and you know my father is a very humble person he's a very moral person um you know for me with my humility my my brother and I joke that we give our credit for being humble number one to being Mets fans because uh every year you have a lot of promise and then it never ends up paying off although now with Steve Cohen hopefully we on a different trajectory but the other thing is also our mother you know our mother really raised us um to be very humble to be um you know we had we knew we had a lot but every Sunday morning my mom was there clipping the coupons the cereal we ate in our house was based on um you know was based on what was on sale versus what we liked you know when we would have a problem with our teachers in school and I'd say well the teacher doesn't like me she'd say well I'm not calling them it's your job to make the teacher like you and so my mother gave us a lot of that my father gave us a lot of the in and I think during that time my father was just realizing that maybe he had gotten disconnected from the the grounding and the values and and again I think he also accepted maybe he could have you know blamed others for acting inappropriately but I respect the fact that he took responsibility himself and said I can't control the actions of other people I can't control what they do is right and wrong I can just control my actions and um as I go on the next Journeys in my life and I I go to government I go to Washington I mean I I even think through the the craziness of going from you know visiting my father in a prison to 10 years later sitting in the office in the white house next to the president of the United States and like I think about that story and that it's it's a story that only God could write and I I really believe that you have to have a lot of faith because the lows and the highs are both so extreme and unbelievable that I feel like those low moment ments in some ways allowed me to keep my grounding and to understand what was truly important in life for when I ended up going through those other moments your father was betrayed perhaps over money by siblings um is there some deeper wisdom you can draw from that have have you seen money or perhaps power cloud people's judgment oh 100 100% 100% is there some kind of optimistic thing you can take from that about about human nature of how to escape that clouding of judgment when you're talking about leaders when you're talking about uh government even business as you mentioned there's a power dynamics at Play Always when you're negotiating mhm is there a way to see the common humanity and not see the sort of Will To Power in the whole thing definitely you know you mentioned about power money corrupting there's a great uh quote I heard a friend of mine is a guy Michael Harris who was one of the founders of Death Row Records and you know he was being interviewed recently and they asked him about what happened with shook Knight and his line was you know money just makes you more of what you already are which I thought was a very elegant way of saying it and I I would see this time and time again in the white house where you had people who were now given a lot of responsibility and power and it went to their head and they they they acted very crazily and um maybe didn't act in a way that I thought was always conducive to the objective so I think it's a very big problem that you have uh whether it's it's something that's solvable I think it's about having the right leaders and and hopefully for the leaders having good friends I mean I'm still friends with a lot of the people I interacted with when I was in government and you know the number one thing I try to be to to them is just a good friend I try to be somebody who they can talk about things with I don't go in trying to tell them what to do on different things or um you know or or and I think that that's a big thing is that people just need friends and they need conversation and if they have that then hopefully that allows them to keep their head in the right place I think this is a good place to ask about one aspect of the fascinating work you've done which is on prison reform can you take me through your journey of uh uh helping the the bipartisan Bill get pasted just working on prison reform in the White House in general how you made that happen how you help make that happen sure um so uh we passed a a law called the first step act which was the largest prison and Criminal Justice Reform Bill that's been done maybe in 30 40 50 years in the US and so uh what it basically did was two things number one is it took the prison system and it took a certain class of offenders and allowed them to become eligible for earlier release if they go through the certain trainings that will allow them to have a lower uh probability of going back so you know stepping back you look at the prison system you say what's the purpose is it to punish is it to Warehouse is it to rehabilitate and I do think that you know we're a country that believes in second chances I saw firsthand uh when my father was a client of the system how inefficient it was and how much better it could be and you know when my father got out we didn't run from that experience he started hiring people from Riker's Island and and U you know different prisons into the company into a second chance uh program which we're very very proud of doing and what we saw through our micro experience was that if you give people mentorship if you give them go job training uh a lot of people you know leave they have addiction issues um and they can't find housing and so you know people leave prison with a criminal record and they're less likely to go back and reintegrate in society without help from from from different institutions that can help them do that so we modeled the reforms off of what they did in Texas and Georgia and states where they basically put a lot of job training alcohol and addiction treatment programs in the prisons as a way to incentivize the prisoners to work on themselves while they're there in order to allow them to re-enter Society uh it's turned out to be very successful so far they just had a report that showed that uh the general population has had a 47% re recidivism rate meaning that people who leave federal prison half of them go back and people who have now taken this program only 12% of them go back so number one you're making Community safer because if people are going to now get a job and enter Society instead of committing future crimes you're avoiding future crimes and number two um you're giving people a second chance at life and so that was the first part of it the second thing we did was there was a rule pass in the 90s that basically penalized uh crack cocaine at 100 times the penalty of what uh regular cocaine was and I think a lot of the motivations what people say in retrospect was that was more of a black drug drug and cocaine was more of a white drug and so there was a really racial disparity in terms of what the application of these sentences were so um they they then revised that to make it 18 to1 and what we did in this bill is we allowed it to go retroactive to allow people who were in prison with sentences under the what we thought was the racist law to be able to make an application to a judge in order to be dismissed and it was based on good behavior um you know being re abilitate and the fact that they would have a low probability of offending in the future and so that was really the meat of it and there was a couple other things in there we did as well which were also uh quite good so uh we did it um worked very closely with the Democrats Republicans uh to do it at first president Trump was a little bit skeptical of it because he's a big strong Law and Order uh supporter but he made me work very hard to put together a coalition of Republicans and Democrats and law enforcement we had the support from uh from the the the the the policemen we had the support from the ACLU and ultimately we were able to get it together and it was an amazing thing we ended up getting 87 votes in the Senate um you know this was happened for me at a time um it was while the Russia investigation stuff was still happening uh new Chief of Staff came in John Kelly he basically marginalized me in the operations so I had kind of less day-to-day responsibilities in the White House and so for me this effort became one of my full-time efforts along with uh negotiating the Mexico trade deal and along with the Middle East efforts and the reason why that was great was because it didn't have a lot of support uh from the Republican caucus originally and people thought there was no way it would happen so I really was able to be the chief executive the middle executive the low executive the intern and through that process I really got an education on how Congress works on how to pass legislation I was negotiating text I was negotiating back and forth uh and I built a lot of trust again I would deal with whether it's hem Jeff or Cedric Richmond we built a lot of trust we'd speak three times a day these guys had my back uh the the ACLU again I never thought they were suing our administration every day or every other day on something but for whatever reason we built trust and we're able to work together and um and then also with the real conservative groups because there was a lot a big part of the conservative base that felt like we should be giving people a second chance and in addition to that this will keep our country safer and it will reduce the cost of what we spend on prisons and so uh it was a great uh effort and I was very very proud that we're able to get it done under President Trump how did you con convince the Republicans so they were skeptical at first are we talking about like just phone conversations going out to lunch just the back to the Emojis or what hand toand combat meetings you know like the cool thing about this so everyone always says I always get frustrated when I hear a lawmaker say oh the Senate's not what it used to be or congress isn't what it used to be uh things are broken today I don't think that's true I think you know going through the process I think that our Founders were were totally genius in the way that they designed our system of government and what I saw is you just have to work it so everyone knows the power of their vote some would give it to me easily some wouldn't give it to me easily some would trade it for other things some would withhold it because they were pissed about other things and it was just hand-to-hand combat so it's just making calls using the phone going walking in the Halls going to lunches you know hosting dinners at my house it was just it was a Non-Stop lobbying effort and by the way it was also adjudicating issues and making people people feel like they were heard hearing their issues and then trying to find solutions that you don't put something in that then tips off where you lose you know a whole Coalition so it was really a balancing act but it was a an amazing thing and uh worked very closely on that with Van Jones and Jessica Jackson who also gave me a lot of help on the left and um and it was an amazing thing had a great team too so you mentioned the importance of trust at the very beginning of the conversation uh from The Outsider perspective just the maybe a dark question which is like how much trust is there in Washington how how much the flip side of that how much backstabbing is there can you form like long-term relationships with people on a basic human level where you know you're not going to be betrayed screwed over manipulated for again going back to the old money and power yeah the answer is yes and the answer is no so I I made some incredible friends lifelong friends through my time in Washington but the way I I I think about it from politics and I think in geopolitics as well is I would say that politicians really don't have friends politicians have interests and as long as you kind of Follow that rule you should be able to know how to rate where your relationship with a given person falls in the Spectrum but I do think I was the exception I I did make some tremendous friends and again I'd go back to what I said about negotiation where you know when you're in a situation where there's really nothing in it for any of you personally but you're in a fox all together and nobody in Washington can get anything done by themselves you have people coming from all different backgrounds all different experiences all different geographies coming together agreeing on an objective creating a plan and then everyday rowing together in order to get it done it's a beautiful thing and you really learn what people are about and so when you go through an experience like that you learn who's in it for themselves you learn who's in it for the cause and you know for every you know thing you read about in The Press of a fight I had with somebody because we were at odds you know I have about you know 100 people who have become lifelong friends because I respect the way that when we were under Fire together they got better they were competent and they were there to serve for the right reason and so uh so I guess the answer is yes it it it is it is possible you have to be careful because there are a lot of Mercurial people there I always say the politicians are like Gladiators um I didn't have as much respect for politicians till I got there but if you think about it everyone who's got a congressional seat or a senate seat there's 25 people back at home who want their job who think they're smarter than them who are trying to backstab them and so I always say that the political Dynamic it's like in the private sector you're standing on on flat ground you choose which fights you take on when you take them on how you fight them in politics it's like you're standing on a ball and what you have to realize is that there's maybe like 10 things that you have to do but there's a potential cost to taking on each one that might destabilize you you fall off the ball and then you lose your opportunity to pursue those you have to always be kind of marking everything to Market and going through your calculations to make sure you can accomplish what you want to without falling off the ball and losing your opportunity to make a difference I guess people like power and I just feel like to be a good politician you should be willing like good meaning good for Humanity be willing to let go of power you know try to do the right thing if there's somebody back home that does manipulative stuff screws you over and takes power from you it's okay I feel like that kind of humility is is required to be a great leader and I feel like that's actually a good way to have long-term power because karma has a viral aspect to it just doing good by others I feel like is uh I'd like to say that's true Lex I I think it's just way more complicated I mean you look what happened this week with with Kevin McCarthy right he did what he thought was morally right um he thought you know he did a bipartisan deal uh he was told that you know they would have his back and then the moment things got tough they they cut him loose so again I don't know if that's that's if that was the right thing or the wrong thing right I've also seen leaders on the other ends say I'm going to do things that are shortterm more selfish but the way they justify to themselves is to say I believe that myelf staying in power is existential to the greater good so I will do things that maybe are not in the greater good now because I believe that my maintaining power is and so it's it's complicated I in an idealized World I'd love to believe that's the case but it's just way more complicated than that yeah I wish it wasn't but it is yeah maybe I I do just wish people zoomed out when people in politics zoomed out a bit and just ask themselves what are we all doing this for you know like sometimes you can get like a little bit lost in the game of it if you zoom out you realize like Integrity is way more important than like little gains of money or little gains in power in the long term just when you look yourself in the mirror at the end of the day and also how history remembers you I just feel like people do some dark stuff when they're like in that moment when they're losing power and they try to hold on a little too hard MH this is when this is when they can do really dark things like bring out the worst in themselves and it's just sad to see and I wish there was a kind of Machinery of government would inspire people to be their best selves in their last days or versus the war cells right when that system gets invented you know you'll you'll share with me what it is but it's uh look let me give you another way to frame it which is and this was kind of the the revelation we spoke before about you know kind of when I was getting my butt kicked by the russan investigation and all the different areas but kind of the basic framework I looked at was I said okay you know this all feels tough but I said the game's the game The Game's been here you know way longer you know way before I came and it'll be here way long after I leave and so I have two choices I can complain that the game's tough it's not fair it's not moral or I can go and I can try to play the game as hard as possible and I think that there's two different things right you have people who are willing to kind of sit in the stands and they're willing to yell at the Players or make their their their points known or you have people who are willing to suit up and get in the arena and go play and um I have a lot of respect for the people who who suit up and go play and and again some of them you know I wish they would play for different means but the fact that they're willing to put their name on the ballot make the sacrifice and go put on the pads and get hit and hit others I I think that you need those people and I wish more people who had maybe the moral wiring that you discussed would be putting on a helmet and going to play because it's hard it's hard I agree with you I just would love to fix the aspect of the the Russia collusion accusation the virality the power of that that's a really discouraging thing for for people maybe it's the way it has to be but it's it's it seems like a disincentive people uh to participate it it is but I'll give you again an optimistic side of it is that you know what you're seeing now with social media is I do think with what's Happ happening at X there is now more of a reversion towards more egalitarian right and egalitarianism of information and so for many years the media Publications were the gate holders they were The Gatekeepers and then you had these social media companies that grew they became so powerful but then they were tilting the scales why they were doing it you know we can go through long explanations for that but if there truly is a real forum and a democratization of of information then you would think that the marketplace of ideas would surface the real ones and discredit the non-real ones and I think that as a society we're starting to kind of come to grips with the fact that the power Dynamic is changing and that some of these institutions that we used to have a lot of faith in don't deserve our faith and some of them you know will actually reform and maybe earn our faith so I think that there there there could be an optimistic tone again the the years of trump I think that you know he was an outsider and you know he represented something that was existential for this to the system right you think about for the 30 years before you were either part of you know the Clinton Dynasty or the bush Dynasty I think a lot of people in the country felt like that whole class whether you wearing a red shirt or a blue shirt wasn't representing them and Trump represented a true Outsider to that system and I do think that as he went in there there was a lot of norms that were broken to try to stop him from changing the traditional power structure so I think that we're at a time where maybe there will be an optimistic breakthrough where you'll have institutions that will allow for a lot more transparency into what truth really is I'd love to go back and talk to you about the Middle East because there's so many interesting components to this let's talk about Saudi Arabia and first let me ask you about NBS Muhammad B Salman the Crown Prince so you've got to know him pretty well youve become friends with him what's he like as a human being just on a basic human level what's he like so for for the listeners Muhammad Ben Salman is now the Crown Prince of Saudi Arabia uh he has risen to that position over the last couple of years and uh he's been a tremendous reformer for the country he's gone in and he's uh really modernized the econ economy he's he's put a lot more investment into the country he's um marginalized the religious police and he's really done a good job to bring modernization a lot of Reform so he's been a great reformer uh what he's like as a person is he's um very high energy uh he's got uh tremendous uh candle power very very smart uh incredibly well read when he was younger uh his father would would give him a book a week and make him report on it on on the weekend uh he was trained as a as a leader and as a politician uh really by his father he's not Western educated so he grew up um in the Saudi culture and he's a real Saudi nationalist he he loves their history loves their Heritage uh has a deep understanding of of of the tribal nature of the region and um you know his father was actually known to be a tremendous politician so when he was governor of Riad people who I speak to today about him say that if they had a full election he would have won in a landslide they say every time some Somebody went to the hospital he was the first person to call anytime there was a funeral he was the first person to show up he was a very very beloved leader um uh Muhammad Ben Salman he was a businessman before he got into uh Crown Prince so he uh thinks really with a business mindset about how he runs the country and he's brought I think a different mindset and energy uh to the Middle East um you know one thing I'll I'll I'll say maybe that comes to mind here is that I remember early on um talking with him about all the different initiatives he was taking on he's building a big city called neom in in the desert in a place where there really was nothing on the Red Sea and a lot of people were criticizing the ambition of the plan and I was sitting with him one night and I said you know why why are you taking on all these things you know you've got a lot of different programs but you know what most politicians do is they set lower expectations and then they exceed the expectations and he looked at me without hesitation he says Jared you know the way I look at it is that in five years from now if I set five goals and I achieve five goals I'll achieve five things if I set a 100 goals and I fail at 50 of them then five years I've accomplished 50 things and so it's a very different mindset as a leader the way I I got to work with him was um Saudi Arabia was a big uh Topic in the campaign president Trump was basically saying during the campaign that you know we're gonna you know they've got to pay for their fair share they haven't been a great partner in in the region he's very critical of Saudi and then during the transition I was asked by several friends to meet with a representative of Saudi Arabia I said I don't want to meet with them you know but I came over and I met and they said well we want to make changes and I said well you have to make changes uh you know to how you treat women then women couldn't drive they had guardianship laws so you got to start working with Israel um you know you have to be paying more of your fair share and you have to be you know stopping the wahhabism um that that's being spread and again I know knowledge these were just kind of the traditional talking points about Saudi Arabia so the guy I was with basically said it was a guy F El tuni um who's a very respected Minister there he says uh Jared says you know you don't know much about s Arabia do you I said no no no I don't just really what I really what I I've kind of been told or what I read and he says okay let me let me do this we want to be great allies with America we've we've traditionally been great allies with America can I come back to you with a proposal on ways that we can make progress on all of the different areas where we have joint interests and keep in mind at that point in time the Middle East was and probably the single biggest issue we had um after Isis was the ideological battle if you remember in 2016 there was the Pulse Nightclub shooting in Orlando you had the San Bernardo shooting and people were being radicalized online uh with the extremism and then there was a lot of crimes that were being H that were happening because of that and it was a big Topic in the campaign and so that when I was thinking about you know talking different generals and what capabilities the US had to really combat the extremism and the ideological battle what we realized was that Saudi Arabia is the custodian of the two holiest sites in Islam the um Mecca Med uh that that would be the best partner to work with if they were willing to but for years they really hadn't been willing to kind of lean into this fight so I said sure give a proposal so they come back give a proposal and they said look if you make president Trump's first trip to Saudi Arabia um we will do all these different things we'll increase our military spending and cooperation we'll counter all the teror financing unbelievable layer so I took the proposal I went to the National then it was General Flynn I said if Saudi Arabia did these things would this be considered a big deal unbelievable but it will never happen I said well they're telling me they want to do these things again I having no foreign policy experience I'm just saying I've got somebody telling me they want to do it and that's kind of where we started we get into office I don't think much more about it and then I think it was like maybe a month in president Trump has a call with King salon and before the call we're in the oville office and the president's basically saying well you know this is what we want to go through and I have uh secretary Mattis and secretary Tillerson the minister of defense and the Secretary of State basically saying um you have to deal with mbn mbn is is the guy who's been our partner for all these years he's the head of intelligence and he's been a great partner I said well if he's been a great partner then why do we have all these problems that you guys are complaining about with Saudi I said I've been told that we have this proposal from MBS who's the deputy Crown Prince and that's who we should be dealing with on this and so the phone call starts and president Trump listened to both of us and on the phone call with King Salman um president Trump says okay we'll go through all these things these are the things we want to get done and he says well who should we deal with and King saman says uh deal with my son the deputy Crown Prince MPS and so president Trump said on the phone have him deal with Jared because I think he knew knew that if he would have put him with the other guys they were not Believers in what he had the ability to do and that's how I got assigned to work with him I get back to my office after that have an email from him spoke to him for the first time and then we just went to work and you know a lot of people were betting against that trip they thought it wasn't going to be successful um and they've been betting against him and uh he's been underestimated but he's been doing an incredible job and the whole Middle East is different today because of the work that he's done maybe it's instructive to go through the mental jour Journey that you went on from like the talking points the basic narratives the the very basic talking points understanding of Saudi Arabia to making that human connection with NBS and making the policy connection and it's actually possible to solve problems like what was that Journey like why was it so difficult to take for others and why were you effective in being able to take that Journey yourself maybe some of it came from my inexperience um but my desire to listen and hear people so you know I had this proposal I was told that all these things were good then we're trying to schedule this trip and the National Security Council calls a meeting where we're in the situation room and we have you know Homeland Security Secretary of Defense Secretary of State and everyone's saying this is going to be a disaster they said you know if we go to Saudi Arabia the Saudis never keep their promises and our secretary of state at the time was a gentleman named Rex Tillerson who'd been the uh CEO of on so he dealt with all these play people very extensively and he basically said in my experience the Saudis won't come through and Jared you don't know what you're doing you're wasting your time and I basically was at a point where I said look guys but they're saying they want to do all these things shouldn't we at least give them a chance to try to do it like why do we want to predetermine their their their Direction by not giving them a chance to change just because things in the past haven't gotten the way you want them to that doesn't mean they can't go that way in the future so we fought the Battle you know they basically deferred and uh and let me go through with it but when I do the planning meetings for the trip nobody would show up because they all thought it was going to be an absolute disaster and by the way they probably weren't wrong to think that because I'd never planned a foreign trip before and I'd never done any foreign policy before so during the planning I'd speak to MBS almost every day and I'd go through all the different details and the things that uh would be coming up and I said look I really need to get these things in writing he sent over a guy Dr mad El iban uh who's a tremendous Diplomat for them and he came to Washington stayed for 3 weeks and we worked through all the different details of what we needed and we ended up coming to an arrangement on what it should be so you know I think about now in retrospect why I was so focused on getting things like this done and why I I even believed that they could be possible but the answer is is really the people I was talking to on the other end were telling me that these things were possible and so just because they hadn't been done before and just because others around me didn't believe that they could be done I wasn't willing to just say well let's not try it just seems like that cynicism that takes over is paralyzing and uh you sent me a great essay from from Paul Graham I'm a big fan of that I think explains a lot of your success the essay is called how to do great work and people should go definitely read the full essay there's a few things I could read from it uh some quotes having new ideas is a strange game because it usually consists of seeing things that were right under your nose once you've seen a new idea it tends to seem obvious Why did no one think of this before seeing something obvious sounds easy and yet empirically having new ideas is hard and like the steps you took seem trivial and yet nobody was taking them or at least in the past they weren't successful so the successes you've had were as simple as essentially picking up the phone or trying M um there's a lot of interesting things here to talk about this aspect of doing the seemingly simple that seems to be so hard to do uh it as Paul describes requires a willingness to break rules there are two ways to be comfortable breaking rules to enjoy breaking them and to be indifferent to them that's an interesting distinction I call these two cases being aggressively and passively independent minded so again that's to enjoy breaking the rules or be indifferent to the rules uh the aggressively independent minded are the naughty ones rules don't merely fail to stop them breaking rules gives them additional energy for this sort of person delight at the sheare of audacity of a project sometimes supplies enough activation energy to get it started the other way to break the rules is not to care about them at all or perhaps even to know they exist this is why novices and Outsiders often make new discoveries their ignorance of a field ignorance maybe in quotes of a Field's assumptions act as a source of temporary passive independent mindedness aspies also seem to have a kind of immunity to Conventional beliefs several I know say that this helps them to have new ideas so the aggressive and the passive this such an interesting way of looking at it um perhaps some aspect of this at least in the story you tell is some passive aspect where you're like not even acknowledging not even caring that there was rules just kind of asking the simple question and taking the simple action I think that it's funny that was an essay I read and we're doing just a snippet of it but I would encourage anyone listening to go and find it and read the entire thing because it's something that really spoke to me as I was transitioning uh into my new career now and I just loved it but when we were talking about uh why certain people who don't have traditional qualifications are able to come in and do incredible work and solve complex problems it made me think of of that essay which is why I shared it and I I think that in the context of the work that I was doing here uh perhaps not having the historical context uh became an advantage and obviously went back and then tried to study it but you if you go into a problem I always find that especially in the political realm my favorite um political issues are ones where they're contrarian by being obvious and you know sometimes they feel very intuitive and so you take them on there's always a lot of resistance when you go against something that's been accepted um as the way that you're supposed to do things um and I came to learn over the course of my time in government that when everyone was agreeing with what I was doing then it actually made me more nervous because I felt like you have these problems they haven't been solved for a long time and then if you take the same approach as others you're going to fail just like they did so taking a different approach doesn't mean you're going to succeed but at least if you fail you're going to fail in an original way and so I did like this a lot and I I think that um you know what I saw was the people who were very good at getting things done that hadn't been done before were people who came with different qualifications different perspectives and they came in and and really work the problem in untraditional ways and so I think in the Middle East I came in with a very different approach than people before me not because I came in deliberately trying to do it differently but because I came in trying to listen and understand from people why the problem hadn't been solved and then think from a first principal's perspective on what's the right perspective today not based on what happened 50 years ago or not based on what somebody's feelings who were hurt but what's the right thing to make people's lives better to make the world uh a safer and and and more prosperous place tomorrow so if we can uh go back to MPS for a little bit uh from the person to the vision uh there's something called Vision 2030 about his vision for Saudi Arabia in the future can you maybe look from his perspective what is his vision for the region sure so you know it's funny we were talking before about how you know we wish leaders would set big audacious goals and take on big things well that's what he did with vision 2030 you know when he was young and again this is something that was derided and a lot of people were very skeptical of it but the people actually you know picked it up and read it said this is a very thoughtful plan that's very achievable so he studied his country and said what's our place in the world what are our advantages what are our disadvantages and then he set publicly kpi that he wanted to hold his country to and then put in place plans and committees and really worked hard to push things in that direction which was pretty remarkable um I think that it's something when I saw it I thought it was very refreshing I said wait in America why don't we have you know set goals why don't we have kpis and I do think that it's something that most countries if not all countries should have right one of my favorite quotes was from uh the Allison Wonderland where uh the the Cheshire Cat says if you don't know where you're going it doesn't matter which path you take and so I think that that's something that uh really helped set them on a good path and they've been very successful with it uh one of the things he told me about putting that together was he said you know my father's generation they created this country from almost nothing they came here they were a poor country they were BNS in the desert and then they look back and see what they've done over 50 years and they say it's absolutely remarkable he said his generation they come in and they say we're very grateful for everything that's been done today but we have so much opportunity that we're not taking advantage of and so you know he's now empowered the Next Generation to be ambitious and think big and grow with it what that means for his vision for the Middle East is that you know the the general architecture that should exist and now there's excitement in the discussions with Israel that have advanced was the General view of what we thought from a trump perspective should be the new Middle East is having uh an economic and security cor Corridor all the way from H to Muscat from Oman to Israel where basically you go through and if you can create a a security area where people can live you know free of fear of of terrorism and of conflict the Middle East for the last 20 years has been a sinkhole for for for for arms for death uh for terrorism it's been you know awful it's been a big national security threat for America a big uh place where our you know our our treasure is gone we've had a lot of our our young uh amazing American soldiers killed in in action there and uh and the same thing for the Arab countries as well so if we can create a a security architecture for that region and then we can create economic integration between all the different countries I mean the amount of innovation happening in Israel is unbelievable think of it like Silicon Valley not connected to the rest of California you have a very young population a very digital Savvy population you have a lot of resources and so if you can get that whole set the potential for it is unbelievable I I do think that that's his ultimate vision is to become a really strong country economically and then to become a place where you could be funding advancements in science advancements in humanity advancements in artificial intelligence and and think about ways to be a positive influence in the world so a difficult question uh one big source of tension between the United States and Saudi is the case of Jamal kogi I wondering if you can comment on what NBS has said about it to you You' spoken to him about it and what NBS has said about it publicly on 60 Minutes and after yeah so what he said to me was was no different than what he ultimately said on 60 Minutes which was you know as as as somebody helping lead this country uh I bear responsibility and um and I'm going to make sure that those who are involved are brought to Justice and I'm going to make sure that um that we put in place reforms to make sure things like this don't happen again it was a horrible situ situation uh that occurred uh what I saw from him after that was just a doubling and a tripling down on on the positive things he was doing figuring out ways to kind of continue to modernize his Society uh build opportunity in in in the kingdom and continue to be a better Ally to all the different countries that wanted to be aligned with them one thing I learned from this case is how one particular situation a tragedy can destroy so much progress and the possibility of progress and and the possibility of connection between the bridges that are built between different nations MH and how narratives around that can take off and take such a long time to repair and you've worked with this in the Middle East with Israel and so on how the history the narratives the stories they they kind of have this momentum that's so hard to break even when you have new leaders New Blood new new ideas that come in and it it's just sad to see that yes this uh tragedy happens but it doesn't mean that you can't make progress I don't know if you have kind of lessons from that just how much of a dramatic impact it had on creating tension between the United States and Saudi and in general in the Middle East like the that somehow s's not a friend but is against the ideals and the values of the United States yeah so it it definitely created massive tension and it became a very high-profile uh action that actually overshadowed a lot of the good work that was being done in the region and a lot of the progress we were making but when you think about this or you think about the other issues that we've gone through today I think the general framework that I always try to approach things with with is you can't change what happened yesterday you can only learn from it and then you can change how you deal with tomorrow and when I think about you know the people in power what do I hope that they're spending their time focused on number two basic things number one is how do I create you know Safety and Security for for my people um and and for for the world and then how do I give people the opportunity to live a better life and so when things like this happen obviously you know there are certain reactions that are appropriate um but ultimately you have to think through how do you not allow the Paradigm that you're creating in the world to lead to worse outcomes than would happen otherwise and so when I would think about foreign policy in general one of the differences between foreign policy and business is that in business the conclusion of a problem set you finish a deal you either have you know a company or a property or if you sell it you have you know less to do and and and more Capital hopefully if it's successful right in a political deal it's always about Paradigm so the end of a problem set is always the beginning of a new paradigm and you're always thinking through how do you create an environment that leads to hopefully the best amount of positive outcomes that could occur versus creating a paradigm that will lead to negative outcomes so you know bad things happen um you know a lot in the world and um you have to make sure that when those happen you know people are held accountable for it but you o don't want to make sure that in the process of making sure that there's accountability for these actions you don't set a lot of progress that the world is making back that will lead to worse off situation for many more people if we can go back to the incredible work with Abraham Accords and U Israel in the Middle East first the big question about peace why is it so difficult to achieve peace in this part of the world between between Israel and Palestine and between Israel and the other countries in the Middle East or any sort of peac likee agreements if I had to give you the most simple answer I would say that it's structural and if you go back to the incentive structure of different leaders this whole peace process between Israel and and the Palestinians um and again I've gotten criticized for saying this but it's what I believe so I'm going to say it is that the incentive structure was all wrong and when I went before the United Nations security Council to discuss the plan that I proposed which again was more of an operational plan and it was a pragmatic plan it was over 180 pages in detail in Po in politics people don't like putting forward detail because it just gives a lot of places for you to get criticized on nobody actually criticized the detail of my plan they just criticized the fact that it was coming from us and didn't want to debate the merits of the operational pieces of it so I created a slide where I showed from the Oslo Accords till the day I was there all the different peace discussions I put a dove in the slide for those and then I put a tank for every time there was a war because there was always skirmishes between Hamas and and Hezbollah and and and the Palestinians and then I showed two lines and they both went from the bottom of the page all the way up like this one of the lines was Israeli settlements so every time uh a negotiation failed Israel was able to get more land and every and then the other one was money to the Palestinians and I said every time a negotiation failed the Palestinians would get more money the problem with that money though was that it wasn't going to the people you know a lot some of it would make its way down but most of it was going to the politicians you had leadership of the Palestinians who was basically I think at that point was in like the 16th year of a four-year term so he wasn't democratically elected and a lot of what I tried to show was that there was no rule of law there was no Judicial System there were no property rights and there was no opportunity or hope for the people to live a better life and so all of the uh envoys to date were basically trained to go and do the same things and I again I got massively criticized by all the previous envoys for not doing it the same way they did but I thought the problem structurally just didn't make sense and so I felt like the incentive structure was all wrong and I took a different approach and so what's what's the different approach I started writing down a document these are the you know 11 issues but there's really only three issues that matter I said just tell me what you think the compromise is that you think the other side could live with that you would accept and it was very hard to get them talking about this oh you have to go back to 1972 you have to go back to 1982 you have to go back to 2001 you have to go to camp and I was just like I don't need a headache and I don't need a history lesson just just I want a very simple thing here today in 2017 what's the outcome that you would accept and I was dealing with their their their negotiators their back Channel secret negotiators they're double secret I was like this whole thing is like it's a process created where nobody wants to talk about uh the actual solution so coming from the business world I said okay let me just write down a proposed solution that I think is fair and let me have each side react like don't tell me about theoretical things like tell me I want to move the line from here to here I want to change this word so I tried to make it much more tactical and what I realized was like the Palestinians they'd worked so hard to get the Arab world to stay with the line of the Arab peace initiative and so I went back and I read the air peace initiative it was 10 lines and it didn't have any detail so it was a concept and so they likeed that concept because it allowed them to reject everything they kept getting more money I mean BB Netanyahu who runs uh one of the most incredible economies in the world who runs an incredible superpower uh militarily for the size of of their country he would fly to Washington to meet us and he'd be taking a commercial LOL plane MH a boss who runs a refugee organization a refugee group right that claims that they don't have a state that gets billions of dollars in eight year eight every year from the global Community would fly in a $60 million Boeing BBJ so the whole thing was just very corrupt and off and I do think that that's why it um I don't think people were incentivized to solve it to be honest what do you think an actual plan on that part if you can just before we talk about uh Abraham Accords if there is a peace plan that works between Israel and Palestine what is it what do you think it looks like you have to separate it into two different issues and I think that that's actually how we came to the Abraham Accords is that you know I I I I was I tell the story in the book and it was one of my like favorite experiences during my time in diplomacy where I went to meet with Sultan kaboose who was the Sultan of Oman and we fly out there because he'd had a secret meeting with BB and I thought maybe he was open to uh normalizing with Israel so after he meets with BB he calls me and says I want you to come see me so I go over to see him and I again I tell the story it was a crazy you know night in all these different areas but when I was talking to him um he basically says to me I feel badly for the Palestinian people that they carry with them the burden of the Muslim world and that line just like stuck with me and a couple days later I was thinking about it and I said wait a minute who elected the Palestinian people to represent the Muslim World on the aloa mosque and so the reason why I felt like it had never been solved was it was a riddle a that I believed was designed to not be solved but B you were conflating two separate issues you had the issue between Israel and and the Muslim World which really was the issue of the aloa mosque and then you had just a territorial dispute which throughout history you have lots of territorial disputes and they're usually resolved in different ways so if you go back to the Israeli Palestinian issue there's just a couple components you need to solve number one is territorial contiguity right you need to figure out where do you draw the lines and that's something that you know you can talk about what people were owed 70 years ago but it's much more productive to say this is what you can make work today right and that's kind of what we did I we literally spent months and months drawing a map and we put something out probably change a couple lines here and there but by and large it was a very pragmatic solution um that I think could work and I think it could work for the Safety and Security of Israel which was number one um so first issue is drawing a map second issue is security again Israel um and again this is one issue we were incredibly sympathetic with Israel which is you can't expect a you know a prime minister of Israel to make a deal where he's going to make his people less secure than before so we worked very closely with them on a security apparatus we laid something out that I think would keep the whole area safer and it would it would make sure Israel was safe and also keep the Palestinian Shu safe so you need security number three was the religious sites and that was one that was actually always made much more complicated by people uh the aloa mosque because you basically have Haram Al Sharif which is a place where the mosque was built in the sth OR 8th Century um but originally it was where the the holy of holies were in the betam mdash for the Jewish people so and then you know compounding by the fact that you have all the Christian holy sites in Jerusalem it's a city that should be bringing everyone together but in fact has become a place where you have you know Wars and and and and and hatred and a lot of different conflicts that have risen because of it but what I said was instead of fighting over concepts of sovereignty which is interesting how I got to the notion that this wasn't really the big issue I B said just operationally why don't we just make it simple let everyone come and be able to worship as long as they're being able to worship peacefully so that's really the Contours of it and what the Palestinians have done is they've kind of deflected from a lot of their own shortcomings and a lot of the Arab leaders did that as well kind of in the pre- Abraham mord Days by kind of allowing this issue to be so prevalent so one thing I'll say on the Palestinians is that you know what we tried to do by laying outed plan was we said okay um what are the reasons why the Palestinian people are not having the lives that they deserve and I'll give you a couple things one is I studied the economies of you know Jordan uh West Bank Gaza Egypt Morocco this was you know numbers from like 2019 but what was interesting was the GDP per capita of somebody living in the West Bank was actually the same as Jordan and it was actually more than somebody living in Egypt and the debt of GDP that the Palestinians had was like 30 40% compared to Egypt which was at like 130% and Jordan which was at 110% and Lebanon which is at 200% and so you know you're in a situation where a lot of this stuff didn't make sense but if you draw lines create institutions where Palestinian people can now feel like they have property rights and have ownership over their place and let the money flow past the leadership ranks uh you know to the people let them have jobs let them have opportunity and then let all Muslims from throughout the world world have access to the mosque and Israel making sure that they can control the security which I think the jordanians and a lot of others want Israel to to have strong you know security control there to prevent the radicalists and the extremist from coming you could have peace there very easily so there's a lot of things to say here one is just to emphasize uh alaa mque says this this holy place and this is something in our conversations and in my own travels I've seen the importance of sort of frictionless access to those sites from the entirety of the Muslim world and that's what Abraham of course took big leaps on okay so we'll talk about that a little bit more uh but that's kind of a religious component that's a a dignity in the religious practice and Faith component but then the other thing you mentioned so um uh simply which is you have money flow past the leadership ranks how do you have money flow past the leadership ranks in uh in Palestine so uh make sure that the money that's invested in Palestine the West Bank gets to the people so to date all of the aid that's been given to the Palestinians has been an entitlement it's not conditions based it's always just we give the money and there's no expectations it's very simple you make the aid conditions based you fight for transparency you do it through institutions other than the PA or you put reformers into the PA that will allow it to go down that way PA being the Palestinian which is the leadership it's not hard to do it just takes people who actually want to do it but I think the the the mindset of the International Community has not been let solve this problem it's like let's just throw a little bit of money the money's Novacane let's put a little Novacane on the problem and let's not have to deal with it but nobody's ever said oh let's do an accounting of the 20 billion dollars we've given them and see how many jobs it's done and where it's gone that just hasn't happened again it's it's it's an incredibly corrupt organization unra you think about the postor War II Dynamic you had a lot of refugees my grandparents were refugees post World War II every other Refugee class has been resettled and you only have one permanent Refugee organization ever created why was this done it was done to perpetuate the conflict so that a lot of Arab leaders could basically deflect from a lot of their shortcomings at home and so I think for Israel they view all these things is existential they value their safety they've been under attack for a long time I do think having a where we can say how do you know the Jews and the Muslims Chris come together I think King Abdullah from Jordan's been an incredible custodian for the mosque I think everyone in my travels recognized that he's the right guy for that that the King of Jordan should be the custodian of of the mosque um we should have some kind of framework to make sure everyone has access the more countries that have diplomatic relations with Israel the more Muslims and Arabs that should be able to come and and visit and by the way the more you have these normalizations think about what that will do to the economy of the West Bank where they'll have you know great hotels Hospitality uh tremendous tourism industry because of all the Christian Muslim uh and Jewish holy sites that they have there so there's a lot of potential there we just have to like get unstuck I believe that it's so possible if the leaders want to make tomorrow better that they can and unfortunately the people who suffer the most are really are just the Palestinian people and I think that you know in Gaza they're hostages to uh to Hamas and and in the West Bank they're just they're just held back because their leadership just is afraid or or too self-interested to give them the opportunity to change their Paradigm and pursue the potential of what they have and by the way it's an incredibly well-educated population um it's it's an incredibly capable population and they're right next to Israel where the economy they need everything and so the potential should be incredible if you can just move some of these pieces but again there's still a lot of emotion and hatred you have to work through as well but I do believe that you're not going to solve that by litigating the past you're only going to solve that by creating an exciting Paradigm for the future and getting everyone to buy in and then move towards that and maybe increase the chance of uh being able to establish an economy where the entrepreneurs can flourish in the West Bank and so on in Palestine uh once the uh the relationship across the Arab world is normalized so so one thing on that which is very interesting is when I got into my job in in in on the Middle East all the conventional thinkers said to me the separation in the Muslim world is between the S sunnis and the Shia and that's really the big divide and as I was traveling I didn't think there was any divide in that regard the divide that I saw was between leaders who wanted to give a better opportunity for their people and create economic reforms and opportunity and leaders who wanted to use religion or fear to keep their stronghold on Power and so if you think about who's not creating the opportunity for their people is the Palestinian leadership and the Iranian leadership all the other Arab countries were focused on how do we give opportunity for our people to live a better life and there is a big foundation on which that framework can succeed which I think um is the in general the idea of uh Arab Israeli normal ation so that's where Abraham McCords come in can you tell the story of that sure so um it's an amazing thing and I I sit here today you know somebody not in government and you know every day I see you know another you know flight that goes between or I I see you know an Israeli student studying at a university in Dubai or a new synagogue opening up in in Abu Dhabi and it it just gives me such or Bahrain gives me such tremendous uh Pride to see all of the progress that's been made how it occurred um part of why I wrote the book was to put this down for for history's sake to go through all the different intentional unintentional circumstantial things that occurred um it's fine we left government there's a lot of people saying well this is why it I said I was kind of at the middle of it and I couldn't even perfectly articulate why it happened because it was a it was in evolution of a lot of things and I joke that we made peace on plan C but only because we went through the alphabet three times failing at every letter and by the time but we didn't give up we kept going and we got it done and maybe this a a good place to also step back and say what is Arab Israeli normalization sure what is the state of things for people who may not be aware before the progress he made that's probably the best place to start so uh what we did is we we made a piece deal between um Israel and the United Arab Emirates and then Israel and Bahrain then we did a deal with Israel and Sudan and then Israel and Kosovo Israel and Morocco were basically countries that didn't recognize each other before ended up recognizing each other uh all these were Muslim majority countries and getting them to integrate with Israel was a very big thing um the traditional thinking had always been was that Muslim Arab countries would not make peace with Israel until um the Israeli palestin issue was solved and what we were able to do is separate the issues and then make these make these connections which are leading to amazing interaction between Jews and Muslims so when I think about kind of obviously you have National Security you have emotional um benefits from these things but the the single biggest benefit that I've seen from the Accords is that if you were uh an Arab or a Muslim and you were um and you were willing to say positive things about Israel or the Jews before this came out you would been viciously attacked by the media or the hordes of influencers or the uh extremists in these different countries what this did was it brought out into the public the fact that Jews and Muslims can be together and they can be respectful they can have meals together and that the culturist can live together in peace so just to Ling on this it's it's like once subtle and uh in another sense like transformative so normalization means you're allowed to travel for one place to the other that has a kind of ripple effect of that you can now start talking in a little bit more accepting way you can start integrating uh traveling communicating doing business with socializing so the cultures mix uh conversations mix all of this and this kind of has a ripple effect on the basic connection between these previously disper worlds I don't know if there's a a nice way to kind of make clear why these agreements have such a transformative effect especially in the long term I would say the simplest form is it's just a mindset and it's almost like you're taught all your life we're enemies or we can't be friends with that tribe on the other side of the fence and then like one day the leaders get up and say no it's okay now and there was never an issue between the people the people were just taught different things and they were separated from each other but again one of the things that I respect about the work you do is you believe in the power of conversation and the power of human interaction and you know these issues and and gaps between us feel so big when we think about them when we're told about them when we read about them but when we go and sit with each other all of a sudden we realize maybe we have a lot more in common than we have that divides us for me what I've seen about it that's made the biggest difference is I've seen people who wouldn't have the ability to be together be together and that's now forming a nucleus of togetherness which is a restoration so you think about the modern Middle East from uh from post Holocaust to now again in 1948 after uh the that war of independence you had Jews living in Baghdad and Cairo uh then they became so anti- Jewish that they then expelled all of the Jews from all these capitals of those cities so you think about the Jewish history in Baghdad I mean I think the talmud was written in Baghdad it was a place where in Babylon where the Jewish people thrived I think in 570 BC when nanzer conquered Jerusalem he took about 10,000 Jews back with him to Babylon because he thought it'd be good for his economy and during that that that place the Jews actually flourished and had a good uh life there so for thousand years before the second world war the Jews and the Muslims lived very peacefully together so people say that what we're doing now is is an aberration I actually think it's not aberration I think it's actually a return to the time where people can live together culturally and so this is the beginning of the end of the arab-israeli conflict and it's the beginning of togetherness which again you think about how much War how much provocation how much terrorism has been made in the name of of of religious conflict this is I think the start of the process of religious respect and understanding we've talked about you being attacked in the press for the Russian collusion and other topics one of the most recent set of attacks comes on the topic of Saudi public investment fund giving $2 billion to your investment firm after you left government so that includes a 1.25% asset management fee of $25 million dollar a year can you respond to these recent set of attacks sure so uh left government obviously worked for four years I uh you know was a very action-packed time that's why I wrote the book I wanted to put down all those experiences I started thinking like what do I want to do next right so my previous uh career I'd been in real estate I I'd worked my brother on some technology uh businesses that I'd started and then I um got into government so I I kind of had a career shift right um in my previous career obviously was very successful uh the New York Times uh the violated and they published my financial um uh my financial statements they showed I was making about $50 million a year in the private sector before I went to government I went into government and I um you know I volunteered I didn't take a salary I I paid my own health insurance for four years my wife and I and then we went and I was thinking should I go back to my old company or should I start something new and my thinking was is that I'd um through my time in government I'd met so many people I'd learned so much about the world I I had a big understanding now for how the macroeconomic uh picture worked and I did feel like there was a lot more that I could do than just going back to real estate in the meantime I was getting a lot of calls from different CEOs and companies saying you know can you help me with this company can you help me with that company you're knowledge could be helpful to uh help this company navigate this challenge or to expand internationally and so I said you know what maybe I should create a business to do an investment firm where I can do something different where I'm putting together geopolitical expertise and traditional private equity and growth investing and figure out how to do that where I can do something differentiated where I can invest in in growing things and help with my navigation skills and relationships so that was kind of the thesis of what I thought could make sense as kind of a Next Step um I I called you know different friends they were very excited to to back uh the effort uh obviously this was coming off the success that I just had in the Middle East where I did you know six uh peace deals there and you know one of the Notions I wanted to be able to do with the firm was to be able to take money from the Gulf and then to be able to invest it in Israel to continue to build the economic links between the countries again if countries have more economic ties I think war and fighting is is is less likely and then in addition to that I wanted to figure out how do you bring the entrepreneurs together from both of those countries so that was really the mission of what I set out to do so far I've been enjoying it it's been a lot of fun i' I've been learning a ton I think we're doing very well with it um in terms of the criticisms I think that I've been criticized in every step of everything I've always done in my life and so uh what I would say is you know this business is actually an objective metric business right it's about returns so you know in three four years from now five years from now see how I do hopefully I'll do uh very well and Judge Me based on that in terms of any of the nefarious things uh you I haven't been accused of Any of of of violating any laws and uh you know I haven't violated any of the ethics rules either when I was in government I I every year submitted all my financial uh to the office of government ethics they certified it every year and I followed every Rule and every law possible so um so to my critics I'll say criticize me before you'll criticize me now I'm going to keep doing me and uh going to keep pursuing things that I think are worthwhile um and I'm very excited about this chapter of my career maybe this is a good place to ask uh in working closely with Donald Trump what in your sense looking into the mind of of the man uh what's the biggest strength of uh of Donald Trump as a leader I would say his unpredictability I think that as a leader he's um he consumes a ton of information he doesn't like to be managed or have his information filtered so he'll speak to a lot of people to draw his information himself uh he's very pragmatic I don't see him as terribly ideological I see him as somebody who's about results I think he wants to deliver results um and I think ultimately I mean he he's an incredible fighter he's he's a big counter puncher uh but he also wants to get along with people and that's probably the biggest surprise that people found with him I mean you know you look at even situations like uh I would always tell people if you disagree with him don't go on television and criticize him just pick up the phone and call him and go see him and he'll talk to you about it he not agree with you but again that's what Kim Kardashian did when she had a case of clemency with a woman Alice Johnson that she felt strongly about we went through the case I wouldn't have had her call if I didn't think it was a legitimate case so we spent about eight months uh quietly working through the case working through the details to make sure that it really was a worthy case um I brought it to president Trump said you know she'd like to come meet with you to to talk about this case and he said how come in so she came in we went through the case and president Trump ultim Ely granted the clemency to Alice Johnson who was a a woman who was accused of being part of a drug ring uh she had a basically a life sentence uh for doing it she'd served 22 years in prison while in prison I mean she's basically was a grandmother and she um she was you know putting on the prison plays she was mentoring you know young women in prison somebody who again there's always a risk but by and large had a very very very low risk of of committing a crime in the future and then it goes back to the notion of are we going to judge people by the worst decision they make in their life and so president Trump uh was willing to Grant the climate scene went and I think that it just goes to the notion of like maybe this goes back to his unpredictability in a positive way which is if you go sit with him and you make your case he'll hear you he'll listen to you and he's not afraid to act and he's not afraid to be controversial which I think is a good thing so from a foreign policy point of view in particular his unpredictability just meant that everyone was always on their back foot people were afraid to kind of cross America and what I would tell people who don't like Trump is I would say think about how crazy he's making you and and his enemies you know he did that to the enemies of America and um and yeah so he was a very very strong president and I think did a great job so in some of these agreements I've been talking about and and speaking with leaders how do you think the unpredictability helps so in all the agreements that I was negotiating I wasn't doing it as a principal I was doing it on behalf of President Trump and people knew that I had access to president Trump and they knew that you know I could say you may say this that we don't like but I'm going to have to take it back to him and then we'll see what he does and one of the biggest instances was on the usmca trade deal where um that deal happened because Mexico was legitimately concerned and smartly so that President Trump was going to impose tariffs on the car industry which would have been decimating to their economy and by the way he was ready to do it we were holding it back from doing it with every ounce of strength that we could so it wasn't a bluff I mean that would was actually real but they were smart to read that it was real and ultimately we created a great uh win-win deal um tell you a funny story just popped into my mind from from the tariffs as we did also we used a 232 National Security exemption to protect our steel industry and we put tariffs on steel and aluminum and again I I thought about this because we also negotiated them with Canada and there was a very funny phone call where Trudeau is calling uh Trump and again they got along you know decently well and um Trudeau's calling saying you can't put National Security tariffs on us in Canada you know we're we're we're your NATO Ally we we fought Wars with you we do military together and Trump says to him didn't you burn the White House Down in 1812 and TR says that was the French no it was the Canadians and so it was just you know like I said he's always keeping everyone on their toes yeah and um but he was he he he he wasn't Afra he took very calculated risks and like I said you know everyone was outraged all the time with everything but if you look at his body of work people said if he was elected he would start World War II meanwhile We inherited a world filled with Wars no new Wars right three years he made peace deals no new Wars he was tough he was strong people respected him he built relationships and uh got trade deals done got peace deals done the economy was rocking his body work I think was pretty strong as president like you said no new Wars this makes me think if uh Donald Trump won the presidency what the the current situation in Ukraine would look like but let me just ask you zoom out and ask you broadly um do you think the war in Ukraine could have been avoided and what do you think it takes to bring it to an end I think 100% it would have been avoided not 99% you know president Trump for uh four years had no problems with Russia you know we were we were arming Ukraine but we were working with Russia and again the first two years we had a little bit of issue working with Russia because they were accused of colluding with us and we had to go through that investigation but um but in the second two years we were trying to focus Russia on what are the areas or we can collaborate together I think Russia you know we thought it was in their strategic advantage to play uh us and China against each other because of the way that everything was done before they were stuck with China but not getting a lot for it um under Bush they took Georgia under Obama they took Crimea under Trump there was no problems and then under Biden U unfortunately I think they misplayed a couple of things uh which I think provoked uh you know Russia to to go forward um still no excuse to do what they did I think that the invasion was a terrible thing and and should not have occurred um but with that being said um I think 100% if Trump was President there would not be a war in Ukraine today coming to the table and negoti ating a piece whether it's Donald Trump whether it's Biden whether it's anybody what do you think it takes uh do you think it's possible uh and if you're in a room if jerck Krishna is in the room with Vladimir Putin and Vladimir zalinski what does it take to have a productive conversation and what does it take for that conversation to fail like what are the trajectories that lead to success and failure I think we go back to negotiations number one is trust right both leaders have to have the ability to communicate what an offramp is without fearing it's going to leak to the public so if you go to the posture of zalinsky right now and by the way president zalinsky I have a lot of respect for the courage he showed uh especially initially um you know you saw what ghani did in Afghanistan they they were getting attacked by the Taliban he took the cash and got the hell out of there staying in Kiev when he did how he did it was one of the most Brave things we've seen a long time uh and he has a ton of my respect and admiration for doing that but now he's promising his people we're going to win the war and the military action has not necessarily coincided with that sentiment and so there has to be some form of of off-ramp but he can't say that publicly so for him to be able to work privately with somebody who can help create a new paradigm where both leaders can say we're going to stop the Bloodshed we're going to stop the risk of nuclear war for the world we're going to stop um what's happening that's really what it will take how that occurs again it's not something I'm involved in now so I don't know who the right broker is or how to put that together but essentially they need somebody in between them who can figure out how do you create a landing Zone that that works because neither part is going to jump until the pool is filled with water and you have to outline what the go forward looks like because you can't just stop it for then it to get worse for both parties you have to you have to move it forward into what happens next that hopefully can start to turn the tide to benefit both sides where they can focus on the future instead of being stuck into the old Paradigm of who started what who's to blame for what who did what to who it's just a lot of tough stuff now that that's occurred that's going to be hard to walk back and um it's a big task to get it done but for the sake of the world it'd be amazing in if we were able to reach a conclusion to that conflict just going back to the your earlier mention of North Korea what do you think it takes to bring Vladimir Putin and Vladimir zalinsky to the table together leadership so you you you're saying like it has to be a US president it has to be somebody who's willing to put thems on the line yeah to go and do it and you know again if you're the US president and you're the most powerful Nation in the world you should be trying yeah but I do think again the posture that the US has taken has probably been in a place where they it would be very hard for them to get the trust of Russia based on the way that they've played their moves to date you know I always thought from the beginning that Putin would try to bring in president X and China to resolve it to basically give a big screwy youu to America to say you know China's now the one you know in charge of this but that hasn't seemed to manifest itself to date either but it takes leadership you know the leaders have to get it and say you know let's get everyone together and let's try to get this done because every day it goes on a more people are dying um and B you know we do risk nuclear war for the world which is not a good situation let me ask since you helped set up phone calls between Donald Trump Putin and uh king of Saudi Arabia if I were to interview Putin what advice would you give on how to get a deep understanding of the human being yeah so I didn't deal with Russia a ton but in my interaction with with Putin and with uh Russia you know I I would kind of point out a couple of things number one is when America was hit with coid and New York was looking like we were going to run out of ventilators and masks Russia was the second country that sent us a plain load of supplies and they didn't send that because they hate America they sent that because we were starting to make progress together as countries and they thought that they wanted to show Goodwill to figure out how can we start working together and again people may attack me for saying that that sounds naive again the past you know 15 years may show that that's not the case but I don't believe that countries have permanent enemies and I don't believe countries have permanent allies right again you think about the US and Russia in World War II we worked together to to defeat the Nazis right and now we're great allies with Germany who basically was our great enemy in in World War II we're great allies with Japan who was our great enemy in world War II so it goes back to the notion we discussed earlier of you shouldn't condemn tomorrow to be like yesterday if you're unhappy with yesterday so um so number one as I would definitely ask him about that the phone call that you mentioned was after we did a pretty intense negotiation to create the largest oil cut in the history of of oil production so during coid demand just shut off like crazy and it was it was stopping very quickly uh Saudi and Russia at that time were having conflict they created this thing called OPEC plus which goes back again history between the two countries where U they had conflicts and then all of a sudden they were working together to try to stabilize the oil markets but they couldn't agree on the cut so Saudi actually increased production so you had two things hitting at once where Saudi and Russia were both increasing production and demand was dropping so you were headed for a real crisis and I was starting to get calls from a lot of the oil industry Executives here in America saying you don't understand we can't just like flip a switch and turn off our oil wells like we're running out of storage here and um I said look president Trump likes low oil prices so he's not upset about what's happening you have to call him and if he gives me permission or the instruction then I can try to intervene but uh but right now he's not inclined to intervene after a little bit uh he said you know what it's time get involved go do it it was right over Passover this was during coid I spent three days non-stop on the phone with carel demitria from Russia and with uh with NBS directly and I was deal with Dan Bret who was our energy Minister uh you know going back and forth and it was like it was crazy I mean it was just one of the craziest negotiations we ended up agreeing on the largest oil cut in the history of the world but the story you went to before which was pretty funny was finally make the deal and we set up a call between King Salon uh Vladimir Putin and uh president Trump to announce the deal I'm like oh this is great this so president Trump can congratulations we have a deal and then King SM says we don't have a deal uh Mexico hasn't agreed to their Cuts he say what do you mean so they were part of the OPEC plus and so I get a note saying you got to go call Mexico so I'm calling Mexico we're dealing they're saying we're not doing any Cuts said why I said we're hedged to $55 I said why didn't you tell us that in the beginning so I'm telling the Saudis are so we were working through this whole thing so meanwhile we were trying to find the compromise with Mexico I set up a call with with Trump and Putin so they can kind of talk this through and he was always trying to play the game of how do we get Russia away from China he always thought that that was not the right strategic framework for us interests and again we had no problems with them during that time what I would say is that for zalinsky and Putin any conversation with both of them is about understanding their perspective I think with Putin he's a a student of history from the things that I I saw with him if you look at Russia over the last 500 years I think they were attacked by uh the polish in in early 1600 I think they were attacked by uh the swedes in in the 1700s I think they were attacked by Napoleon in the 1800s and then in the 1900s they were attacked by Germany twice and so from his perspective there is you know in the early days of Russia uh they were attacked by the Mongols they were very vulnerable and a lot of the geography of Russia Today is really designed for defensive purposes that they have natural barriers that makes them easier to defend and Russia is a massive landmass it's twice the size of America they have 11 time zones in the country and so I do think that for um for Vladimir Putin his biggest concern is how do we create a security Paradigm in the west of his country that won't be a creep and I think that there's like two different parts of the mindset you know the people who are most cynical of Putin will say well he's just trying to recreate the USSR he's being expansionist and the people who want to be sympathetic to him will say well if you think about it the Russian perception of the NATO arrange Arrangement was that they wouldn't be expanding Westward over the last years they've included all these countries that they said they promised they wouldn't include who knows what the promises were or was were or weren't but what I do know from his perspective is allowing Ukraine into NATO was always a red line and that's why we never offered it we never provoked it we never brought it up we said we're going to arm them and we basically said just just calm down we don't want any conflicts there we have bigger issues and opportunities to work for him so I do think you have to think through what's a paradigm that he can accept um and I do think that you know he'll give the justification for why he's done what he's done and then I think the framework for a solution is about how do we move both parties forward tough job I hope you get the opportunity to do it because I think it's a conversation that will only help the world hopefully find a pathway forward and I should mention because you mentioned geogy graphy one of the one of the many books you've recommended to me that gives a very interesting perspective on History it's called prisoners of geography by Tim Marshall and it has a very interesting perspective on the geopolitical conflicts and perspective of Russia from a from a geography perspective and um also for China in the second chapter and there's a lot of understanding of why the expansion of NATO is such a concern for Russia because geography still even in the 21st century less and less so because of technology and so on but it's still plays a major role in conflicts between nations rivers mountains yeah and understanding the DNA of countries it was one of the most phenomenal books and I I just found it on Amazon randomly but I I loved every minute of it the chapter on America is also incredible going through the evolution of you know how we became the country we are the different Acquisitions the different changes why we have all these Geographic graic advantages and uh it's it's an unbelievable book for anyone who's interested in geopolitics so I I have to ask on several aspects of China first on the president uh the meeting you help set up a first call and first meeting between Donald Trump and uh Xin ping can you tell the story of that because that's also interesting again that first phone call the reaching out the the forming the human connection which ultimately leads to the connection between nations and the possibility of collaboration so during the transition president Trump took a call from the the head of Taiwan and that sent the Chinese into a a real Tail Spin and he didn't do it I think to be provocative to them as much as just as a businessman he felt you answer your call somebody wants to speak to you you speak to them like you you want to have conversations hear their point of view and but it was taken as a very big insult and it was against tradition and Norm um and so that was something that set us off in in a wrong direction my view at the time was that you know we are kind of entering a G2 World whether people want to admit it or not and that a lot of these countries in what I call the Middle Market countries were basically playing this when China was being aggressive with their one belt one road they were basically playing us and China against each other and I thought that by the two leaders coming together there were some things they wouldn't agree on uh but there's a lot that they probably could agree on which could lead to um resolutions to a lot of issues uh in the world that that that was like my most optimistic view um my my most more pragmatic view is that President Trump had very big issues on trade that he wanted to get to with China you know he felt like China their Trade Practices were unfair they weren't following all the global rules of trade uh he was a little bit nervous that they would be provocative with Taiwan and I felt like the two of them getting together would be the best way to try and resolve that so um the Chinese are very proud and a lot of it is about fa Bas and so we in order to negotiate for that first call we we basically agreed on what would happen in the call so now let's just have a call say hi nice to meet you was a question of President Trump basically agreed that he would acknowledge the one China policy which he didn't see as a big concession because you could always un acknowledge it the next day so yeah I'll acknowledge it and then we'll go and exchange uh president shei was going to come over to the US for a visit so they could sit together and they want to do it outside the White House and so we agreed on MAR logo which I also thought was good cuz president Trump always felt much more comfortable when he was hosting uh at his properties and he just felt at home and so he liked having people as his guests and he loved he loved it he always felt really relaxed and and it was great so that was really what we did then the Chinese come over very much anticipated visit and it was incredible so they were supposed to sit together for 15 minutes uh and um they sent about an hour and a half together and during that meeting President Trump they said look let's just set some ground rules to this relationship like let's just not talk about Taiwan like you know just don't do anything I don't want on the table if it does I'm going to have to do harsh things I just don't want this to be a problem for four years we got bigger issues they basically just again you notice four years of trump Administration no Taiwan talk whatsoever it was a non-issue started talking about the trade issues they spent a lot of time on North Korea uh president Trump was trying to get the perspective from uh from president XI about North Korea because that was again considered from Obama the biggest national security issue that we faced at the time and um and they just had a good feeling for each other it also helped that you know uh my wife and I we actually had a Chinese uh Nanny and teacher in our house and our our kids learned fluent Mandarin and our daughter actually opened uh when uh president she and president Trump were together with h with Melania and with uh Madame Pang is is um uh my daughter actually sang them a couple of Chinese songs and uh and I thought that was a nice way to show you know we're tough but we respect your culture because the Chinese have an incredible culture that goes back thousands of years they're very proud and in how um and how they do it and I think that sign of respect also set things off in a very warm way for president Trump to say my granddaughter speaks Chinese and and we're showing you the respect um which I think is very important and he did have respect for them the next part about the visit I mean obviously we had a lot of discussions on trade but the part that was probably most impactful to me was President XI basically did an hour monologue uh at lunch where he just went through uh Chinese history from his perspective and he talked about uh with particular emphasis on on kind of the Treaty of unequals and then the Hundred Years of humiliation and then you go through from now all the way to today and you had you know China coming back and rising and you could tell that he was learned the lessons from the past and was very committed to kind of seeing China go through so that was a different time right so China today is different than it was in 2017 in 2017 I remember president XI was at Davos and he was FedEd by all the top business people in the world as the you know Donald Trump was the threat to the global World Order president XI was the champion of free trade and the biggest champion of environmentalism and and and fighting for climate change and um and what occurred was President Trump came in and basically said like I think China has not been following the rules based order uh took very very drastic approaches with tariffs every time he would do the tariffs again you know I had uh minuchin our treasury sector come to Von my house if he does this this is going to crash the whole economy I mean these and by the way he believed it I mean these were things that people were telling him would be very tough to do you know president Trump had a had a gentleman named Ambassador lighthiser Robert lighthiser he was really the the tip of the spear on all of our our trade negotiations he worked very well with secretary minuchin and they ended up we ended up increasing tariffs to numbers that hadn't um even been thought could happen so we did the first round of tariffs then uh you know the Chinese came back and retaliated very surgically trying to hit us in all the areas that politically would have been difficult and what Trump did was instead of backing down he took some of the revenue from the tariffs gave it to the farmers and said I know that this going to hurt your business but I'm going to make sure you guys are made whole and then he doubled down and basically went back at the Chinese with even more tariffs so what we watched over a year and a half was probably the biggest hand of Poker that was ever played and it was an amazing uh experience to be a part of it and the role I played was really working for secretary minuchin and Ambassador lighthiser as a as a back Channel with the Chinese to make sure we can just deescalate things and get to Solutions in a uh in the best way possible and so um so anyway it was a fascinating time but if you think about the global awareness of the the bad practices that China was putting in place today versus what they were in 2016 I think one of President Trump's most successful policies was Shifting the way the entire world understood the threat of China and then putting in place the beginning of a regime to try and rebalance the world so that we could have more economic parity so you mentioned to me the book The 100y Year Marathon by Michael Pillsbury uh when we discussed China and uh I've gotten a chance to read parts of it and i' highly recommend people read it because there's a few it's a an eye openening perspective I don't know if I agree with all of it I don't know if you agree with all of it but it certainly opens it gives a very intense perspective on China and you said it was instructive to how you thought how Donald Trump thought about China uh can you describe the main thesis of the book and maybe with a hopeful view how it's possible to have a trajectory of these two superpowers working together in the 21st century uh versus fighting against each other perfect so um it's a very very big book and I I I think it's a book definitely worth reading uh Michael is uh is is is tremendous he speaks fluent uh Mandarin and so he he spent a lot of time researching to do the book so I highly recommend it to everyone and it was considered more of a fringe perspective uh in 2016 but it really I think came to represent the underpinning of what uh the collective thought was of the Trump Administration and um and maybe you could argue that it was even more cynical the the whole thesis of the book was that China from 1949 to 2049 was working to reclaim their position as the global leader right so you had the the Chinese Empire um you know one of the things I don't know if it's from this book or a different book that I read that spoke about how in the late 1700s basically the Emperor of China was offered some of the industrial capability from England which was basically now becoming an industrial uh the Industrial Revolution and basically no we're fine we're the great Chinese Empire we don't we don't need any of these things we're we're better than that and by rejecting that the rest of the world got stronger China remained weaker uh then you had the the the the Opium Wars you know the the Chinese had big opium problems through all the trade back and forth and then China from about 1840 to to 1940 at 100 years where they really after all these uh treaties were really a second class country and so then you have the people's Revolution that comes in and he talks about how China very strategically as a very very poor country um you know would fight their way back and and build Brick by Brick and you know he propers in the book that Nixon didn't go to China and open China it was China that actually went to Nixon and was able to use Nixon in order to open up then they talk about how under Carter they were able to get the US to contribute to a lot of their uh they were able to kind of start borrowing the us knowhow from our University Systems from our medical from our science from our research and the whole notion that was the conventional thinking of America American leaders was that the more we helped China Advance the more they would become a free market economy and it was a great Market the only difference was was that they weren't allowing us access they were making our companies basically give them all of their technical knowledge they were stealing our intellectual property uh they were doing Espionage to to steal a lot of the patents they were just ignoring our patents and they weren't following any of the rules of international trade then they started becoming the world's manufacturing Hub they basically became the world's Factory and then they started this whole initiative called the belt and Road initiative in order to start locking in their lines of tra they were buying up all the ports everywhere they were building Railways thinking how do we we lock in our distribution so that we can maintain the dominance as the world's Global Factory and so it was a brilliant long-term plan that they were doing and by raising awareness by putting the tariffs Trump slowed them down a lot um the real question is if they actually did achieve this full objective of becoming the world uh dominant country what they would have done with it whether they would have been nefarious or not I think from my perspective even with some of the divisions and issues we have now in America I still would rather an American L World daughter than a Chinese L World daughter um but the notion was is that they were playing a very Zero Sum game and really going to be the dominant leader in this new world order so um so that really framed the perspective and it wasn't necessarily you know people asked me was was and the Chinese were always fearing is Trump trying to stop our rise right and you have a great book also by Graham Allison that he writes about you know are we destined for war between us and China and he goes through different historical times where you have a power and a rising superpower and I think you know more than half the time it ends up leading to war so the question is is what's going to happen here and I I do think that Trump's perspective and this is my interpretation because everything was always tactical dayto day and you know he was unpredictable to the Chinese which they couldn't deal with and he was unpredictable even to his team sometimes because he was playing it day by day and issue by issue and always changing and adjusting which is how an entrepreneur thinks he respected the job they did by building their country they moved 300 million people out of poverty into the middle class they did it at the expense of a lot of other countries throughout the world especially America but Trump says look stupid politicians made deals I respect China for doing what they did but what I want to do is I want to change the Paradigm so that for the next 20 years we can maintain our advantage over them we can maintain our competitive Dynamic and you know his General view was that America is the best private sector in the world we have a lot of the best Minds uh in the world and if we can just have a Level Playing Field with set rules then America should be able to outperform and so that's really what we were trying to do we were trying to kind of get rid of some of their sted subsidies get rid of make them follow some of these International rules of trade and um and not allowing them to do predatory um Investments That Then undercut different industries that we had so that they can have global market dominance or monopolies on different Industries and then have pricing power but also um you know geopolitical power so like one of the examples that people talk about now is China for the last 20 years was very Advanced on seeing this electrification trend they went they they they subsidize solar panels a lot of the American solar panel players were put out of business so now I think it's 90 plus% of solar panels in the world are manufactured in China then all the rare Earths that you need in order to make these solar panels and to make these electric vehicles China's bought up most of them and a lot of the refining capacities in China so thinking through strategically how do we create an even playing field so that we're not at the mercy of them and how you can have a rules-based world order that was really kind of the thought of what we were trying to work towards so uh there's this SNL skit where Jimmy Fallon plays you and you're walking into the Oval Office uh looking cool wearing wearing Shades and a bulletproof vest to the song Unbelievable by EMF I don't know if you've seen it but it's pretty epic and then uh Trump says that you've traveled the world representing the administration but no one has ever heard you speak so there's a lot of questions I can ask about that but one of them is can you introspect why you choose this lowkey approach uh of kind of operating behind the scenes and not speaking much to the public at least at the time he you spoken a little bit more and today you've spoken for a really long time which I deeply appreciate no it's been a pleasure to do this and and thank you for the opportunity to to talk about these things and so so that was a really funny skit and um you know it's funny the the thing I got made fun of the most for that was the Wardrobe and that came from after you know three months in the administration we would were having dinner with all the generals and they were saying you know updating us on the war with ISIS and general Dumford said to me after look the president can't come to see how we're fighting this war but I'd like to invite you to come with me to Iraq and come see and would you come with me I said you know what that's great I always learned in business now you can't make decisions from just an ivory Tower you have to go to the front lines and see what what's actually happening so I said no problem I I'd love to go meanwhile two days before I'm about to go the doc from the White House stops by my office and says we need to get your blood what do you my blood type is you're going to an active war zone like okay so I guess I'm going to war zone I I didn't really think this thing fully through so I get on the plane with Dumford and uh we land in in Iraq and he looks like gi. Joe he's you know he's a great uh great General he's very very well respected in the military and we we go in and we uh we get on Blackhawk helicopter they said you know today's a nice day let's take the uh the sides off and so I get on the plane and there's a guy uh you know military service uh officer who then takes a machine gun locks it into a thing takes the bullets puts them into the gun and it's sitting there saying we're ready to go and then I'm looking out there's like three other helicopters with guys one was an osprey with a guy buckled in also with a machine gun looking out we take off and we're flying over Baghdad from the airport to the Embassy and as we're going I'm sitting in an open air helicopter with the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff guys with machine guns everywhere this is a new experience for you you have an experence I would say slightly I mean I was doing real estate like three months ago you know now I'm flying over Iraq and and the chairman says that's Saddam Hussein's Palace and I look down there's like a big bomb right through the middle then you see the area with the two swords in the hands I'm saying to myself like how the hell did I get here like what what is happening so meanwhile we end up going to the front lines um to be with the service uh the Iraqi military which the US military is working closely with and I had a meeting that night with the president of Iraq and so I War what do you wear it at the front lines in a battle Zone and uh and also me the president so I put a sports jacket on we land at the um at the front line and they give me a bulletproof vest that says cusher on it I tape it I just I I put it on I go out and uh I cover the N so it just said cush and uh and I went and I didn't realize they were taking pictures and so I think the picture looks pretty epic you was sunglasses I think I love it so anyway so that was the funny story behind that and then uh actually my brother was at some Society event in New York and uh ran into Jimmy Fallon so the two of them took a selfie together and uh Josh writes me he says uh uh hanging out with my older brother in New York you know I'm trying to explain to him what your voice sounds like so so it was good so that was a funny one but I think just being behind the scenes uh for me just gave me more maneuverability in the sense that you know again it goes back to trust and people knowing that I wasn't going to try to publicize the things they were telling me I think it just gave me more ability to operate that way and I also realized too like communicating is a very important skill uh luckily in Washington there's no shortage of amazing communicators I think there were a lot of people who are much better at me than being communicators so I was very uh happy that they were willing to do it because it wasn't something that I had a lot of experience with or necessarily I thought was very I was very good at and so I kind of just did my job and and and just focused on getting things done uh so let me let me ask you you have a very interesting life uh if you were to give advice to Young Folks on how to have such an impactful life what would you say career and life how to have a successful career and a successful life number one is I would say uh you just have to work hard at everything you do um number two I would say never stop learning and always try to say yes more than you should go out of your comfort zone and I think just just you got to work hard at everything you do and and and if you're going to take something on do it the best you can um you know one of the lessons I write about in the book from my father was I remember I was going for a job interview and he asked me he says well what time uh are you leaving to the job interview is at 9 o00 I said I'll leave at 8 o'clock he says well what if there's traffic I said Dad I've done this drive a thousand times like there's never traffic said what if there's an accident I said I can't control that he said Jared the only excuse you ever have for being late is that you didn't leave early enough and I just think it's something where if you want to accomplish something you know a lot of people I hear they complain about what other people do or why it's hard or why it's impossible and again I say this as somebody who's been so blessed with with with so many things in life but you know when I've had challenges or things I've wanted to achieve I just focus and say what can I do and I I'll I'll read everything I I can get my hands on I if I fail at one the door closes I'll try the window if the window closes I'll try the chimney if the chimney choses I'll try di a tunnel it's just if you want to accomplish something you just have to go at it and um you know I think the most important thing I'll say sorry I'm kind of thinking my way into this answer is um is just do the right thing I think that's also right and I saw that in my career you know be good to people be honest do the right thing and um and if you do that I think long term it it does pay off maybe not in politics but in uh in the World At Large it does and my hope is in politics it will as well I wonder if you can comment on your process of learning in general cuz he took on so many new interesting problems and approached them with a first principles kind of approach MH so what was your source of information so because you didn't seem to be listening to the assumptions of the prior experts you were just taking on the problem in a very pragmatic uh perspective so what was uh how did you learn about the Middle East how did you learn about uh China how did you learn about Mexico how did you you know like all of these prison reform all of this that you've taken on and were extremely effective that it really started with just talking to people um I would I would try to reach out to people who had been involved in different things and ask them you know what they did what they thought of the problem who they thought was smart on it what they read that helped them get a better understanding why they think something had failed um and then I would just you know read voraciously on every topic um you know Washington it was harder to get advice from from humans because I found humans had this weird tendency to talk to the media and so you know I talk to somebody and I'd ask advice and then the next thing i' know is the Washington Post would call and say Jared's an idiot doesn't know what he's doing and he's even going to this person to get advice I'm like yeah I'm asking everyone so so books really became an amazing guide for me um ianka she she's an incredible researcher uh she she's just voracious and so she gave me some of my best books um and some incredible advice as well well but that was really the the process and then I think that was kind of the first stage and then the second stage was just constant iteration and readjusting plan as you continue to get more learning and one story I tell in the book as well is that on my my first trip to the Middle East where I met with uh muhamad Benin zad who I spoke about earlier the ruler of UAE I spent two hours with him asking him questions and really going through the Israeli Palestinian issue the Israeli Arab issue and he said to me at the end of the meeting he says Jared I think you're going to make peace here in the Middle East and I was shocked because I mean first of all he was you know at the time I think some one of the most respected leaders in the region somebody who I found to be very wise and super thoughtful and experienced and I said to him why do you say that I was flattered obviously but but not certain why he was saying that based on the fact that I didn't know what my plan was I didn't know what I was going to do and I had know Pathway to make peace and he said well the US usually sends one of three different kinds of people to come see me he says the first are people who come and they fall asleep in meetings he said the second are people who come and they basically read me notes but have no ability to interact on the message they're there to convey and then the third have been people who have come to convince me to do things that aren't in my interests he says you're the first person who's ever come here and has just asked questions he says why why have you done that I said because I figure you know this problem's been going on for a long time you live here I'll be gone at some point you're gonna have to live with the consequences of whatever my work is and the US has a lot of power and my question is what would you do if you were me and how would you approach this and help me think about it and again I wasn't going to then take his plan and then execute it but I thought it would be very provocative to understand from the people in the region and instructive how they would use the resource and the power that the US had to solve the problems that were having sign significant impact on their lives yeah there's a lot of power to the sort of the the Simplicity of that human approach where you're just listening yeah and one of my wishes for society is I I leave government you know I uh was living on the Upper East Side in a very liberal Echo chamber I then traveled the country I met so many people who I never would have met otherwise on the conservative side on the independent side on so many different issues I think that people benefit if you have such a strong point of view I would follow you know the John Stewart Mill Marketplace of ideas and find people who disagree with you and don't call them names don't say they're a bad person say I want to understand why you feel the way you do let's have conversations in this country and I think that that's probably going to be our best way to work through the issues that we have currently when you zoom out and look at the 21st century from a human history perspective across a time scale of many decades maybe centuries what gives you hope about human civilization everything you've seen you've traveled the world you've talked to some of the most powerful and influential people and you look at the future what gives you hope about this little planet of ours what gives me the most hope is that anything's possible if there's there's one lesson that I took from my time in government it's that people coming together to try to make tomorrow different than yesterday can succeed and if the right people in the right places focus on the right ideas I think the advancement that we can have for human history and for society can be tremendous and I think that right now I see we're at a place in society where there's a lot of what I call squabbles between countries which are really Man versus Man issues and those are as old as time right you know we've been fighting about Borders or or or religion or you know or who wronged somebody a hundred or a thousand years ago and these are what I call more tribal battles but I do think that as we advance with artificial intelligence as energy becomes cheaper uh and it's more readily available I think we're going to have massive industrialization I think we're going to have massive advancement I think in medical and science we're going to have uh cures for diseases we have the potential in 10 20 years from now to enter a dawn for Humanity that could be incredible we could become multiplanetary uh we can we can explore the wonders of the world we can find things we know um so I think that if if we we put our energy towards finding these advancements that will improve the lives of of everyone on this planet instead of figuring out ways to have these tensions between us that for me is the most optimistic case for what's possible and the reason why I believe it's possible is because somebody with no experience somebody who um all I really had was was the faith of of a leader and I had the the courage to try and I went out there with other people and we took on some of the most hopeless impossible problems and we succeeded and if we were able to do that then everyone else should be able to do that as well well Jared thank you for having the courage to try thank you for your friendship for your kindness most importantly for your book recommendations and uh thank you for talking today this was fascinating eye opening I hope to have many more conversations like this thank you very much Lex thank you for listening to this conversation with Jared Kushner to support this podcast please check out our sponsors in the description and now let me leave you with some words from aot mandhi an eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind thank you for listening and hope to see you next time