Tarbiyah Islamiyah - Semester 1 - Lecture 18 | Shaykh Ibrahim Zidan | Zad Academy English
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Kind: captions Language: en [Music] AC [Music] alhamd continuing the rights that need to be observed in our life as part of the Islamic education course these rights even though we are very brief but it's something that is essential and we take what is brief and we build on it and we act upon it Allah subhana would bless it in our life and the only way for us to know these rights is through the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet one of these rights is the rights of the neighbor the rights of the neighbor something that is is clearly stated in the dean of Allah subhana tala and when it comes to the neighbor one of the things that comes first when we talk about the neighbor is to be patient with the harm that comes to you from your neighbor and this is one of the means that Allah subhana T would love a person if he's patient with his neighbors the messenger sallallahu alaih said three types of people Allah subhana love one of them and a man that he has a neighbor that is harming him that means the fact that he's close to him is bothering him it's something that is harmful to him so he's patient with this harm till death takes them apart or a person moves somewhere else he's patient with it he does not uh you know file suits against him he does not call the police on him of course this is as long as it's not life-threatening or harmful that is physical harm or so so but being patient with them and that's why is as alass he said that the good neighborhood or the Good Neighbor the one that is good to his neighbor is not the one that is just does not harm the neighbor but B basically the one that has patient when it comes to the or to the harm that comes from his neighbor and of course to understand this on the other side is that it's one of the means to enter the h fire as the prophet he was told that a woman she prays at night and she fasts during the day and she does and she do do all kinds of good deeds and she gives charity but she harms her neighbors with her tongue She says bad things about them so the prophet he said about her there's no goodness in her she is from the people of the it's a very severe warning for something that people might think the is what sufficient no the rights of the neighbors is to be observed um the sin in some cases it's multiplied when it comes to having the neighbor is part of the sin as the prophet he asked the companions about the Z about committing adultery or fornication and they said Haram this is something that is forbidden Allah subhana T and his messenger sallu alaihi wasallam forbid so the prophet said to them for a man to have Z adultery with 10 women is much easier and less in punishment than to have Z with his neighbor's wife which shows the severity of it it's not belittling Zena with other than the neighbors but it shows the severity of such a crime when it comes to the neighbors and the same thing when it comes to stealing for example you know as the prophet also he asked them about stealing they said it's Haram so then the prophet wasam he said the same thing for for a man to steal from 10 houses is much easier than to steal from his neighbor so it's it's not to approve stealing but it CH CHS the level of severity of harming the neighbors so not harm the neighbors the neighbors but rather do good to them and this is the or to do matters of goodness to the neighbors and there's so many different ways to achieve this to love for the Neighbors what you love for yourself as the prophet said that a person would not complete his meant that he love for his neighbors what he love for himself giving gifts uh when it comes to food and things like this the prophet if you cook meat make lots of soup from it why because because it becomes more spacious for the neighbors to give them from what you cooked uh and then it's it's something that is almost sinful even though sometimes a a person is not aware of what this state of his neighbors but the prophet he said he did not believe in me the one that spend the night full and his neighbor is hungry next to him that means he knows exactly that this is his situation so knowing that your neighbor is hungry and he's going to bed hungry if you know that and you would go to sleep not hungry the prophet he said he did not believe in me this is not the way of the Prophet uh to take care of the Affairs of the neighbor when he's absent or after he dies to be kind to them uh to allow the neighbor for example to benefit from something that you own as long as it's not harmful as the prophet he said clearly in thei uh a neighbor should not prevent his neighbor from putting his uh wood uh on his ceiling or on his wall meaning when when when The Neighbor shares the same wall with you you know they have the same wall and they have to put the the beams of uh of of wood on top of the the ceiling for example and you can say well this is my ceiling don't put anything on it but how can he strengthen his house so you should not prevent him from anything that is benefiting from him for him as long as it doesn't harm you this is something that needs to be observed there is a Hadith of the Prophet that talks about warning against harming the neighbor and this is one of the major sins and the prophet swearing by Allah subhana tala three times by Allah he's not he he would not believe he would not believe he would not believe they said who is that or messenger of Allah he said the neighbor when he's not safe from the harm of his neighbor and this is a very uh delicate subject here it's not about harming the neighbors here it's about your neighbor is safe from you then your neighbor has to feel safe when it comes to you that means he's not going to harm me because this is a nice man so that means what kind of attitude what kind of a behavior that the person is doing so that he would make the neighbor satisfied and reach that conclusion that he would not be harmed from his neighbor uh it's one of the things that makes people curse the person or Allah subhana tala would curse the one that would harm his neighbors as a man came to the prophet and he was complaining about his neighbor so the prophet said something to him we might consider it strange he said put your furniture on the road so he did that so the people kept on passing and they would curse his neighbor because it's basically he's doing that because his neighbors are harming him so the neighbor came to the prophet Alat and he said you know oh prophet of Allah see what I am facing and he said what is what are you facing from them he said they're cursing me he said the prophet said to him Allah cursed you before the people cursed you so the man said I would never do it again oh prophet of Allah so the one uh the other one came to the prophet Alat and he told him then remove your furniture so it shows again that the harm to the neighbor is such a severe one and we ask Allah subhana T protect to protect us also it's one of the things that prevents the person from entering Jenna and we heard that in the one that severed the relationship with the relatives the same thing that he would not enter Jenna meaning from the first instant if you die in the state of Al Islam the one that his neighbor is not safe from his harm so uh when it comes to this whether the neighbor is Muslim or a non-muslim both are to be taken care of you know and abdah you know he had a goat or a sheep that was slaughtered in his household and when he came from outside he said did you give a gift or part of that to the to the Jewish neighbor that we have and he repeated it you give gift to our Jewish neighbor then he said I heard the messenger Salli wasallam saying that kept on advising me commanding me to be kind to the neighbor till I thought that the neighbor will have a share of The Inheritance so it shows the importance of it whether he's a Muslim or a disbeliever it doesn't matter he's a neighbor the issue is about being kind to the neighbor because he's a neighbor that's why the people of knowledge they say that the neighbors are of three types the when it comes to the rights there is the Muslim and he's a relative and he's a neighbor so he has three rights here because he has he's a Muslim so he has the right of Al Islam he has the right of being neighbor he has the right of being relative and then a neighbor that has two rights only which is a Muslim and he's your neighbor but he's not a relative so he has two rights the right of Al Islam and the right of Al J or to be the neighbor and a neighbor that has only one right which is the disbelieving neighbor neighbor because he's a neighbor so that means still you have to fulfill the rights of that neighbor and to be kind to him and that's why the kindness to the neighbors includes the close one and the far away one that means the neighbor that is near and the one that is far and of course the one that is closer has more rights than the one that is farther away as one asked asked the prophet I have two neighbors to which one I should give my or my gift the prophet said to the one that is closer to you her her door is closer to you she has more rights on you than the one that is further away from you so these are some of the rights to be observed towards the neighbors with the different levels of the neighbors with the kindness that need to be there with being patient with them and not to rush into retaliate or to seek Justice or to complain or whatever but rather to be patient and to be obedient to Allah subhana tala stop here inshallah tal and with another right to be observed next time inshallah tala [Music] AC [Music] for
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