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alhamdulillah the Prophet
Alat as mentioned in the previous class
would stop his wives
from committing a sin or
transgressing as per the Hadith of a may
Allah be pleased with her
once uh she was talking about
safia and she was a bit jealous of safia
because safia was a beautiful woman
so she said oh leave safia alone safia
is is
this pointing to the fact that she's
short and the prophet sallallahu alaihi
Ali wasallam said to her
OHA you've uttered a word if it were to
be mixed with the ocean it would have
mixed it and spoiled it meaning that
this word you've said was very
horrible and
the prophet sallallah alaihi wasallam
also said to her when she was mimicking
and imitating someone and we do this all
the time sometimes we we said we we
imitate a celebrity or a famous she or a
famous person to make fun of so oh yeah
he said we do this so the prophet said
to his beloved wife by Allah I would not
love
that Allah gives me so and so and I
would imitate someone so such an
imitation or mimicking or making fun of
someone either by the movement of his
head or by his walk and the likes all of
this is part of uh Haram
backbiting the prophet Alat
wasam was also a
person who would not
intervene when his wives
fight and this is very important for
those who have more than one wife
because when you take sides you're
ruining your life yes you may feel that
this is fair and just but you're not a
judge they did not come for you to
arbitrate between them or to judge them
or to tell them who's right and who's
wrong so one has to be a bit neutral and
be safe rather than being sorry in the
authentic Hadith
once Z bin J
came and she was ASA describes the only
one who I
was considering to be my
rivalry so she was competing with me to
win the prophet's heart the prophet
loved her Zab B J is the prophet's
cousin by the
way so she came to the prophet while
while he was with Aisha
and
she Aisha described her of being a
really really good person she was among
the best of women I've had ever
seen listen to AA describing Zab her
co-wife look at how fair and just and
beautiful her description is towards
someone she should be jealous of she
says she was I've never seen any woman
who's better than Zab who's more fearful
of Allah than zanab who's more truthful
when she talks than zanab who is more
than connecting to her kinship and
helping them and giving away in charity
and working with her own hands to make
things and sell them and give that into
charity and get closer to Allah no one
is I've never seen anyone better than
zanab
except that she had this rage in her
that would flare out once every while
but she immediately comes back to her
senses and everything is fine so she
came into our house when I was sitting
with the prophet
Alam and she
started saying to the prophet Alam the
your wife your other eight wives are
asking you to fear Allah in meaning that
you it's obvious that you love her more
than us and all the people know that so
they give you gifts in her night when
she's with you and send their gifts and
food and everything else to so they felt
jealous so we ask you to fear Allah Asel
and she started to say bad things about
AA and AA is in front of
her and she's trying to put her down and
the prophet is not saying
anything and AA is watching the prophet
sallallahu alaihi wasallam through the
corner of her eyes until she sensed that
the prophet Sall wasallam had no problem
in her getting even
so the moment she felt this she kept on
defending herself and attacking Zab
saying the thing same thing to her and
zanab was taken back and she refrained
from what she was saying because of the
defense
of and the prophet was
smiling saying that she's the daughter
of Abu Bakr the prophet Alat wasam also
taught us not to
suspect our
wives without any proof or a legitimate
reason jab abdah may Allah be pleased
with him and with his father said that
the prophet Alat wasam
prohibited that a husband coming from
travel to come at
night trying to look for their fults and
whether they're seeing someone else or
not he is thinking that they're
betraying him and this is an etiquette
in Islam that you do not spy you do not
suspect you do not think bad of your
spouse unless there is something
tangible and real and a
proof some
men I hear install cameras in their
homes in their living rooms just to
check on their wives are not seeing
anyone they even tap their
phones or their home to hear what
conversations take
place what kind of a marriage is this if
you're this sick divorce your wife and
and or or or seek psychiatric attention
because you're not normal and this is
not a real marriage that people normal
people could live in and and consider to
be uh
normal now the prophet alam's household
had problems like any
marriage and there are two main problems
one of them
is the story of
Al this great Calamity that took place
when the people of
hypocrisy uh um
slandered mother
AA so what happened was
they said that she committed adultery
withan may Allah be pleased with him
after being unable to join the
Expedition and the Army after the camp
was dismantled and they left she was
left behind and looking for a necklace
that fell from her and before she knew
it the whole convy is gone so she sat
where she was until safan passed by her
and noticed her and knew who she was and
then he took her on his camel and caught
up with the Army and that was few hours
later and when the Hypocrites saw this
they started to slunder
mother and this is when Allah says
indeed those who
propagated the slander that is the if or
a group among you do not think it bad
for you rather it is good for you
because it revealed the Innocence
OFA in the Quran that Allah revealed
till date we recite it unlike what the
say may Allah curse them when they
slunder mother AA and insist on
falsifying the Quran and saying that no
this is not uh in her regard we don't
believe in this
and from uh uh such behavior and such
belief and there is good in it because
it exposed the
Hypocrites for who they truly are so
what happened was that the prophet
sallallahu alaihi Ali
wasallam when he went through such a
problem he stayed for a whole
month and in this month AA did not know
anything wrong because she fell sick and
the prophet kept on coming to visit but
she felt that she was a little bit
different because he just comes in and
says how are you are you well and he
leaves he's not showing her the
compassion and the affection he used to
why because the prophet was confused
himself
Alam all this slunder happening he
doesn't doesn't have proof and evidence
to defend his wife though he knows her
but he cannot defend it when there are
people
accusing and at the same time Allah as a
form of test did not reveal her
innocence for a whole month so the
prophet was
confused and also the prophet sallallahu
alaih
wasallam asked
his close relatives he asked
us and he asked Al
Talib and each one of them said
something Usama Z for example said she's
your wife and by Allah I know nothing
bad or evil about
her so he got an assurance that she was
okay Ali on the other hand
took the safest approach and he said
she's just a woman and Allah made all
women Halal for you so yeah if you are
in
doubt leave her but I would maybe
ask the
maid because the maid is very
close to her she's always with her in
the house she would have known noticed
anything
fishy and the maid said by Allah she has
nothing to worry about and I've never
ever seen anything bad about her but the
only thing that I would criticize her
for is that she's a young girl while
doing her dough and fixing it in the
kitchen she would fall asleep that's the
only thing that I would any um criticize
size her for and while she's asleep the
sheep or the chicken would come and eat
the dough and and and everything would
be gone so what happened was for a whole
month the prophet would not know what to
do until
Allah revealed the verses of her
innocence and it was proven that those
who slandered her had to pay the the
price and those who slandered her were
three among the companions who were
vocal about
it who made this sin and made that huge
mistake but the real Hypocrites would
not be pinned out because they did that
in secret and made sure that it was not
public so those three companions Hass
great Companions of the Prophet Alam
were flogged for this now if we would
look how the prophet dealt with
it it's a crisis for a whole month your
own love your wife the prophet sallallah
alaihi wasallam did wasn't haste and he
took a whole month to reach out the
decision with the grace of
Allah and he did not even open the topic
witha but she noticed that he was not as
compassionate and as kind as he used to
and she had no idea why was that and
also the prophet used to
collect advice and opinion from those
who were close to him so he asked Usama
he asked Ali he asked uh uh her maid bar
and he also asked his co-wife Zab B J
may Allah be pleased with her and Zab
the co-wife we've which we we heard
about a bit earlier she said by Allah I
protect my hearing and my sight I've
never seen anything negative or bad uh
on AA she is legit
Nowa may Allah be pleased with her
suffered a lot yet she was patient and
grateful to Allah alone for saving her
reputation and from that calamity as
well the other problem was that his
women once they uh uh reached something
uh that was too much for them they've
reached a level that you
know they would not light fire in his
house to cook for two months so they
came from wealthy families and now it
was too much for them and they felt that
we should insist more on
asking for more provision from the
prophet Alam until the prophet was
frustrated and took a oath to stay away
from them for a whole month to reprimand
them and this is how the prophet dealt
with
it
he cannot give them more and this is his
lifestyle and this is his standard of
living because he's a person of
God and this is how he sees this world
so if you want you can stay on board if
you don't you I could set you free as
Allah says in the Quran oh Prophet say
to your wives if you should desire the
worldly life and its adornment then come
I will provide for you and give you a
gracious release but if you should
desire Allah and his messenger and the
home of the Hereafter then indeed Allah
has prepared for the doers of good among
you a great
reward and he gave the choice to his
wives one by one and all of them chose
to be with the prophet Alat wasam and
repented and said no we would not choose
this world over you oh prophet of Allah
and this teaches us to take care of the
women we have because they might have
come from wealthy
families and we may not be as wealthy as
their parents so if they may insist on
having a better life or wanting more
money and we can't afford it we need to
take it easy with them and try to be
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