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alhamdulillah the prophet sallallah
alaihi was am was our role model in how
we should treat women not to look down
upon them not
to ignore their emotions because women
by Nature are
filled with
emotions and they need to feel people's
compassion
and to feel
them when they're suffering when they're
sad or depressed and this is exactly how
the Prophet
wasat The Prophet sallallahu alaihi Ali
wasallam used to visit
um may Allah be pleased with her she's
the mother of anas
Malik and he would not visit any other
women
and when
asked the prophet said sallallahu alaihi
wasallam I feel pity for her because her
brother was
killed was martyred with me and he is
referring to
Haram may Allah be pleased with him who
and his companions were assassinated
in the expedition
of that's a long story but just to sum
it up to you the prophet sent almost 70
of his best companions to the middle of
Arabia to call the people upon
invitation they invited them to come and
give them dawa so he sent them only to
be betrayed by the tribal leader
and this tribal leader was
being given a presentation by Haram
milhan the uncle of
anas and while he was talking and
telling abouted about the Quran about
Islam this tribal
leader winked to one of his uh uh
assistants who came from behind Haram
milhan with his Spear and stabbed him
from the
back Haram milhan the moment he
felt the pain and the blood gushing from
his wound he took his hands and grabbed
the blood and said I've
won by the lord of the ca I have
one this is what I came for to die in
the cause of
Allah this
phrase while being martyred he did not
remember the wife the house the
Investments all of what he had in this
world he just was
happy to meet his end in such a fashion
that would guarantee Jenna for him
the man who assassinated
him accepted Islam because whenever he
pondered upon that phrase said I'm
killing the man and he say I've won by
the lord of the
Caba what kind of a religion is this and
he accepted
Islam so the prophet used to feel
sorry for
um and her
sister har for the death of their
brother
haran may Allah be pleased with them
all likewise the prophet sallallahu
alaihi alhi
wasallam would start the congregational
prayer and hears the
cry and the Weeping and the shouting of
a young
infant so he rushes The Prayer he
hastens it and once he concludes it he
says to the
congregation
I start the prayer wanting to prolong it
but when I hear the child crying I feel
pity for his mom's heart and I can
feel her worries because of her child so
I finish my prayer quickly so that she
could attend her child compare this to
the fabricated
Hadith that so many ignorants Among Us
use whenever someone brings his child to
the
mid scolding them by saying oh the
prophet saidham keep your children and
your
insane individuals outside of our Masjid
and there's no such
Hadith having said that it's
not a cash Blan or a pass for all of us
to bring our children whether they're
disciplined or
naughty and give them leeway to do
whatever they want in the mid no this is
wrong but if this happens once every
blue moon it is not a reason for us to
raise our voice voices or to scold that
individual or to make a scene out of it
likewise the prophet sallallah alaihi
wasam when the Battle of M took place
and
z and
abdah who led the Army were martyred he
sat down with
clear grief signs on his face because of
the death of his beloved
Companions and a man came telling him
that the wives and the women folk of
jaff Talib his own cousin the brother of
Al Talib are Weeping and
crying so the prophet said to him tell
them
to get their voices down and to stop
what they're doing the man went and came
back he said they're continuing to do
this they wouldn't obey me say so he
told him to go and order them the man
came back for the third time he said
they will
not obey me so the prophet said to him
then take a handful
of dust and put it in their mouths
so may Allah be pleased with with her
said to the man may Allah Asel cause you
trouble as you've caused the prophet
sallallahu alaihi wasallam trouble can't
you see what he's in either you do what
he told you to do or leave him alone why
come back twice and three times annoying
the prophet while he is depressed like
that and sad for his great
loss so this shows you the how the
prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam cared
for women even if these women had no
great importance or
name in the
society there was a black woman and the
companions didn't even know the her name
so that the books of History would
report it this black woman used to clean
the
Masjid and once the
prophet could not see her so he asked
what happened to her and they told him
that she died and the prophet was angry
why didn't you tell me why didn't you
inform me and he ordered them to show
him her grave and he went to her grave
and offered the funeral prayer and made
Dua for
her the prophet sallallahu alaih
wasallam
would never
forget anything good that people did to
him even if these people were women he
would always remember it and he would
always pay them back in a very
long
Hadith the prophet sallallahu alaihi
wasallam was once with an
expedition and they were stranded in an
area where there was no water
so they went to the prophet Sall
wasallam asking him for water and he
told them to look
around and they found a woman on her
camel with two water bags water
containers and they asked her is there
any water around and she said no so they
said to her how far is it from you and
your people and she says about a day
drive or a they
ride so they brought her to the prophet
Alat and the prophet sallallah alaihi
wasallam took some of that water turned
it in his mouth and spit it back into
the water
containers and he asked all of his
companions to drink from that water and
to fill in their own water containers
and to wash from
it and after they had all done that the
prophet ordered them to
collect each one of them from what they
have some food some dates some uh um uh
wheat or whatever they had and they
collected a lot of
food and then they put it in one
sack and and they put her back on her
camel and they put the sack of food with
her and the prophet said to herat take
it and feed your children and family
from it and let it be known to you we
did not take a single drop of your water
but it was Allah the almighty Who
provided for
us and the woman went and and when her
people saw her asked her what took you
so long she said well I
was brought in front of this sorcerer
they say they call him the Infidel and
man either he's the best sorcerer i' had
ever seen or he's a prophet of
Allah and the story goes on that
whenever Expeditions came they raided
all the infidels and the idol
worshippers Villages except the village
she was
in and one day she told her people
listen can't you see it's an obvious
sign they are avoiding our
village because of the Gratitude the
prophet of Allah Salli wasallam has for
me for the water I gave for them that
day
so wouldn't you consider Islam and the
whole village accepted Islam and came to
the
prophet look at the
Gratitude the softness the ease the
kindness the
prophet treated this woman
with though she's an idol worshipper but
when you're not rude when you're kind
when you're so
spoken this
unseals the hearts of many
people and it calls them to Islam draws
them to
Islam even when women made mistakes the
prophet was kind to them sallallahu
alaih wasallam he once passed by a grave
with a woman weeping on
him a a child of hers died and was bued
married she so she was weeping the
prophet said to heram fear Allah and be
patient so the woman not recognizing him
said leave me alone you were not
Afflicted with my Calamity so the
prophet left her he did not reprimand
her or said anything he did not say
anything to her don't you know who
you're speaking
to no he just left then the companion
said to her don't you know that this was
the prophet Alam are you crazy so she
immediately rushed and tried to follow
him and she did as he entered the Masjid
saying to him oh prophet of Allah I am
patient I am
patient look at how the prophet
sallallah alaihi wasallam dealt with
such a woman and the prophet sallallahu
alaihi wasallam used to to accept gifts
from female
companions like the one who gave him a
cloak and he was in desperate need for
such a cloak and he when he put it on
one of the companion said what that's a
beautiful cloak give it to me oh prophet
of Allah and the prophet took it off and
gave it to him and the companions
reprimanded him are you crazy you know
that the prophet Sall wasallam would
never reject anyone asking him and you
know how he how much desperate he needs
that cloak he said I know but I just
wanted it to be used to wrap my body
when I die and I'll be shrouded in it
and he was shrouded in
it and the prophet alai also asked a
woman who had a carpenter working for
her to build him a Pulpit so that he
would use it for Friday speech and the
likes in the Masjid and so she did and
also he used to
visit some of his female companions when
they were sick and make Dua for them and
teach them as he did
with when she had the fever and he gave
her the Glad Tiding that this this fever
takes away and raises away your sin and
likewise
the prophet visited her when she had the
fever and he gave gave her the Glad
Tiding of her sins being
erased and he used to teach them to say
to say to uh
um give Vick and to count that on the
right hand side uh finger because they
will be questioned and they will talk on
the day of judgment to test if y for
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