Tarbiyah Islamiyah - Semester 4 - Lecture 6 | Shaykh Ibrahim Zidan | Zad Academy English
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Kind: captions Language: en [Music] Academy. Fore! Foreign! Foreign! Continuing with the Islamic education level four and the diseases of the heart and continuing with the subject of following the desires which is one of the diseases in the heart. following the desires versus following the the revelation from Allah and we are being tested with this whether to follow the revelation from Allah or to follow the desires and the revelation from Allah would not deprive you from your desires but this is the act of following which one do we follow one of the or we'll talk about the reasons and some of the reasons why a person would follow their desires turning away from the from the truth from the clarity of the truth one of which is when a Person is not used to control his desire from early age and this is a a serious matter the way of our upbringing of our children. A child is raised to follow his desire. Every time he wants he gets. Anything he wants he gets. There's no uh there's no no, right? There's no no to the child. Everything is yes. Yes. Yes. And there's no punishment if he do something wrong. especially after 7 years old, after 10 years old and things like this. So therefore he's raised to follow his desire and his life becomes the worldly matters that he wants to attain. He wants to be this and that and all what he sees is that the successful ones on the face of earth are the one that are healthy, the one that are wealthy, the ones that follows their desires. So they become their models in this life. And that's why the they made it very clear when it comes to raising their children is to control their desires while they are still young in age. That's why they would train them to make in Ramadan. They're commanded to make the salah when they're seven years old every salah you know and that requires some determination as the prophetat commanded the guardian of the child that you command your children to pray when they're seven years old that means they are with you in every salah making sure that they don't miss a salah but they're not responsible able for their actions yet. So they're not to be punished. 10 years old if they miss it then there is punishment as everything else in one's life and they you go for you take them for if they're young and so on. So the issue of the or the upbringing when a person is in young age but that's not an excuse. If someone was not raised like this and then he repented to Allah subhana t he became a Muslim he was not then there is a level required for a person to train himself to work on himself to have that control of one's life to suppress the sinful desires by following the from Allah subhana tala one of these reasons also is to sit with the people of desires and to make them one's companions because human beings they are uh they they love to have of course company and the environment that they're in. So whatever the person's friends are he will be like them as the prophetat he said the man is upon the religion of his closest friends. So let one each one of you look of who is his friends. So not to then take anyone's as friends. So if a person takes someone that has weakness in his zeal, in his determination, he be like him. If he take someone that is sinful, and that's why the sinful ones, they are the weakest people. Because what does that mean to be sinful? That means you're weak. You're not strong. You're not a man enough because every time you have a desire, you just follow it. This is not the proper way of doing things. So having the companions and the friends to be strong and to have determination with matters of the religion and that's why the early generations of Islam they would warn against sitting with the people of the people of desires and deviation their desires and their matters of belief let them astray. do not sit with them and as he said because I don't feel secure that they would make you immersed and dipped in in their deviation they will make you confused of some of the things that you know and you have certainty upon. So this is this is part of our dean part of our creed that we oppose the people of Ba innovations in the dean and we stay away from them we boycott them we do not deal with them and the very most important benefit of that is to protect oneself and to protect one's heart and to make sure that their religion is not being added on anything to it or taken a thing anything away from it. Another reason why following the desires becomes easy is when a person's knowledge about Allah subhana wa ta'ala and the hereafter is weak. Person doesn't know much about Allah subhana wa tala. He does not have this this exaltation of Allah. Doesn't know Allah subhanaa tala with his names and attributes. Does not realize who's the one that he is disobeying. Who's the one that he's been in state of forgetfulness and following his desires and not the commands of Allah subhana t and also the hereafter. They did not estimate Allahh the way it ought to be. Subhanah when the earth is in the hands of Allahhana tala in the day of judgment and the heavens are all folded by the right hand of Allah subhana wa ta'ala he is to be glorified subhanahu wa ta'ala above all of what they associate partners with Allah. So not knowing Allah subhana tala with his names and attributes not knowing what's going to be in the hereafter also one of these means is uh when it comes to our duty towards those who follow their desires meaning we don't do much of enjoining good and forbidding evil. So as a result of that you would find the person that follows his desire he keeps on continuing following his desire. Why? because he doesn't see anyone that is forbidding him or telling him that this is wrong. People are not warned against them. So this is part of the duty of the dean of Allah is to always is to learn what is good and what is bad to warn people from what is bad. And this is something that should be done by the people of knowledge and the students of knowledge and those who have the knowledge of what is right and what is wrong. One of these reasons is the love of this worldly life and relying upon it and being satisfied with it and forgetting the hereafter. And this is as a result of that a person would follow whatever he desires. If a person have the heart concerned and attached to the hereafter, this is what he desires. He would follow that. And the only way to attain what's in the hereafter is through the revelation from Allah. So he would follow the Quran and the sunnah of the prophetat. When the heart is not upon that, what happens? a person would follow the worldly desire. Also, one of these means is having the ignorance of what's the consequences, the end of things as a result of following the desires, you know, and that the worst of it is for the person to enter the hire. You know, when someone has an exam and he doesn't study for it, if he doesn't know what's if it doesn't matter whatsoever, he's he's going to get an A anyway, so why would he study? But if he knows that he's going to fail and as a result of that he might be kicked out of the school and then all kinds of other things will will happen to him. He will take the matter seriously. So the same that's how knowledge change the person. So as a result of that there are certain harms that comes as a result of following the desires and there are so many one of which and the worst of it all is for a person to lose the hereafter. for as Allahh said about those who the people of Jenna as for those who feared Allah subhana tala and feared standing by Allah subhana wa t'ala and they forbade themselves from the desire from the sinful desires what happened to them where the jenna is their place so the way to enter Jenna that there's no way out a person has to work on himself to forbid oneself from one's personal desires that opposes the dean of Allah that is against the command of Allahh to be obedient to him the desire leads the person to be a deviant talked about the people of deviation they only follow their uh thoughts and then what they desire many people they don't want to even embrace the dean of alislam because of that weakness. They want to follow their desires. They want they don't want to be deprived from the desires that they fulfill. So they turn away from even thinking of what's right and what's wrong. They don't want anyone to disturb them from whatever desires that they're indulged in. Never uh you know to benefit from the Quran and the admonitions. You know the Quran is revealed for people to benefit from it. And also there's no way away from the Quran. This is the means of guidance. And as Allahh says about those who Allahh sealed their hearts. Those who Allah seal their hearts and follow their desires. They listen to what the prophetat was says, but they don't benefit from it. They don't pay attention to what is being said. they make mockery of it and things like this. So also one of the things is that desires would corrupts the heart. The desires corrupt the hearts and makes it away from being sound and steadfast. And this is the sound heart is the one that is away from that. It's one of the means to lose one's reason and intellect and knowledge because it's either the the from Allah subhana wa ta'ala or then people would follow their desires makes the person the gates of and help as it's mentioned become shut down for the person he's not being helped in this life you know why because the desires and following one's sinful desires make him away from being guided did and helped by Allah subhana wa ta'ala and this is a dangerous thing uh makes a person belittle the sins the heart becomes hard and a person then doesn't really care whether he do a sin or not and that's what he said that the believer he sees his sin as if he is sitting under a mountain almost going to collapse on him and the hypocrite or the or the wicked ones he sees sees his sins like a fly that it comes onto his nose and he would say this to it and it flies away belitts the sin. When a person finds himself saying at least it's a small sin versus those who make major sins that means there's a disease in the heart. So this is something that we have to exalt the sins major and minor and everything. And also one of the means for the person to be humiliated is basically following the desires. Those who follow the matters of determination and the wi from Allah subhana wa tala they're away from being humiliated and being losing the baraka and the help from Allah subhana wa tala. So we ask Allahhana tala to make us among those who have that control in their lives by the will of Allahhana and to cure us from the diseases of the heart. You want to get [Music] Academy. [Music]
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