Kind: captions Language: en [Music] Academy was [Music] Alhamdulillah. Welcome to this first class in the fourth level of studying the se of the prophetatam where we will be hopefully inshallah studying few things about the prophet himselfatam. what he loved, what he hated, how he was happy, when he was sad, how he cried and weeped, how he was angry and among these other things that are so personal for two reasons. The first one is our prophetatam was sent to us by Allah as a role model so that we would follow his footsteps in everything he does. Secondly, because there is a vicious evil campaign round the clock against himatam. If you want to discredit Islam, you have to discredit the prophet. Which is something you can't. So they are relentlessly trying to do so. So part of defending the prophetatam is that we know we must know how to defend him, how to protect his reputation. Allah says in the Quran, indeed we are sufficient for you against the mockers. So allahel is sufficient and he will protect his reputation and this is what we can clearly see when they try to mock the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam or depict him he simply shines more and is prominent and on the top all the time which goes against their attempts evil attempts. So let us focus first on the way the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam used to speak. The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam was given the eloquency that when he speaks it is sweeter than honey. To the ears it is so beautiful that you wish he would never stop. And the prophet himself wasam was not a person who spoke like us for hours and you would come out and say, "Oh, beautiful speech." But um what did he say? I don't know. He spoke so little with so profound meaning behind what he spoke to the extent that people used to warn others whenever they come to Mecca don't listen to this man he's a poet he's a sorcerer he's a magician he could manipulate you with his words one of these men was may Allah be pleased with him he says about himself. I was a poet. I was a noble person. I was the head of my people. When he came to Mecca for Hajj, the people of Mecca warned him and said to him, "Be careful. This guy is worse than a sorcerer. He separates between a man and his wife, a man and is his son. He simply puts enmity in people's hearts. Watch out. So I was so convinced I filled my ears with cotton. When when I meant went to the haram to the Caba to pray, he was standing there minding his own business sallallahu alaihi wasallam and he was praying. So I stayed away but subhan Allah Allahawel wanted that I hear despite the cotton I filled my ears with and when I heard and contemplated upon what he was saying and he was reciting the Quran I said darn this is pretty well this is pretty good and I'm an intellectual sexual intelligent person. I'm a poet. I know what's good and what's bad. Why am I preventing myself from listening to this man? So he went to the prophetatam and he told him about the warnings the people of Quraysh gave him and what he had done and now he would like to listen. So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam gave him his presentation and the man says, "I've never heard anything more beautiful, more eloquent, nothing that is more fair and just than the Quran." So I took my shahada. I reverted to Islam. And this shows you that no matter what the people do, inevitably when Allah wants to guide someone, he'll be guided. Even if he himself does not want to or knows or feels that he does not want to, despite this fact, Allahel would say would still guide that individual. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says and the disbelievers planned but Allahel also planned and Allah is the best of all planners. So this is the fact no matter what the enemies of Islam do inevitably Allahel would always prevail. When the prophet spoke Alisatam sometimes I get calls on ask zad and the people that talk they speak like 100 miles per hour so fast I am unable to understand and sometimes we get people that speak so eloquently and beautifully that every single word is understood. tood with the grace of allahel. Our prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam was the type of person who used to speak in a moderate paste. This paste was not random. Rather he used to know how to speak and when to pause. Mother says, "If we were if we were to wish to count the number of words he spoke, we could have done so." And he used to do so so that people would memorize what he had said. And he wouldn't speak so quickly and dump lots of information beyond a person's comprehension, but he would speak it slowly. So that if a person wanted to repeat it, he would do so easily and he said about himself wasam I was sent with the concise of speech. This means that in one or two words or sentences people could compile books out of that. And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam demonstrated this by the most famous hadith. Deeds are judged by intentions. Very simple but you can write literally volumes on such a statement. And the prophetat wasam used to pick the appropriate words and ways to introduce a topic. Sometimes a speaker could talk and in the middle of his talk you would say what is it about? Because he failed in drawing your attention from the very beginning. The prophetat wasam used to know how to do a proper introduction. For example, when he wanted to give da to his people, he gathered them all on the saf and he went on the suffer actually and he shouted which means this is a call of alarm. There's danger coming. And people when they heard this sort of siren, they immediately went out of their homes and came to gather and hear what the problem is. And then he told them that if I were to tell you that there is an army coming at that mountain and it's going to attack you, would you have would you have believed me? said, "Of course, we've never tested you to be a liar." So the prophet said, "Well, I am um warning you of something far more severe that is a punishment from Allah. [Music] Likewise, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam used to give certain words that have a double meaning so that it would draw the attention of the people. Once he asked who do you consider al among you is a childless childish person. So they said alub is a a person who doesn't have a child. He said no the is a person who did not lose any of his children so that on the day of judgment he would not find any of them preceding him and coming in front of him. And this is a form of giving people sort of uh uh to console them if they've lost a child or two and how devastated they are. The prophet says no you are not that person because you have them preceding you and waiting for you in paradise. So that would be much uh better for them. Also he would ask the people who do you consider among you as a strong man and they would say he's the man who could wrestle anyone and put them down to the ground and he said no a strong man is a person who controls himself at times of anger through this way he would bring the attention of people so whatever he says sticks in their heads. Sometimes he would repeat the same word three times. And this repetition is not all the time because then it would become a little bit boring for some. But sometimes it is to reiterate a an issue so that they would know that this is a a huge importance. So when he gives salam before coming into a house it's a form like ringing the bellsum assalam alaykum assalamu alaykum if nobody replies you leave and likewise if he says something he would repeat it as when he was talking about false testimony and he was inclining and then he sat straight and he repeated it so many times sometimes three sometimes More also the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam used to use humism and this is a way of reducing the harshness or the rudeness of the word. So for example when he referred to issues of intimacy he there are many hadiths and you will find them in your textbooks that he used the word sweetness when a woman wanted to divorce her second husband and this is a trick so that she could go to her first husband who divorced her three times. So she married a second man and then she came to the prophetam and she says I want to divorce him. I don't like him. I don't love him. He's this. He's that. So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam figured it out. And he said no, you can't go back to the first husband, your ex, until you taste his sweetness, the second husband, and he tastes yours. And this is a metaphor for being intimate and having sexual intercourse. Also the word which means to have sexual uh intercourse when the prophet wanted a man who did not have intercourse the previous night so that he would take the deceased and place uh the deceased in the grave. Also the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam used to use the word al which roughly translates into going in onto to prevent the spouses from being intimate then spreading the word and talking uh to others about it. This is totally prohibited and a major sin. And finally he used to refer to it as the bed as in the hadith when a man calls his wife to bed. So he could have said more uh um clearer words but this is his beauty and eloquency that he avoids using such words that may make people think uh of otherwise and Allahawel knows best. Muhammad. [Music] forchech. [Music]