Tarbiyah Islamiyah - Semester 4 - Lecture 12 | Shaykh Ibrahim Zidan | Zad Academy English
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Kind: captions Language: en [Music] Academy. Fore! Foreign! Foreign! [Music] Alhamdulillah Islamic education level four and continuing with the diseases of the heart and dealing with the sinful desires and how to deal with it. And we talked about it before of why there is these sinful desires and what's the reason why would a person fall into these sinful desires that Allahh forbid and Allahh is the most wise and the importance of knowledge in this but then how to deal with it how to deal with one's self desires that we have that that sometimes overpower the person and adorns the evil and the haram and the sins with all kinds of adornments. And it makes it easy for the person especially at a time when it made easy for each and everyone to commit what Allah subhana t forbid. So how a Muslim deal with these types of things? There are three principles, three ways that many other actions can come under these principles that helps the person overpowers these tests and trials in life. When it comes to the shah or the desire, the first one is to say that means I seek refuge in Allah. And this is what Allah subhana wa ta'ala mentioned in the Quran. And this is what Ysef Alisam he said. And Ysef Alisam he said that when the wife of Alaz she tried to seduce him trying to make him fall into this sin and he had all the means to commit the sin. He's a slave no one will question him and the one that is asking him is his owner and the doors are closed and she's the one that is asking and she's threatening him that if he doesn't that he will be punished. I mean and he's a stranger. He's not someone that would really care about fame and things like this. So all of the means are there for him made easy for him to commit what Allah subhana t forbid and he's young and he has the desire and all is all of that is there and Allahh protected him and the thing that ysefam he said he said and more things also that are mentioned that means he sought refuge in Allah. So when someone has the belief in Allah, the fear of Allah, this is what protects the person and then the person would seek refuge in Allah because the desire when it's strong and is as if a person again is going to drown in it and the only one that would help is Allah subhana tala. So sincerely turning to Allah subhana wa ta'ala and that's why one of the seven people that will be under the shade of Allahh in the day of judgment one of them that a man that a woman try to call him to commit a sin and she has status that means she he fears the repercussions and the consequences of the matter and she has beauty and he would say indeed I fear Allah subhana wa tala so this is becomes the the way of life of the believer I seek refuge in Allah I ask help from Allah subhana tala I fear Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala also Another uh principle that should be a way of life to protect us is to warn ourselves against the the betrayal of the eyes. If it's correct to say betrayal of the eyes yes the eyes betrays and Allah subhana wa ta said Allah subhana t knows the the betrayal of the eyes and what the hearts conceal. What is betrayal of the eyes? When a person sneaks, steals a look that nobody recognize that he's seeing something while only Allah subhana t sees him that he's seeing something and he mentioned that he says a man will be in someone's house and he's sitting with them and there's a beautiful woman or passes by and if they're not paying attention he would sneak a look. He would steal a look to her and if they're paying attention he would look like he's he's lowering his gaze and every time they would not pay attention he would sneak a look. So this is how stealing something that Allah subhana wa ta'ala forbid because looking at someone's wife looking at someone's daughter right this is something that is forbidden and that's his wife this is his daughter so this is someone that is stealing and transgressing the limits that Allahhana ta made for someone else the desire that is exclusive the desire that a person should seek from his wife it's only for the husband not for anyone else. So when someone sneaks something especially again when you would find those who would willingly you know they they don't mind if anyone would look at their wives and the women they're not wearing hijab which is a misery that we we ask Allahh to protect us from that. So but the point here is not lowering the gaze protecting these means of stealing a look as Allahh says he knows it they don't know it but Allah subhana t knows and everything that Allahhana ta you know he would ask us about that you're hearing you're seeing your heart you will be asked about this a person is asked about one look that's why we have to seek forgiveness from Allah and ask Allah Hala for forgiveness and to repent to Allah. So to be watchful to that level before the matter even gets worse. Another principle which is very important is to push away the thoughts early before it gets into actions. And this is how thean he works with the human beings. So it starts with a whim or with a thought that comes and that's easy to push away. If a person doesn't push it away, doesn't get get himself busy with something, then what happens? It develops it becomes stronger and stronger till it takes the person to the action and that causes the heart to be instead of a disease that we ask Allahh to protect us and that's why it's a thought then a conviction a will a determination then the person would start taking the means to do something that Allah subhana ta forbid so it's very dangerous to let one's thoughts keep on going once you see once that is triggered right a person has to divert it away get himself busy go acquaint with someone go to the masjid read Quran something that a person would do so that he takes away himself from these evil thoughts and it's amazing that the beginning of every goodness and the beginning of every evil comes with a thought so if a person pushes it away from the very beginning then he has control over his own If he doesn't then his desires takes over and has his knowledge about these matters with the human beings. So to believe and to have the knowledge that Allahh is seeing us and seeing what our thoughts are. He knows what's in our hearts. So it's not just about the physical action that a person do. So the person then would make sure that he control his thoughts and his desires so that Allahhana tala sees what's pure matters in his heart and to have the shyness from Allah subhana wa ta'ala because Allahh sees us and if a person knows the power of Allah and he knows that Allahh is seeing his heart Allahhana tala is in control of one's heart and the heart can be corrupted as a result of one's evil actions then a person has to then have that shyness from Allah subhana wa tala So dealing with our thoughts with our whims in such a way especially before it gets overpowered over us seeking refuge in Allahh saying replacing it with something good something from el comes into your mind replace it by something good talk about or think about something matters of dean something that would bring benefit dawa to Allah subhana wa ta'ala things like this you know think about the the greatness of Allah subhana wa ta'ala the matters of the knowledge when you're busy see you know seeking knowledge studying the dean of Allah subhana wa ta'ala think of the hereafter and what's going to happen after death and the moment of death the remembrance death a lot frequently is means of cure of these types of things and even the worldly matters you know you know seeking provisions studying things of that nature but not to leave oneself like this you know to this emptiness and that's Why you know how how to deal with it is is knowledge that we need to learn and we need to be able to be consistent in it and seek help from Allah subhana wa tala ask Allahh to protect us and then if the disease is in the heart how to cure our hearts from this disease we'll talk about that inshall next [Music] Academy. 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