Tarbiyah Islamiyah - Semester 4 - Lecture 13 | Shaykh Ibrahim Zidan | Zad Academy English
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Kind: captions Language: en [Music] Academy. Fore! Foreign! Foreign! [Music] Continuing with Islamic education level four and the diseases of the heart and we're talking about ashwa or the sinful desires and how to deal with it and how to cure it if it's already a disease in the heart and we talked about the different stages before how to cure that disease from the heart as mentioned before there's no disease unless there's a cure cure for it and in matters of the deen the cure of all of the diseases are in the Quran and in the sunnah of the prophetatam and there's no disease in the heart unless we would find the cure for it in the in the revelation from Allah one of these means of cure is to get married especially when we talk about the sinful desire with the shah that has to do between men and women and the prophet he said or all young people, whoever among you is able to get married. He has the he has the ability to have relations, he has the ability to financially support his family, then let him get married. Why? Because it's would help the person to lower his gaze and be able to protect and to guard his private parts to be chased. And this something that communities and people need to get together to make the matter easy and not to make it difficult and shaitan has his ways for people to delay marriage you know and knowing that this is something for the sake of Allah to protect one's religion for a person to be obedient to Allah that's why it is not for someone to live all of his youth years when it's the urge is in its peak to abstain from marriage when the disbelievers are fulfilling their desires. person if he has the means then they should get married and to seek help from Allah subhana wa tala and if a person is not able to then there is a a cure to this the hadith of the prophetat was the same one if a person is not able to get married then what should that person do fast mean that that he fast every day he keeps on fasting it's not an easy meth better. But this is how to protect oneself from the haram till Allah subhana t make it easy for the person to get married. And sometimes whenever the the cure is a is a tough work to be done a person then it helps him to take the easier route. So for example if someone says well I'm not able to get married but he's not really diligently working to get married. So if then the solution for him is then fast every day. Then when he start fasting every day know this is very difficult. So what he's going to do he's trying to get married faster enough. So and the same thing for his family for this is something that needs to be established and for us to change as Muslims. So fasting if a person is able to do that then if he's not sick or something like this then is to fast continuously. uh another means to uh cure this sinful desire and this disease in the heart is to make oneself physically busy and this especially for the youth you know Allahh gave them strength either they use it for what is good or it's going to be wasted in what's haram so you'd find them for example spending most of the night just doing nothing except of hanging out with their friends doing things that is not benefiting let along to be haram But making oneself tired working during the day whether either a person is studying and he's spending the effort to study in the right way or a person is working earning money halal money things like this uh doing things that would make the person always busy dawa to Allah subhana wa tala being active with one's community for the dawa of Allah and the massid and so on helping the poor you know getting the charity to to reach the poor something for the person to be busy with so that he's not left to their own thoughts and their emptiness in their life. One of the means of cure also which is one of the most important of all is dua to make dua to Allah subhana wa ta'ala and to ask Allah subhana wa ta'ala for help and this is the means of cure of all diseases whatsoever physical and non-physical matters you know is to sincerely turn to Allah subhana wa ta'ala and to fulfill and to do the etiquets of the dua and to push away the things that prevents the person from having the dua accepted by Allah subhana wa ta'ala and as Allah subhana wa ta'ala says If my if my slaves ask you about me, I'm near to them. I respond to their dawa, to their invocation, if they invoke Allah subhana tala. So therefore, let them respond and believe in Allah subhana wa ta'ala and for that so that they become upright and following what Allahh wants from them. And the prophetat who used to direct even the for whatever dua that is benefiting for them and even with matters of as the prophet wasallam a man asked him to teach him a dua and he said say oh Allah I seek refuge in you from the evil of my own hearing and the evil of what I see and so on and from the evil of what I speak my tongue and from the evil of my heart the thoughts and the like of that and is the seinal fluid asking Allahh from the evil of it so that it's not used in something that is haram so the the shah the desire when it becomes overpowering the person and the prophetat would ask Allah subhana ta and seek refuge in Allah subhana tala by saying Allah I ask you guidance to be obedient and to have the tawa of Allah subhana wa tala to be chased and to be rich to enrich oneself. So these are uh ways to seek cure and as we said sometimes we don't have the means for example a person wants to get married but he doesn't find the righteous one you know if he turns to Allah subhanaa tala with the dua and the the sincerity that the reason why he wants to get married is to save his religion is to make himself steadfast upon the dean of Allah subhana wa ta'ala and if he's not able to then it's not a reason for him to commit sins but rather as the prophet wasallam He said to fast and to believe in what the prophetat wasallam said and for the communities as we said for people to get together to fix these issues. We are seeing how the youth are left to face these desires and nobody or not much help is happening to them and they are forced to go through many many years of for example studies as some of them would do before they would even think to get married. and the the of the daughters or they're having daughters or so and they would never you know allow their daughters to get married to someone that is going to school for example and the prophet he said if some of of them come to you if a person come to you and you're pleased with his religion and his manners get him married otherwise it becomes becomes fitna on the face of earth and corruption on the face of earth we ask Allah subhana tala to protect us from the evil within our own selves. But again, we're talking here about how to cure ourselves from these sinful desires and to seek help from Allahhana. We'll continue inshalla with more related to that subject as part of the diseases of the heart. 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