Charan Ranganath: Human Memory, Imagination, Deja Vu, and False Memories | Lex Fridman Podcast #430
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Kind: captions Language: en the act of remembering can change the memory if you remember some event and then I tell you something about the event later on when you remember the event you might remember some original information from the event as well as some information about what I told you and sometimes if you're not able to tell the difference that information that I told you gets mixed into the story that you had originally so now I give you some more misinformation or you're exposed to some more information some else and eventually your memory becomes totally detached from what happened the following is a conversation with Chon ranganath a psychologist and neuroscientist at UC Davis specializing in human memory he's the author of why we remember unlocking memory's power to hold on to what matters this is the Lex Freedman podcast to support it please check out our sponsors in the description and now dear friends here's Chon rangano Danny Conan describes the experiencing self and the remembering self and that happiness and satisfaction you gained from the outcomes of your decisions did not come from what you've experienced but rather from what you remember of the experience so uh can you speak to this interesting difference that you write about in your book of the experiencing self and the remembering self Danny really impacted me cuz I was an undergrad at Berkeley and I got to take a class from him long before he won the Nobel Prize or anything and it was just a mind-blowing class but this idea of the remembering self and the experiencing self I got into it because it's so much about memory even though he doesn't study memory so we're right now having this experience right and people are can watch it presumably on YouTube or listen to it on audio but if you're talking to somebody else you could probably describe this whole thing in 10 minutes but that's going to miss a lot of what actually happened and so the idea there is is that the way we remember things is not the replay of the experience it's something totally different and it tends to be biased by the beginning and the end and he talks about the Peaks but there's also the you know the best parts the worst Parts Etc and those are the things that we remember and so when we make decisions we usually consult memory and we feel like our memories are record of what we've experienced but it's not it's this kind of very biased sample but it's biased in an interesting and I think biologically relevant way so in the way we construct a narrative about our past you say that uh it gives us an illusion of stability can you explain that basically I think that a lot of learning in the brain is driven towards being able to make sense I mean really memory is all about the the present and the Future Past is done so biologically speaking it's not important unless there's something from the past that's useful and so what our brains are really optimized for is to learn about the stuff from the past that's going to be most useful in understanding the present and predicting the future right and so cause effect relationships for instance that's a big one now my future is completely unpredictable in the sense that like you could you know in the next 10 minutes pulling KN on me and slipped my throat right I was planning on it ex but having seen some of your work and just you know generally my expectations about life I'm not expecting that I have a certainty that everything's going to be fine we're going to have a great time talking today right but we're often right it's like okay so I go to a a see a band on stage you know I know they're going to make me wait the show's going to start late and then you know come they come on there's a very good chance there's going to be an encore I have a memory so to speak for that event before I've even walked into the show right there's going to be people holding up their camera phones to try to take videos of it now because this is kind of the world we live in so that's like everyday fortune telling that we do though it's not real it's imagine and it's amazing that we have this capability and that's what memory is about uh but it can also give us this illusion that we know everything that's about to happen um and I think what's valuable about that that illusion is when it's broken it gives us the information right so I mean I'm sure being in AI you know about information Theory and the idea is the information is what you didn't already have and so those prediction errors that we make based on you know we make a prediction based on memory and the errors are where the action is the error is where the Learning Happens exactly exactly well just to linger on Danny Conan and just this whole idea of experiencing self versus remembering self I was hoping you can give a simple answer of how we should live life uh based on the fact that our memories could be a source of happiness or could be the primary source of happiness that an event when experienced Bears its fruits the most when it's remembered over and over and over and over and maybe there is some wisdom in the fact that we can control to some degree how we remember it how we evolve our memory of it such that it can maximize the long-term happiness of that repeated experience okay well first I'll say I wish I could take you on the road with me that was such a great description can I be your opening act or oh my God no I'm going to open for you dude otherwise it's like you know everybody leaves after you're done believe me I did that in in Columbus Ohio once it wasn't fun like the opening acts like drank our bab we spent all this money going all the way there there was only the everybody left after the opening acts were done and there was just that Stoner dude with the dreadlocks hanging out and then next you know we we blew like our savings on getting a hotel room so we should as a small tangent you're a legit touring act when I was in grad school I played in a band and yeah we traveled we would play shows it wasn't like we were in a hardcore touring band but we did some touring and and had some fun times and yeah you did we did a movie soundtrack nice Henry portrait of serial killer so that's a good movie we were on the soundtrack for the sequel Henry 2 mask of Sanity which is a terrible movie yeah how's the soundtrack it's pretty good it's badass at least that one part where the guy throws up the milkshake all right song we're going to have to see we're going to have to see it all right we're getting back to life advice you know yeah uh one thing that I try to live by especially nowadays and since I wrote the book I've been thinking more and more about this is how do I want to live a memorable life you know I think if we go back to like the pandemic right how many people have memories from that period aside from the trauma of being you know locked up and seeing people die and all the stuff um I think it's like one of these things where we were stuck inside looking at screens all day doing the same thing with the same people and so I don't remember much from that in terms of those good memories that you're talking about right you know when I was growing up my parents worked really hard for us and you know we went on some vacations but not very often and I really try to do now vacations to interesting places as much as possible with my family because like those are the things that you remember right so I I really do think about what's going to be like something that's memorable and then just do it even if it's a pain in the ass because the experiencing self will suffer for that but the remembering self will be like yes I'm so glad I did that do things that are very unpleasant in the moment because those can be reframed and enjoyed for many years to come that's probably um good advice or at least when you're going through it's a good way to uh see the silver lining of it yeah I mean I think it's one of these things where if you have like people who you've gone through I since you said it I'll just say since you've gone through with someone and it's like uh that's a bonding experience often you know I mean that can really bring you together I like to say it's like there's no point in suffering unless you get a story out of it so uh in the book I talk about the power of the way we communicate with others and how that shapes our memories and so I had this near-death experience at least that's how I remember it on this paddle board where just everything that could have gone wrong did go wrong almost um so many mistakes were made and um um ended up like at some point just like basically away from my board pinned in a current like in this corner like not a super good swimmer and my friend who came with me Randy who's a computational neuroscientist and he had just been pushed down uh past me so he couldn't even see me and I'm just like if I die here you know I mean no one's around it's it's like you just die alone and so I just said well failure is not an option and eventually I got out of it and uh froze and got cut up and I mean the the things that we were going through were just insane but short version of this is uh you know my my wife and my daughter and ry's wife they gave us all sorts of Hell about this cuz they were just like where they were ready to send out a search party so they were giving me hell about it and then I started to tell people in my lab about this and then friends and it just became a better and better story every time and we actually had some photos of just the crazy things like this generator that was hanging over the water and we're like ducking under this Z these metal grings and I'm like going flat on and I was just nuts you know but it became a great story and it was defin I mean Randy and I were already tight but that was a real bonding experience for us and yeah I mean and I learned from that that it's like I don't look back on that enough actually because I think uh we often H at least for me I don't necessarily have the confidence to think that things will work out that I'll be able to get through certain thing but my ability to to actually get something done in that moment is better than I give myself credit for I think and uh that was the lesson of that story that I really took away well actually just for me you're making me realize now that it's not just those kinds of stories but even things like periods of depression or really low points to me at least it feels like um motivating thing that the darker it gets the better the story will be if you emerge on the other side that to me feel feels like a motivating thing so maybe if people listening to this and they're going through some as we said uh one one thing um that could be a source of light is that it'll be a hell of a good story when it's all over when you merge in the other side uh let me ask you about decisions you've you already talked about it a little bit but when we Face the world and we're making different decisions how much does our memory come into play is it the the kind of narratives that we've constructed about the world that are used to make predictions that's fundamentally part of the decision- making absolutely yeah so let's say after this you and I decided we're going to go for a beer right how do you choose where to go you're probably going to be like oh yeah this new bar opened up near me had a great time there they had a great beer selection or you might say oh we went to this place and it was totally crowded and they're playing this horrible EDM or whatever and so right there valuable source of information right and then you have these things like where you do this counterfactual stuff like well well I did this previously but what if I had gone somewhere else and said maybe I'll go to this other place because I didn't try it the previous time so there's all that kind of reasoning that goes into it too um I think even if you think about the big decisions in life right it's like you and I were talking before we started recording about how I got into memory research and you got into uh Ai and it's like we all have these personal reasons that guide us in these particular directions and some of it's the and environment and random factors in life and some of it is memories of things that we want to overcome or things that we build on in a positive way but either way they Define us and probably the earlier in life the memories happen the more defining the more defining power they have in terms of determining who we become I mean I do feel like adolesence is much more important than I think people give credit for I think that there is this kind of a sense like you know um the first three years of life is the most important part but uh the teenage years are just so important for the brain you know and so that's where a lot of mental illness starts to emerge um you know now we're thinking of things like schizophrenia as a neurodevelopmental disorder because it just emerges during that period of adolescence and early adulthood so and I think the other part of it is is that you know as I guess I was a little bit too firm in saying that memory determines who we are it's really the self is an evolving construct I think we kind of underestimate that and when you're a parent you feel like every decision you make is consequential in forming this child and plays a role but so do the child's peers and so do you know there's so much I mean that's why I think the big part of Education I think that's so important is not the content you learn I mean think of how much dumb stuff we learned in school right but uh a lot of it is learning how to get along with people and learning who you are and how you function and you know that can be terribly traumatizing even if you have a perfect you know parents working on you is there some insight into the human brain that explains um why we don't seem to remember anything from the first few years of life yeah yeah in fact actually I was just talking to my uh really good friend and colleague Simona gy who studies uh the Neuroscience of Child Development and so we were talking about this and so there are a bunch of reasons I would say so one reason is there's an area of the brain in the called the hippocampus which is very very important for remembering events or episodic memory and so the first two years of life there's a period called infantile Amnesia and then the next couple years of life after that there's a period called childhood Amnesia and the difference is that basically in lab and you know even during childhood and afterwards children basically don't have any episodic memories for those first two years the next two years it's very fragmentary and that's why they call it childhood Amnesia so there's some but it's not much so one reason is that the hippocampus is taking some time to develop but another is the neocortex so the whole folded stuff of gray matter all around the hippocampus is developing so rapidly and changing and a child's knowledge of the world is just massively being built up right so I mean I'm going to probably embarrass myself but it's like if you showed like you know you trained a neural network and you give it like the first couple of patterns or something like that and then you bombard it with another like you know years worth of data try to get back those first couple of patterns right it's like everything changes and so the brain is so plastic the cortex is so plastic during that time and we think that that memories for events are very distributed across the brain so imagine you're trying to get back that pattern of activity that happened during this one moment but the roads that you would take to get there have been completely rerouted right so I think that's my best explanation the third explanation is a child's sense of self takes a while to develop and so their experience of learning might be more learning what happened as opposed to having this first person experience of I remember was there well I think somebody uh once said to me that uh kind of loosely philosophically that the reason we don't remember the first few years of life infantile Amnesia is because how traumatic it is MH basically the the error rate that you mentioned when your brain's prediction doesn't match reality the error rate in the first few years of life your first few months certainly is probably crazy high it's just nonstop freaking out the the collision between your model of the world and how the world works is just so high that you want whatever the trauma of that is not to linger around I always thought that an interesting idea because like just imagine the insanity of what's happening in a human brain in the first couple years just you you don't know anything and there's just this stream of knowledge and we're somehow given how plastic everything is he just kind of molds and figures it out but it's it's like an insane waterfall of information I wouldn't necessarily describe it as a trauma and we can get into this whole stages of Life thing which I just love basically those first few years there are I mean you know I mean think about it a kid's internal model of their body is changing right it's like just learning to move I mean like you know you if you ever have a baby you'll know that like the first three months they're discovering their toes right it's just nuts so everything is changing but what's really fascinating is and I think this is one of those this is not at all me being a scientist but it's like one of those things that people talk about when they talk about the you know positive aspects of children is that they're exceptionally curious and they have this kind of openness towards the world and so that prediction error is not a a negative traumatic thing I think it's like a very positive thing because it's what they use they're seeking information one of the areas that I'm very interested in is the prefrontal cortex it's an area of the brain that I mean I could talk all day about it but it's it helps us use our knowledge to say hey this is what I want to do now this is my goal so this is how I'm going to achieve it and focus everything toward cycle right the prefrontal cortex takes forever to develop in humans the connections are still being tweaked and reformed like into late adolescence early adulthood which is when you tend to see mental illness pop up right so it's being massively reformed then you have about 10 years maybe of prime functioning of the prefrontal cortex and then it starts going down again and you end up being older and you start losing all that frontal function so look at this and you'd say okay from you sit around episodic memory talks we always say children are worse than adults at episodic memory older adults or worse than young adults at episodic memory and I always say would say God this so weird why would we have this period of time that's so short when we're perfect right or optimal and I I like to use the word optimal now because there's such a culture of optimization right now and it's like I realize I have to redefine what optimal is because for most of the Human Condition I think we had a series of stages of life where you have basically adults saying okay young adults saying I've got a child and you know I'm part of this Village and I have to hunt and forage and get things done I need a prefrontal cortex so I can stay focused on the big picture and the Long Haul goals now I'm a child I'm in this Village I'm kind of wandering around and I've got some safety and I need to learn about this culture because I know so little what's the best way to do that let's explore I don't want to be constrained by goals as much I want to really be free play and explore and learn so you don't want a super tight prefrontal cortex you don't even know what the goals should be yet right it's like if you're trying to design a model that's based on a bad goal it's G to it's not going to work well right so then you go late in life you say why don't you have a great prefrontal cortex then but I think I mean if you go back and you think how many species actually stick around naturally long after their child bearing ears are over after the reproductive years are over like menopause from what I understand menopause is not all that common in the animal world right why would that happen and so I saw Alison gnik said something about this so I started to look into this about this idea that you know really when you're older in most societies your job is no longer to form new episodic memories it's to pass on the memories that you already have this knowledge about the world or what we call semantic meor memory to pass on that semantic memory to the younger Generations pass on the culture you know even now in indigenous cultures that's the role of the elders they're respected they're not seen as you know people who are past it and losing it and I thought that was a very poignant thing that memory is doing what it's supposed to throughout these stages of life so it is always optimal in a sense it's just optimal for that stage of Life yeah and for the Ecology of the system so you've got so I looked into this and it's like another species that has menopause is Orcas Orca pods are led by the grandmothers right so not the young adults not the parents or whatever the grandmothers and so they're the ones that pass on the Traditions to the I guess the younger generation of orcas and if you you know if you look from what little I understand different Orca pods have different Traditions they hunt for different things they have different play traditions and uh that's a culture right and so in Social animals Evolution I think is designing brains that are really around you know it's it's obviously optimized for the individual but also for kin and I think that the kin are part of this like when they're part of this intense social group The Brain development should parallel that the nature of the ecology well it's just fascinating to think of the individual Orca or human throughout his life in stages doing a kind of optimal wisdom development so in the early days you don't even know what the goal is and you figure out the goal and you kind of optimize for that goal and you pursue that goal and then all the wisdom you collect through that then you share with the others in the system with the other individuals and as a as a collective then you kind of converge towards greater wisdom throughout the generation so in that sense it's optimal us humans and orcas got something going on it works yeah apex predators uh I just got a meglan on tooth speaking of a Apex parties it's uh just imagine the size of that thing anyway uh how does the brain forget and how and why does it remember so maybe some of the mechanisms you mentioned the hippocampus what are the different components involved here so we can think about this on a number of levels maybe I'll give you the simplest version first which is we tend to think of memories as these individual things and we can just access them maybe a little bit like you know photos on your phone or something like that but in the brain the way it works is you have this distributed pool of neurons and the memories are kind of shared across different pools of neurons and so what you have is competition where sometimes memories that overlap can be fighting against each other right so sometimes we forget because that competition just wipes things out sometimes we forget because there aren't the biological signals which we can get into that would promote long-term retention and lots of times we forget because we can't find the queue that sends us back to the right memory and we need the right cue to be able to activate it right so um you know for instance in an neural network there is no you wouldn't go and you'd say this is the memory right it's like the whole Network I mean the whole ecosystem of memories is in the weights of the neural network and in fact you could extract entirely new memories depending on how you feed yeah you have to have the right query the right prompt to access that whatever the part you're looking for that's exactly right that's exactly right and in humans you have this more complex set of ways memory works there's as I said the knowledge or what you call semantic memory and then there's these memories for specific events which we call episodic memory and so there's different pieces of the puzzle that require different kinds of cues so that's a big part of it too is just this kind of what we call retrieval failure you mentioned episodic memory you mentioned semantic memory what are the different separations here what's uh working memory short-term memory long-term memory what are the interesting categories of memory yeah and so memory researchers we love to cut things up and say you know is memory one thing or is it two things there's two things or is three things and so one of the things that there's value in that and especially experimental value in terms of being able to dissect thing in the real world it's all connected speak to your question working memory is a term that was coined by Alan battley it's basically thought to be this ability to keep information online in your mind right in front of you at a given time and to be able to control the flow of that information to choose what information is relevant to be able to manipulate it and so forth and one of the things that Allan did that was was quite brilliant was he said there's this ability to kind of passively store information you know see things in your mind's eye or hear your internal monologue but um you know we have that ability to keep information in mind but then we also have the separate what you called an a central executive which is identified a lot with the prefrontal cortex it's this ability to control the flow of information that's being kept active based on what it is you're doing now a lot of my early work was basically saying that this working memory which some memory researchers would call short-term memory is not at all independent from long-term memory that is that a lot of executive function requires learning and you have to have like synaptic change for that to happen and um but there's also transient forms of memory so one of the things I've been getting into lately is the idea that we form internal models of events the obvious one that I always us as birthday parties right so you go to a child's birthday party once the cake comes out and they start you just see a candle You can predict the whole frame you know set of events that happens later and up till that point where the child blows out the candle you have an internal model in your head of what's going on and so if you follow people's eyes it's not actually on what's happening it's going where the action's about to happen um which is just fascinating right so you have this internal model and that's a kind of a working memory product it's something that you're keeping online that's allowing you to interpret this world around you now to build that model though you need to pull out stuff from uh your general knowledge of the world which is what we call semantic memory and then you'd want to be able to pull out memories for specific events that happen in the past which we call episodic memory so in a way they're all connected even though it's different um the things that we're focusing on and the way we organize information in the present which is working memory will play a big role in determining how we remember that information later which people typically call long-term memory so if you have something like a a birthday party and you've been to many before you're going to load that from dis into working memory this model and then you're mostly operating on the model and if it's a new task you're you don't have a model so you're more in the data collection yeah one of the fascinating things that we've been studying and this is we're not at all the first to do this Jeff ZX was a big Pioneer in this um and I've been working with many other people Ken Norman um Lea daachi NY or Colombia has done some interesting stuff with this is this idea that we form these internal models at particular points of high prediction error or points of I believe also points of uncertainty points of surprise or motivationally significant periods and those points are when it's maximally op optimal to encode an episodic memory so I used to think oh well we're just encoding episodic memories constantly boom boom boom boom boom but think about how much redundancy there is in all that right it's just a lot of information that you don't need but if you capture an episodic memory at the point of Maximum uncertainty for the singular experience right you're just it's only going to happen once but if you capture it at the point of Maximum uncertainty or maximum surprise you have the most useful point in your experience that you've grabbed and what we see is that the hippocampus and these other networks uh that are involved in generating these internal models of events they show a heighten period of connectivity or correlated activity during those breaks between different events which we call event boundaries these are the points where you're like surprised or you cross from one room to another and so forth and that communication is associated with a bump of activity in the hippocampus and better memory and so if people have a very good internal model throughout that event you don't need to do much memory processing you're in a predictive mode right and so then at these event boundaries you encode and then you retrieve and you're like okay wait a minute what's going on here ranat now talking about orcas what's going on and maybe you have to go back and remember reading my book to pull out the episodic memory to make sense of whatever it is I'm babbling about right and so there's this beauti dynamics that you can see in the brain of these different networks that are coming together and then deail a different points in time that are allowing you to go into these modes and so to speak to your original question to some extent when we're talking about semantic memory and episodic memory and working memory you can think about it as these processes that are unfolding as these networks kind of come together and Pull Apart can memory be trained and improved this beautiful connected system that you've described what aspect of it is a mechanism that can be improved through training I think Improvement it depends on what your definition of optimal is so what I say in the book is is that you don't want to remember more you want to remember better which means focusing on the things that are important and that's what our brains are designed to do so if you go back to the earliest quantitative studies in memory by ebing house what you see is that he was trying so hard to memorize this arbitrary nonsense and within a day he lost about 60% of that information and he was using he was basically using a very very generous way of measuring it right so as far as we know nobody has managed to violate those basics of having people forget you know most of their experiences so if your expectation is that you should remember everything and that's what your optimal is you're already off because that's just not what human brains are designed to do do on the other hand what we see over and over again is that the brain does basically one of the cool things about the design of the brain is it's always less is more less is more right it's like I mean I've seen estimates that the human brain uses something like 12 to 20 watts you know in a day I mean that's just nuts the low power consumption right so it's all about reusing information and and making the most of what we already have and so um that's why basically again what you see biologically is you know neuromodulators for instance these chemicals in the brain like neopine phrine dopamine uh serotonin these are chemicals that are released during moments that tend to be biologically significant surprise fear stress Etc and so these chemicals promote lasting plasticity right essentially some mechanisms by which the brain can say prioritize the information that you carry with you into the future attention is a big factor as well our ability to focus our attention on what's important and so uh there's different schools of thought on training attention for instance um uh so one of my colleagues amishi jaw she wrote a book called Peak mind and talks about mindfulness as a method for improving attention uh and focus uh so she works a lot with military like Navy Seals and stuff to do do this kind of work um with mindfulness meditation um Adam gazali another one of my friends and colleagues has work on kind of training through video games actually as a way of training attention and so uh it's not clear to me you know one of the challenges though in training is you tend to overfit to the thing that you're trying to optimize right so you tend to if I'm looking at a video game I can definitely get better at paying attention in the context of the video game but you transfer it to the outside world that's very controversial the implication there is that attention is a fundamental component of remembering something allocating attention to it and then attention might be something that you could train how you allocate attention and how you hold attention on a thing I can say that in fact we do in certain ways right so if you are an expert in something you are training attention so we did this one study of expertise in the brain and uh you so people used to think say if you're a bird expert or something right people will go like if you get really into this world of birds you start to see the differences in your visual cortex is tuned up and it's all about plasticity the visual cortex and vision researchers love to say everything's visual you know but but it's like we did the study of attention and working or E working memory and expertise and one of the things that surprised us were the biggest effects as people became experts in identifying these different kinds of just crazy objects that we made up as they develop this expertise of being able to identify what made them different from each other and what made them unique we were actually seeing massive increases in activity in the prefrontal cortex and this fits with some of the studies of Chess experts and so forth that it's not so much that you learn the patterns passively you learn what to look for you learn what's important what's not right and you can see this in any kind of expert professional athlete they're looking three steps ahead of where they're supposed to be so that's kind of a training of attention and those are also what you'd call Expert memory skills so um if you take the memory athletes I know that's something we're both interested in and you know so these are people who train in these competitions and they'll memorize like a deck of cards and like a really short amount of time um there's a a great memory athlete her name I think is pronounced yenya winter soul but she uh so I think she's got like a giant Instagram following and so she had this YouTube video that went um where she had memorized an entire Ikea catalog right and so how do people do this by all accounts from people who become memory athletes they weren't born with some extraordinary memory but they practic strategies over and over and over again the strategy that they use for memorizing a particular thing it can become automatic and you can just deploy it in an instant right so again it's not necessarily going to one strategy for learning the order of a deck ofs cards might not help you for something else that you need like you know remembering your way around Austin Texas but it's going to be these whatever you're interested in you can optimize for that and that's just a natural byproduct of expertise there's certain hacks there's something called The Memory Palace that I've played with I don't know if you're familiar with that whole technique and it works it's interesting so uh another thing I recommend for people a lot is I use anky a lot every day it's a app that does space repetition so I think medical students and like students use this a lot to remember a lot of different things oh yeah okay we can come back to this but yeah sure it's the whole concept of space repetition you just uh when when the thing is fresh you kind of have to remind yourself of it a lot and then over time you can wait uh a week a month a year before you have to recall the thing again and that way you essentially have something like note cards the can have tens of thousands of and can only spend 30 minutes a day and actually be refreshing all of that information all that knowledge it's really great and then for uh Memory Palace is a technique that allows you to remember things like the Ikea catalog or by placing them visually in a place that you're really familiar with like I'm really familiar with this place so I can put uh uh numbers or facts or whatever you want to remember you can walk along that little pal reminds you it's cool like there's stuff like that that I think athletes memory athletes could use but I think also regular people can use one of the things I have to solve for myself is how to remember names I'm horrible at it yeah I think is because when people introduce themselves I have the the social anxiety of the interaction where I'm like I know I should be remembering that but I have I'm freaking out internally about social interaction in general and so therefore I forget immediately so I'm looking for good tricks for that so uh I'm I feel like we've got a lot in common because when people introduce themselves to me it's almost like I have this like just blank blackout for a moment and then I'm just looking at them like what happened I look away or something what's wrong with me yeah so I mean I'm totally with you on this the reason why it's hard is that there's no reason should be able to remember names because when you say remembering a name you're not really remembering a name maybe in my case you are but most of the time you're associating a name with a with a face and an identity and that's a completely arbitrary thing right I mean maybe in the olden days somebody named Miller it's like they're actually making flower or something like that but you know for the most part it's like uh these names are just utterly arbitrary so you have no thing to latch on to and so it's not really a thing that our brain does very well to learn meaningless arbitrary stuff so what you need to do is build connection somehow visualize a connection and sometimes it's it's obvious or sometimes it's not I'm trying to think of a good one for you now but the first thing I think of is Lex Luthor but yeah so I Le doesn't Lex Luthor wear a a suit I think I I know he has a shaved head though he's bald which you're not you got a great head if I trade hair with you any day but but like you know but something like that but if I can come up with something like I could say okay so Lex Luther is this criminal mastermind and then I just imagine you talked about stabbing or whatever earlier kind of connected and that's it yeah yeah and I but I'm serious though that these kinds of weird associations now building a richer Network I mean one of the things that I find is if I've like you can have somebody's name that's just totally generic like John Smith or something not that no offense to people that that name but you know I if I see a generic name like that but I've read John Smith's papers academically and then I meet John Smith at a conference I can immediately associate that name with that face because I have this pre-existing Network to lock everything into right and so you can build that Network and that's what the method of loai or the Memory Palace technique is all about is you have a pre-existing structure in your head of like your childhood home or this mental Palace that you've created for yourself and so now you can put arbitrary pieces of information in different locations in that mental structure of yours and then you can walk through the different path and find all the pieces of information you're looking for so the method of Loi is a great method for just learning arbitrary things because it allows you to link them together and get that cue that you need to pop in and find everything right we should maybe Linger on this Memory Palace thing just to make obvious cuz when people were describing to me a while ago what this is it seems insane I just you literally think of a place like a childhood home or a home that you're really visually uh familiar with and you literally place in that three-dimensional space facts or people or whatever you want to remember and you just walk in your mind along that place visually and you can remember uh remind yourself of the different things one of the limitations is there is a sequence to it m so it's I think your brain somehow you need you can't just like go upstairs right away or something you have to like walk along the the room so it's really great for remembering sequences but it's also not great for remembering like individual facts out of context so the full context of the tour I think is important uh but it's a it's fascinating how the mind is able to do that when you ground these pieces of knowledge into something that you remember well already especially visually fascinating you can just do that for any kind of sequence I'm sure she used something like this for the for Ikea catalog absolutely absolutely um and I think the the principle here is again I was telling you this idea that memories can compete with each other right well I like to use this example and maybe someday I'll Reg at this but I've used it a lot recently is like imagine if this were my desk it could be cluttered with a zillion different things right so imagine it's just cluttered with a whole bunch of yellow posted notes and on one of them I put my bank password on it right well it's going to take me forever to find it I might you know it's just going to be buried under all these other posted on but if it's like hot pink it's going to stand out and I find it really easily right so that's one way in which if things are distinctive if you've processed information in a very distinctive way then you can have a memory that's going to last um and that's very good for instance for name face associations if I get something distinctive about you you know that it's like that you've got very short hair and maybe I can make the association with Lex Luthor that way or something like that right you know but I I get something very specific that's a great cue but the other part of it is what if I just organized my notes so that I have my finances in one pile and I have my like uh reminders my to-do list in one pile for so I organized them well then I know exactly if I'm going for my banking you know P my bank password I could go to the finance pile right so the method of lowai works or memory palaces work because they give you a way of organizing um there's a school of thought that says that episodic memory evolved from this like kind of knowledge of space and you know basically this primitive abilities to figure out where you are and so people explain the method Loi that way and and you know whether or not the evolutionary argument is true the meth ofi is not at all special so if you don't you're not a good visualizer um uh stories are a good one so a lot of memory athletes will use stories and they'll go like if you're memorizing a deck of cards they have a little code for the different like uh um like the king and the Jack and the 10 and so forth and they'll make up a story about things that they're doing and that'll work songs are a great one right I mean it's like I can still remember there's this obscure episode of the TV show Cheers they sing a song about Albania that he uses to memorize all these facts about Albania I could still sing that song to you it's just I saw it on a TV show you know uh so what you mentioned space repetition so what um do you like this process maybe can you explain it oh yeah if I'm trying to memorize something let's say if I have an hour to memorize as many Spanish words as I can if I just try to do like half an hour tomorrow and then I later in the day I do half an hour I won't retain that information as long as if I do half an hour today and half an hour one week from now and so doing that extra spacing should help me retain the information better now there's a interesting boundary condition which is it depends on when you need that information so many of us you know for me like I I can't remember so much from college and high school cuz I crammed cuz I just did everything at the last minute and sometimes I would literally study like you know in the hallway right before the test that was great because what would happen is is I just had that information right there and so actually not spacing can really help you if you need it very quickly right but the problem is is that you tend to forget it later on but on the other hand if you space things out you get a benefit for later on retention and so there's many different explanations we have a computational model of this it's currently under revision um but in our computer model what we say is is that an easy maybe a good way of thinking about this is this conversation that you and I are having It's associated with a particular context a particular place in time and so all these little cues that are in the background these little guitar sculptures that you have and that big light umbrella thing right all these things are part of my memory for what we're talking about the content so now later on you're sitting around and you're at home drinking a beer and you're thinking God what a strange interview that was right so now you're trying to remember it but the context is different so your current situation doesn't match up with the memory that you pulled up there's error there's a mismatch between what you pulled up and your current context and so in our model what you start to do is you start to erase or alter the parts of the memory that are associated with the specific place and time and you heighten the information about the content and so if you remember this information in different times and different places it's more accessible at different times and different places because it's not overfitted in a in an AI kind of way of thinking about things it's not overfitted to one particular context but that's also why the memories that we call upon the most also feel kind of like they're just things that we read about almost you don't vividly reimagine them right it's like they're just these things that just come to us like facts right yeah and it's a little bit different than semantic memory but it's like basically the these events that we have recalled every you know over and over and over again we keep updating that memory so it's less and less tied to the original experience but then we have those other ones which it's like you just get a reminder of that very specific context you smell something you hear a song you see a place that you haven't been to in a while and boom it just comes back back to you and that's the exact opposite of what you get with spacing right that's so fascinating so with space repetition one of its powers is that you lose attachment to a particular context but then it loses the the intensity of the flavor of the memory MH that's interesting that's so interesting yeah but you know at the same time it becomes stronger in the sense that the content becomes stronger yeah so it's used for uh for learning languages for learning facts for learning for you know for that generic semantic information type of memories yeah and and I think this this falls into a category we've done other modeling um one of these is a published study in pla computational biology where we showed that uh another way which is I think related to the spacing effect is What's called the testing effect so uh the idea is is that if you're trying to learn words uh let's say in Spanish or something like that and this doesn't have to be words it could be anything you test yourself on the words and that act of testing yourself helps you retain it better over time than if you just studied it right and so from traditional learning theories some learning theories anyway this seems weird why would you do better giving yourself this extra error from testing yourself rather than just you know giving yourself perfect input that's a replica of what it is that you're trying to learn and I think the reason is is that you get better retention from that error that mismatch that we talked about right so what's happening in our model it's actually conceptually kind of similar to what happens with back propop in uh AI so or neural networks and so the idea is is that you expose here's the bad connections and here's the good connections and so we can keep the the parts of the cell assembly that are good for the memory and lose the ones that are not so good but if you don't stress test the memory you haven't exposed it to the error fully and so that's why I think this is kind of this is a thing that I come back to over and over again is that you will retain information better if you're constantly pushing yourself to your limit right if you are feeling like you're coasting then you're actually not learning so it's like always you should always be stress testing the memory system yeah and feel good about it you know even though everyone tells me oh my memory is terrible in the moment they're over
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