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Kind: captions Language: en and that's to study the brain which is in Watsons excuse me in Crick's vision was the ultimate black box and so two years later our boy Moran Cerf delve into that and brought his sort of Rockstar vibe to the world of neuroscience and it's been amazing he's read a little worried incredible career so far before we dive in yeah we'll talk about that want to make sure that our live audience is on Facebook and IG can hear us yes that is the question and also encourage them to ask their questions in the live feed so that we can so we can talk about them we can respond to them so if you've watched the episode this is your opportunity to ask follow-up questions go deeper on after impact plot yeah and I like that after impact live and that really is guys that's our ideal would be that we spend the time answering the questions that you guys have the things that you're interested in so if we could get a thumbs up there we go okay so people can hear us fantastic and at 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and the ideas that he was bringing up through his experiences in neuroscience were underscoring everything that we talked about on the show and everything that we talked about as a company yeah I think so I was real istening to it and in some ways I sound like a kid at a new Direction concert or One Direction Jesus I'm giving my age way you know I was just so geeked out to be talking to him and and you're right he was so on point with the neuroscience behind why we're doing impact theory and at one point I even said something like you know this is like a central thesis in my life and you know the ability to escape the matrix and all that and he said let me say it in neuroscience terms and then broke it down from you know the perspective of what's actually happening neurologically in the brain was is really fascinating and was one of the things that made it so electrifying is he is a guy that and he talks about this in the episode he's a guy that said I you know I had already had so much success as a hacker I had a very established career but then I spent five years going after my PhD being told by everybody that hey if you're going to go into science just think of all the things that you're really excited about from consciousness free will aliens dreams all of those things that really really excite you don't do any of those and that's how you're going to road your credibility as a neuroscientist and then he met Crick and Crick was into all that stuff and he was chasing all the things that as a kid he just found uh Turley fascinating and that gave Moran the courage to begin chasing some of that stuff and some of his earliest work was in imaging dreams which is like this whole thing that I'm sure we'll get into later in the episode but the fact that he's chasing all this stuff that you know the kid inside of us wants to learn about wants to take seriously and that's why I wore this shirt which is a Batman shirt in honor of my boy because what he's doing in neuroscience is really saying okay here are the things that I find fascinating whether it makes other people think less of me or not is totally irrelevant to me I'm willing to put all of my energy my heart my soul and the seriousness with which I take scientific endeavor into things that I find fascinating and if that happens to be aliens if it happens to be dreams and so be it but I will apply scientific rigor to it and and that's how I feel obviously about mythology and we've talked a lot about that and to me batman superman deadpool whoever it is it's modern-day mythology and there's so much of that that we can use for real in our lives if we're willing to take it seriously yeah and why is it important for people to try to try to think in that way because I think a lot of people get stuck in their careers or as an entrepreneur because they they think they have to follow this certain path right this this path that is the traditional way that you have to work up to something you can't you're not worthy to go and study time travel yet because you have a new finish your PhD so you can't go there right but he did away with all that and said no if I follow the things that excite me I'm actually going to excel more because I'm gonna be more invested so how do people get into that that state of mind into the positive or the negative into the positive well I think the easiest way to understand that is is to look at the negative and say okay how do we end up there right how do we end up not being willing to take those risks because it's it's essentially bravery that allows you to push beyond that and the reason that people don't take it seriously or they're afraid to pursue those things that that most excite them that ignite that sort of childlike passion is because they're unsure and when you have certainty is intoxicating right and I talked about that in my book review of SIL night's shootout where Phil Knight one of the most powerful quotes in the book was that belief is is intoxicating and that what people go for in a salesperson is to see their own belief and that what they're buying isn't a shoe they're buying that guy's belief in that running is a better thing and this is a better running shoe and so when people bulk at really pursuing something that they're excited about when other people are telling them that the crazy is they're afraid they really are crazy they're afraid that they really will look stupid they're afraid that nothing will come of it and it's our own inability to see past the the definition or sorry to not be able to see that we were existing inside this confines which is somebody else's definition of who we are right so even like if you go back and watch in sidequest episodes I really just dabbled in wearing my personality on the outside and you can even see that develop over time so in the beginning it was much more sort of fashion-forward it was really conservative you know sort of what the fashion community would say okay yeah that's you not taking a lot of risks there and then I would start wearing brightly colored shoes and then I might hint at like my fascination with comic books in a shirt or something and now that I don't have to worry about being associated to any other brand one of the edicts and doing impact theory was this is going to be me turned inside out right I was going to be completely not just authentic cuz everything inside quest was authentic but to be aggressively yourself because I wasn't representing a brand here per se I'm representing myself and building the brand around that so because now I'm stepping outside the construct of what other people are going to think of me or what a brand needs or whatever you really can begin to express yourself because I don't care what people think I don't care what they're going to say I don't care what it represents them I see it as the bat symbol in the sky right I want to call out to the people who think like I think and collect those people so it you know it really does empower you when you're willing to look beyond that construct that you're not going to be defined by wanting other people to see you a certain way that you really want to align what you hope people will take away from you with what you really want to be and become and what you're working towards so you know what Moran is really shown is that that applies to every endeavor and whether that's you know I think that scientific the scientific community is incredibly political I think it's incredibly dangerous actually the way that they go about it in terms of slowing down scientific progress because they're so hard on people that step outside of what's considered you know known or all the things that we really understand and Moran gives a really great example of this in the episode and he says you know what's going on in neuroscience right now is we're having this revolution where we realize that voice in your head that you believe is you is but one of many voices in your head and it's not the most important it's not even the central voice in your head and in fact most of the things that are going on in your mind that create the decisions that you make and all of that stuff they're not the voice that you consider yourself and he said you know 400 years ago when Galileo pointed a telescope at the moons of Jupiter and realized hey wait a second they're not moving the way but they're supposed to be and the only way for me to reconcile what I'm actually observing is to make the Sun the center of the solar system and to make Earth the third planet from the Sun and even though that was considered you know heresy and the throne men of all of mankind he said the math dictated it and so you know what am I supposed to do with that and so we had the courage to do it and to say well this is the sort of mathematical truth of the situation and I think Moran has that same ability to break free of what everybody wants to believe is true which is that singular voice that we see as being us is the only voice and that we're in control of everything but just like in admitting that we really are the third Rock from the Sun and you know that we revolve around the Sun versus the other way around that all of a sudden you can really see what's going on and you can really begin to explore the cosmos he said the same thing is going on inside of us and once we accept that it's one voice among many we can actually begin to understand ourselves we can actually begin to understand our decision-making process so it's you know it's it's bravery and a willingness to stand outside that construct yes super fascinating I love the he drew that connection back to Galileo and I'm glad you brought that up some wanted to talk about so let's go a little bit deeper on that so why [ __ ] we haven't gone deep good Agent Smith is like going all-in are we going yesterday why let's let's bring it back to the individual if you have watching this show why should that notion about the multi voice so be empowering instead of writing them to people wow that's a really good question and here's why I think it's an amazing question because every day is a battle with the multiple voices in your head and when you recognize them for what they are which are separate parts of your brain offering up evolutionarily advantageous behaviors and then you can put yourself in the context of I'm in modern times and how many of these voices now serve me and I don't mean voices like in a schizophrenic way where it actually you know you hear one voice like 14-year old girl and another's like a nine year old man it's not that experience and if that is your experience you should probably seek help but you know you get these really strong feelings in opposing directions like one minute you feel strong you feel sturdy secure you know who you are you know what you're going after and the next minute you feel weak and vulnerable and uncertain you're like what is happening like how can I swing so dramatically in such a short period of time and that's what Moran is talking about when he says that you've got these different voices or when you put somebody in machine that's measuring their brainwaves and you ask them you know do you want steak or fish is the example that he uses and they say they want steak and and then he can reveal later that he actually influence that decision even though people are utterly convinced that it was their own once you understand the mechanisms that the brain uses to navigate the world then you can the voice that you identify as you the one that's sort of the highest level cognition that the executive function will call it like once you understand all of the things that are working beneath the surface to influence that person if you will I used air quotes just so everyone knows I don't think it's the humonculon I think is what they call it but once you realize that that that person or that voice however you want to think of it is being dramatically and persistently influenced by the subconscious you can take control of it and you can run it against a bias filter or whatever or even just put in mechanisms to counteract it like one of the things if I do is if I come across a book an article whatever the challenge is something that I believe I force myself to read it because and read it with an open mind by the way and not to read it like oh what are these dumbasses know to read it and ask myself the question what if this were true what would that change would it open opportunity for me so you know it's it's really understanding that that that stops you from falling prey and we're being signaled wildly here I think we have an audience question all right question is how would you go about moving the positive voices in your mind to the forefront yeah I'm going to encourage everybody to go research a guy named Mark Devine at mark Devine he's a guy that taught me how to meditate he's a Navy SEALs just a all around badass dude on it's like what he was an inside quest great guest great human being somebody that I've actually run into since then just out in the world and I see what he's pursuing and he's a mental warrior as much as he is a physical warrior really really good dude and what he talks about is the courage wolf and the fear wolf and it's a great metaphor because you can when it's an animal like that you can understand that the one that's fed is the one that grows strong and so if you feed the fear wolf then the fear wolf will get more powerful and if you feed the courage wolf the courage wolf will get more powerful and to use Tony Robbins language which is much more closely tied to a direct way that the brain actually wires itself which is through myelin and if you don't know myelin you're going to want to look it up and this is a fatty tissue I guess would be the qualification for it that the brain wraps around connecting synapses that I think helps conduct electricity faster so literally you're able to think faster and and that's when people say that they're hardwiring the brain that's what they mean is you're you're really making these amazing connections so Tony Robbins calls it building a superhighway you're going to build a superhighway and you can build a superhighway to gratitude to fulfillment or you can build a superhighway to fear and anxiety and the highway is built simply through repetition and I really really want people to listen to that it is simply through repetition I think Moran says eight times I mean that that has to do with marketing and we can talk about that in a minute but it's almost certainly following this exact mechanism and what's happening is through repetition you're creating this speedy connections between things so let's say God the one that everyone fears public speaking so you think about public speaking and you just nothing's coming up for you you don't have any plans of public speak but you're sitting there thinking about public speaking and how embarrassing would be if everyone laughed at you or like how much it would suck to fail or like God it would be so embarrassing if you flub the word or what if your mind went blank you're not stressing about it but what are you reinforcing you're reinforcing a vision of you up there failing like and you're going through the thousand different ways that it would suck if you failed and I find myself doing that all the time and I'm like what am i doing like why'd and ask yourself this question and I know I'm going to tell you the answer the answer the question I'm about to ask is because it makes you feel like a douche bag okay now the question is why don't you imagine yourself crushing it why don't you imagine the thousand ways that it could go right why don't you imagine people in the audience standing up and clapping and screaming your name and running up to you crying because they think of you like the kid from new direction right one direction god I really knew it was new direction of band when I was a kid all right there we go new addition I'm smashing them all together here so even now I'm going to replay this in my mind where I got it right and it was amazing and people were cheering for me instead of the fact they've gotten it wrong twice already so you people don't replay it going well so they were creating this neuronal superhighway between speaking and being embarrassed between speaking and failing and so that's how it becomes this just absolutely paralyzing terrifying thing whereas if they spent that same amount of time constantly stopping themselves doing what Daniel dr. Daniel Amon calls ants automatic negative thoughts so he had crushed the ants so you want to crush the automatic negative thought and replace it with an automatic positive thought so that you're constantly daydreaming about the way things are going to go well about how they're going to go right so you're reinforcing that in your mind and how do you how do you crush those negative thoughts like what are some tactics that you can use literally just stop them so the second you you write them down you I don't that's not been a technique I've used maybe some people have use that to great effect but my gut instinct is if you're dwelling on it by writing it down that you're just reinforcing it and that is probably better if you're going to write anything down the moment you think of something negative write something positive and so that's what I do when I recognize that I'm having a negative thought that I'm rehearsing something going wrong in my mind I stop and I force myself to have another audience I think if you're shaping your audio no well yeah just the question is are there ethical concerns around shaping your identity yeah so I don't know that there's I'll just say there's no ethical concerns with shaping your own identity there may be deep and terrifying ethical concerns to the actions that emanate from the identity that you create so you need to be very careful with that but there are massive ethical concerns from shaping somebody else's mentality and because that is literally what we're trying to do with impact Theory we are actually trying to shape people's mentality and Cindy thinks I should relate it to free will and so remind me if I don't bring it around but when when I think about the what I hold myself to the standard to make sure that we don't to some weird ethical gray area is the same that I hold myself to when I think about selling the only way I can get behind selling is if I believe truly believe that that product somehow makes that person or the world a better place and if it does that then I will go hard to sell it and I will use every technique I can think of to get people to believe in to get behind to be excited about to like the price to whatever and if you haven't read the book nudge read it there really even just small things you can do Moran talks about one of them $6.99 is very different than seven dollars so small things like that to nudge people in a given direction I think all of its ethical if at your absolute core you believe that it's empowering that it will do good by people and do good by the world as a whole and I think if that's your you know the the guiding principle then the only thing that we really have to fear is mental illness and I don't think there's ever a way around that to bring it back to free will do I see them being connected not really I think we're going to have to address free will there's a separate thing but that did make me think about something that I wanted to cover when I was watching the episode which was selling getting inside people's minds I've lost it alright I got a question left if I will and self narrative which is a big theme in the interview some Moran talks about all of these studies right in which they can predict people's behaviors and their decisions which sort of burst the illusion of free will and then yet I think the rest of the episode you you both talked about how you're able to create a self narrative that's going to determine your decisions and help you sort of become the person you want to be so how is this idea of you know free will not being something that we possess how is this not devastating for people and how can we change our thinking around that it's interesting so here's how I think about free will and maybe a little bit different than Moran thinks about it I think free will is irrelevant I don't think it matters and nothing in my life would change whether I have free will or I don't and if you carry back the concept of free will far enough I think you'll see that it can't possibly exist if you allow me the butterfly effect right so that doesn't mean that in any moment I'm not deciding something so or myself but the question is what made me and once you start backtracking right so I would be very different for instance if my parents would beat me I'd be very different for instance if my parents showed no love and no affection I would be very different if I didn't read I would be very different if thousand different things that occurred to me right and there's as many variations on the human growth experiences as there are people right every every trajectory to adulthood I think is entirely unique even identical twins so if you accept that you are to some extent and I would say to a very large extent the result of your perspective and that your perspective is shaped oftentimes by things outside of you if you take that back far enough then I think that you know free will is is an illusion and it doesn't matter it doesn't impact you in any way shape or form it doesn't matter to me that the person that I am today is a result of all the experiences that I've had and that many many many many of those experiences were outside of my control I feel like right now I can decide what direction I want to be moving in I can decide whether I want fisher's take I could change my mind so because I feel empowered to course-correct and determine where I want to go I'm not as worried about what the subconscious processes are that make me desire one thing over the other right because even that I feel like we can take hold of and you can like when I changing what I built my self-esteem around felt like I had recoded the matrix it was so fundamental to what I valued what I felt chemically where I wanted to go how I viewed myself like it was really for any programmers out there it was kernel level right you've gone about as deep as you're going to be able to go and really make deep deep changes to the code of the way you think so that was really really powerful and because I feel that I have the ability to do that nothing else matters so whether that's free willing not too relevant and jumping off that how do you make those changes I mean is it about just become the start with self-awareness or what's the deep work that you're doing to really get down to that kernel level and and recode yourself in the matrix so I play a game called no [ __ ] what would it take all right so no [ __ ] what would it take let's say that you are you're outside my house right now and you want to get in no [ __ ] what would it take go me yep outside your house and want to get it yep let's say one of your wife life depends on you getting in in the next four minutes Oh I mean I'm picking the lock I'm breaking windows you're not starting with the lock right because you know not a boil on it if four minutes I'm breaking windows right you pick something up smash through the [ __ ] window yeah so done right no both but if I force you to deal with the construct of a this in my house I'm going to get pissed off and by the way your wife's not in here dying and you just actually want in what are you going to do you're going to knock right in status on my house gonna knock if I don't ask the door gonna go to window right you'll check but you're going to like you're so limited by social constructs when the answer is actually really simple and if the stakes were high enough for you to get in you'd get in and you get in really fast so for me to get down to the kernel level is all about identifying like where is the no [ __ ] answer right - I need to make this change so I'll walk you through what really happened with me when I finally moved away from thinking of myself as smart and I started started thinking of myself as being a learner was I had a stated goal to get rich and I wanted to get rich here I was as an entrepreneur and trying to work my way up in the company and it wasn't working and I was constantly trying to convince people that my way was the right way even when I knew that it wasn't the right way and one day it actually worked and I convinced people of a bad idea and I knew that by them agreeing to my way we were actually gonna move slowly or more slowly or move in the wrong direction and so I had like a real epiphany at that moment cuz I thought oh my god like you need to really assess your behavior what you're doing right now isn't in alignment with your goals you just work tree hard to convince people to go in the wrong direction so what is it that's actually motivating you like stop biessing yourself what's really motivating you and I realized that what I was being motivated by was a desire to feel good about myself and that that was actually the thing that made me want to be rich as well I thought being rich would make me feel good about myself and I was tell you right now it's not going to and you can be rich and miserable you can be poor and happy and the two aren't tied that doesn't mean that money isn't amazing it is but they just aren't tied and until you figure that out you're really really in trouble so I realized okay I'm acting in accordance with a desire to feel good about myself okay well then if that's my primary driver that sits below everything a desire for self esteem which I actually think should be and people should feel good about themselves then I need to switch what I build my self-esteem around because it is a construct and it's built around something and right now it's built around the notion of being smart well let's let go of that because I'm just not that smart and I'm wrong a lot so rather than build my self-esteem around that build it around learning and that changed everything that's super powerful I want to bring him back to Moran and I want to read a quote from the episode nice so he says the mistake I made wasn't to say something is possible when it was not it was to say something is impossible before I knew it c-can you just respond to that quote I mean I know it impacted you in real time in the episode as it did everyone watching but how important is that realization I want everybody listening to this if you're driving in your car I want you to pull over and you're going to I need you to pull over because Jarrod is going to read this quote one more time and your life is going to be changed and if your life isn't changed you're not listening or you're dead inside take it away he says the mistake I made wasn't to say something as possible when it was not it was to say something is impossible before I knew it and I have to tell the story so for those of you that haven't watched the episode watch it because I'm gonna just bastardize his tail and this is really amazing and this you'll see me freak out in the episode and I stopped this where I stop and shake his hand right because I was just like dude anybody that can switch on a dime like that and realize I was wrong and there's a way more powerful way to think like you're my kind of person but here's how it went he had spent five years working on his PhD and he was obviously in Oh science looking into the brain what's possible and he was doing this thing that sort of hinted at that we might one day somehow be able to record dreams and he was just exhausted and he'd finally put in his thesis and a reporter called and woke him up and he was you know sort of in that days that you're in when you first wake up and they asked him something along the lines of what he's working on or whatever and he said that you know he was working on saying sort he hinted that you could monitor dreams and so they said so you're telling me that you can record dreams and in his sort of half-asleep state he said yes and then it went viral the reporter hung up moran realized his mistake and realized how it was going to be interpreted and it just spread like wildfire it went everywhere and people were calling him phone ringing off the hook saying you know that scientists now we're saying that we can record dreams and actually remember reading the article by the way and thinking whoa like that's kind of freaky and I was thinking about how it's going to be used like the court systems and stuff and and he tried frantically to backtrack to tell people no no no that's not what I meant and he woke me up yeah because he's like I'm going to lose my credibility like this isn't possible there's no way you can do it and he spends three years trying to convince people that it is impossible and then a reporter in fact the first reporter from the BBC calls them up and says we want you to comment on recording dreams and Miranda's like come on man you've got to be kidding like you guys all but tanked my reputation like this is crazy I spent the last three years trying to rebuild my credibility they said no no we understand that you don't believe that it's possible but there's a guy in Japan doing it right now and I think Moran's world changed at that moment now he had two choices he could yell heresy he could say it's not possible keep you know double triple down on his stance that no no no you really can't do this or if you do what he actually did and he opened his mind and he went started working with the guy and realized I made a critical error and Mike he says in the quote my critical error wasn't to say that something was possible that wasn't it was to believe something is impossible when I don't know and this there's an amazing amazing quote and I'm blanking on who it's by right now but I see it I remember now it's Michio Kaku Michio Kaku says he's a famed physicist Michio Kaku says I love talking about science fiction because science fiction plays is incredibly important role in society and that role is to capture people's imaginations and man I cannot tell you that enough to capture people's imaginations if you want to know why it impact theory we are so hell-bent to create traditional narrative but traditional narrative that's on the back of really empowering ideology is because we want to teach people not only how to dream but how to turn that science fiction and it's not all going to be science fiction but to turn that science fiction into science fact and so often it is the the storytellers that point people in the direction that tell scientists were to look that really paint a compelling vision of the future that people get excited about they get behind and then they go into the research and they make it real and one of the things that I want to do on the company side of things I want to tell people what I'm struggling with in my life because I know there's an entrepreneur out there right now who's going to make this [ __ ] a reality and right like I will tell you right now there is a huge business opportunity in anybody that thinks they can deliver on this I want you to contact me immediately I'm not going to buy you I'm going to fund you I'm going to mentor you something but I'm going to get involved with anybody that can do ultra hike ultra high quality you hear me saying that right I'm not saying better than what's out there I'm saying ultra-high quality direct-to-garment printing if you can do ultra high-quality direct-to-garment printing you have a billion dollar business and I want to talk to you but that's me right I'm throwing out science fiction right now it's science fiction it doesn't exist that [ __ ] looks everywhere for this but I know out there right now is somebody they're a dreamer they're an Oklahoma nobody knows who they are they're a 14 year old kid and they're going to get the local university to let them come in and they're going to transform the director garment industry why because they're like the guy in Japan who heard that scientists were recording dreams and never heard the retraction and so now simply because he thinks it's possible he's going to actually do it and I'm really glad you brought it back to entrepreneurship because I think this is a really important lesson another way to say what Moran is saying is don't give up exhaust every single possibility until you are absolutely certain that that big dream you have is not possible and can we go a step further because I said in the episode Moran be happy until you tell me that anything is possible and he he acquiesced maybe acquiesce light he didn't go too hard but I you know I think that he got it the real truth here isn't it isn't don't give up it's accept that it is your failing now there's a subtle difference there what I mean by that is accept that it is possible know it to the core of your being your goal isn't to exhaust your efforts and prove that it's impossible your goal is to believe to the core of your being that it is possible so if you haven't figured it out yet you don't know some key piece of information you haven't learned something and the reason I want people to be open to that is because they should be looking for collaborators they should be looking for people that can give them that one bit of idea it doesn't need to be you you don't have to be the one to come up with it right like don't pride yourself on that that's such a fool's errand that's what really blew me away about Moran was ego did not get in his way once he realized oh my god someone is doing it that piece of knowledge changed his life and it took him on a new trajectory and he went from having wasted countless hours trying to convince people that something was impossible because he wanted to protect his ego he wanted to protect his reputation to going what was I thinking I want people to dream bigger I'm going to get I'm going to dream bigger myself I'm going to get other people to dream bigger and I'm going to recognize the transference of the energy between science fiction and science fact yeah alright I think I need to repeat the quote one more time for our Facebook light immunity for IG they went here and so one more time the mistake I made wasn't to say something is possible when it was not it was to say something is impossible before I knew it man write that down write that down done read that put it on your wall I would say tattoo it if he had ended it by saying and we instead realized that anything is possible but even I like how that one caveat my belief system where I say human potential is nearly limitless so sometimes you throw things in like that just to keep people from thinking that you're totally out of your mind but honestly guys please open yourself up to being changed that is one of those parts of my belief system that's been so impactful like you have to let that quote change you you have to reinforce it in your mind you have to know that before you heard that quote from a rants or if you were a different human being like if you can repeat that in your head and really think like that and see yourself now has fundamentally changed and go home and tell your significant other hey I heard this quote and it really changed me and I feel like a different human being and I'm going to act differently and tomorrow actually get up and act differently and act in accordance with that quote you will be amazed at how much it actually impacts your life like this stuff works but you have to do it you have to really be willing to change that is the truth alright let's talk about storytelling words that is a big theme of this episode obviously it is relevant to Moran as well because he can focus on a lot of TV shows and films he discusses storytelling you know we can we can reshape our past we can tell ourselves stories about our memories we can change our memories and that's going to then change our identities but I want to bring storytelling also to you know how he talked about science fiction how he talks about art and film and television and and back to really the sort of the mission of impact theory because he actually says this I think is a good jumping-off point he says that when you are watching it film your brain starts to wire or it starts to act in the way that the person on screen in accordance with that person on screen and then he even says that it goes back to the director of the creator of the film and how their brain was working so how does that tie into the mission of the impact theory of what we're trying to do with art and media to empower people yeah this is one of my favorite quotes and it stopped me dead in my tracks and I don't know who first said it and I'd love somebody drop into the comments if they know who first said it we're looking for the originator here you're the average of the five people you spend the most time with and that was one of those truths that hit me from on an intuitional level right just at a gut level I thought that is so true and when I think about how different my life is now versus when the five people that I was hanging out with we're different it really is astonishing now you could say that it's correlation not causation until you start seeing the neuroscience of what you're just talking about and you realize that when two human beings are vibing and I know you guys have felt this you've been in a talk where you just felt like time dilated you were there everything slowed down you were like in the zone with the person right totally and in fact this is why one of the reasons so the reason people take substances alcohol drugs whatever is to manipulate their brain chemistry right and there's there is something really fascinating about humans absolute obsession with manipulating their brain chemistry but so I rarely drink and the only times that I enjoy drinking or when I'm with my wife and if I really really want to enjoy drinking it would be just my wife and I alone why because we get in lockstep neurologically and we're like in a zone and I feel like there is nothing in the world except that woman and we're so like in sync and it's that feeling of being in sync that Moran is talking about where you are neurologically firing in the same pattern as a person you're talking to you feel understood you feel heard you hear them you understand them like you were totally in sync which is of course why they say that because that's exactly what it feels like and in being in sync like that you really begin to soak up their vibe and if their vibe is empowering you'll be empowered to survive as negative you'll be sucked down so you really have to be careful about who you get in sync with but to your point about wide impact Theory were so hell-bent to bring a new kind of narrative to the table that's built on a new kind of ideology is because of what Moran was saying that as somebody sitting there watching it they're going to be in sync with that ideology they're going to be in sync with the person on screen they're going to be in sync with us behind the camera and as long as from an ethical standpoint we're building it around an ideology that's empowering to them and empowering to the world now it's like I can go hard for that I can go hard to get people involved in that to put every bit of my energy and enthusiasm into bringing this art into existence and turning it into plush toys and t-shirts and all the things we want to do to reinforce an ideology to get you in sync to help you stay in sync to you know one of the things that I really want people to start doing and this is going to be one of the huge revenue drivers for us is to rep what you believe right and you're going to see me all the time all the time all the time I'm where bring things that express what I believe and that's going to be our first wave of revenue is we want to bring into the world things that represent a certain ideology that's empowering right now today as I'm wearing the shirt when I look in the mirror I'm not just looking back many Batman's looking back to me right and there's this whole mean going around like hey always be yourself unless you can be Batman then always weed Batman right but people laugh it off but like what if you took it seriously what if you really said okay what does that mean like okay I don't have any superpower something I have to work super hard I want to you know bring light to the darkness Batman is an idea another person like all this amazing stuff that's tied up in the mythology of Batman what if I really brought that to my daily life which I do by the way and is one of the ways that I show up in the gym five days a week and I put that [ __ ] work in is because I want to see that staring back at me I don't want to be embarrassed when you know Bruce Wayne's or Batman's eyes are staring back at me and when you can as a grown-ass man who is you know successful and is trying to play at the absolute highest level if you can take that seriously and really let it inform you and drive you I really think you have a leg up so that's that ability to read that stuff as serious and know how to put it to use in your life is is is what impact theory is like that's our random debt that's high school French coming in and come in there handy they're nice Cindy Jim Rohn alright Jim Rohn Sam man he was he's og so thank you yeah so how do you choose your tribe of five people and how do you remove people from that tribe without being a jerk yeah so that's a multi-layered question so let's start with how do you remove people without looking like a jerk so first let go of worrying about whether you look like a jerk because to the person you remove I promise you're going to seem the dick there's no two ways about that yep and and don't lose sleep over it now I believe people should be respectful at all times I think you should fill yourself with joy in your heart and I know I'm stupid but I actually tried to do that I try to film myself the joy with love for that person and to want good things for them and look there have been people that have done me wrong in my life rewind everything I've ever said publicly and look how often I [ __ ] and moan I don't I [ __ ] and moan about myself because I'm trying to push myself and hold myself to a higher standard but even people who've attacked me or whatever like I get it you know what I mean I see I try to see from their perspective I try to still want good things for them and I do that because I want to focus on negative [ __ ] right like I don't want to focus on the anger or the hatred and it doesn't mean that I don't feel it right and you know I think I've talked pretty openly about you have to know how to leverage the anger you have to know how to leverage a chip on your shoulder yes and know how to do that stuff but you have to be really careful and I find that people fill their hearts with that they fill their hearts with rage they fill their hearts with wanting to tear people down and and while it's leverageable I never fill my heart with it you have to be super [ __ ] careful about that so want good things for the person that you're removing from your life don't be a jerk wish them well wish them nothing but the best if they're open and they seek ideas for how they can improve obviously offer it willingly how you pick the five people that are going to you know that you want to be around I'll say pick it from an ideological standpoint like who you trying to become and find the people that are closest to that so you know if you're trying to be a world-class athlete surround yourself with world-class athletes or the closer you can get to it if you're trying to be a world-class businessman same thing if you're trying to be the best mom ever like surround yourself with either people that you know or you know maybe teachers that have really shown themselves you know to really really deliver results for kids whatever it is that you think is valuable to run yourself with that and then as Moran says when you can't actually get those people in your circle then turn to articles turn to books turn to movies turn to podcast like there are so many people out there right now pouring their heart and soul into creating just amazing amazing content and you know and I'll give a couple shoutouts here Tim Ferriss every time I listen to his podcast I'm just like Tim good lord like the people that he has on in the way that he really goes into the how to like hyper execution airy and I'm not sure that's word by the way but I'm going to stay with it I just I'm blown away and think it's amazing lewis howes like super emotional raw vulnerable right really really inviting people into his journey hearted charm like there's just so so many amazing podcast and then heckle Noah Kagan heckle Noah Kagan he's just starting his podcast I think it's going to be amazing and I think that he has a unique entrepreneurial mind and and you know letting those people be you're over the years mentor you know the Internet's changed everything take advantage awesome let's talk about the future of brain science let's talk about in the episode of Moran talks about how they're actually doing studies where they can identify the sections of the brain that are deteriorating through any sort of brain illness or disorder and they're trying to plug in where they're actually doing it right they're plugging in microchips that can replicate that process in the brain and help people live longer better lives question is would you do it if you could if you needed to and you could would you do it yeah I mean there's no question so first of all I'm gonna be a cyborg let's all just embrace the [ __ ] out of that so yeah I have no overly indulgent affinity for this meat suit as Peter Diamandis calls it I I am yeah I am a total embrace or of Technology of you know I consider myself a futurist and absolutely obsessed was going on what's going on with the XPrize and all of the cool technologies that they're trying to help bring to the forefront so I would do it in a heartbeat and and I just want to express my eternal gratitude to the scientists that are out there as a scientist you know all you're ever going to contribute is one brick right and that at the end of the day an edifice is made up of thousands hundreds of thousands of bricks and that what you're going to contribute is one and it may be a keystone right it may be something off which everything else hangs but at the end of the day everyone gets to place one brick and to give your life to that one brick is such a noble and beautiful endeavor that all of us have taking advantage of from the people that created these microphones to the internet to the cameras to the headphones to the the warmth in my house you know to engineering it's like we are literally standing on the shoulders of giants and so I am just eternally eternally grateful so anybody out there that's working on neuroscience right now that's trying to move us towards the singularity that's trying to get us to a point where we can transcend biology I am eternally in your debt and yes I'm well aware that we have to be careful and yes I'm well aware that things could take a left turn and go horribly horribly awry but to me technology is hope and that at the end of the day is what it it always has been and what it always will be you're never going to be able to stop hope people are always going to try always going to want to try and make our world more optimistic more beautiful and and I trust that you know with enough human minds around protecting ourselves from the downside that we will get there and
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