Kind: captions Language: en the way that you talk to yourself just like we're discussing earlier affects the actions you take the way you think about yourself and what happens in your world selft talk is very important and it's very overlooked in our discussion of self-development when I was when I was a kid one of the things that stuck out to me a lot about my my grandmother was that she'd monitor almost kind of like very closely things I would say so if I ever say something like oh I'm so stupid or like oh why didn't I do that she'd always say don't talk about yourself like that she'd always catch me on the the slightly negative ideas I'd have about myself to the point where I was almost unable to say anything negative about myself which I think like yeah I feel like it really helped me because only recently as I've been like getting more stressed with more work have I even seen a few chinks in my armor like oh that was kind of a negative thought but I've kept the majority of them out because I have such a strong base