Kind: captions Language: en hey everybody Welcome to impact Theory you were here my friends because you believe that human potential is nearly Limitless but you know that having potential is not the same as actually doing something with it so our goal with this show and Company is to introduce you to the people and ideas that will help you actually execute on your dreams all right today's guest is a College Dropout that everyone thought was going to fail but against the odds he turned himself into a self-made multi-millionaire by the time he was 24 starting from humble beginnings he learned fast and built an Empire through an unending amount of grit and hustle what he lacked in formal training he made up for in Street Savvy and an understanding of people he created a huge online community around stock trading made some heroic stock Investments himself was up $20 million just from investing and simultaneously also built his own marketing agency into a monster that was doing $10 million in annual revenue he had the penthouse in the sky the Bentley the Ferraris he was traveling the world in style and then out of nowhere it all came crashing down when the Great Recession hit he lost it all everything but he did not sit in the corner and cry about it he checked his ego put his head down and shifted back into raw hustle mode but this time it wasn't about ego or the money it was about impact and From the Ashes he and two co-founders in the grips of the recession began building a new Media company for Millennials called Elite Daily they were committed to giving voice to a generation that up to that point really didn't have one and despite a mountain of hate being thrown their way by traditional media companies they built an amazing company in culture outworked everyone else and established themselves as the dominant player in their demographic building a massive brand that reached over 80 million readers per month in 2015 they were acquired for nearly $50 million by The Daily Mail but what makes today's guest so fascinating it isn't how successful he's been it's that instead of retiring to Miami Beach he decided the only thing that mattered to him was building something to help those less fortunate so he moved into one of the worst neighborhoods in New York New Jersey began buying the surrounding area and created Founders a social impact accelerator for entrepreneurs by entrepreneurs so please help me in welcoming one of the most passionate and fascinating human beings I have ever met the CEO of Founders an angel investor and philanthropist who is helping underprivileged entrepreneurs become successful entrepreneurs The Man known as the millennial Mentor Gerard Adams that was the best intro I think I've ever I definitely ever had my friend it doesn't even come close to capturing what it felt like to meet you in Newark to go out to see the space meet the people that you're actually helping who by the way have come from all over the world to be part of what you're doing in a really rundown part of the city but when you see what you guys are doing it it was unbelievable and I'm so glad I got to see it for myself so my question is you're rich homie why do you work so hard like what what is that about uh for me I mean um I do what I love every single day you know I really do I I really enjoy seeing the people around me Thrive and succeed and I love passing down the knowledge that you know I've learned over the past 14 years it was it was tough you know to to amount to some success in my life and for me I started just asking myself tough questions of like why you know why did this all happen you know how did I overcome all of this and like what can I do every day to to truly Inspire and educate and impact the people around me and do it in a place where my family's roots are from and you know in a community that you know really is important to me and and if I can do it you know every single day there little by little make that impact there hopefully we can spread that across the world all right so walk us through a little bit of the story so when you you're riding high at 24 you've got to feel pretty badass I know I certainly would have um what did your mom say when you lost everything that really puts your head on right oh man that was um that was crazy it's it's interesting you know when when that all happened I was so scared to like be vulnerable and like that I like lost you know like I I really understood at that point like that about like about ego and you know I when that all happened I couldn't tell anybody I was like scared you know what they would think yeah because like I was this person that like overcame adversity made it like all my friends are just starting to graduate from college they couldn't get a job they were coming to me to for for to get a job you know um and I had lost it all and I was like oh my God like what do I do like I can't I don't want to tell people I lost it all you know and I didn't know what to do and then at the end of the day um my mother just told me that when she was 15 years old she had a studio apartment with her brothers and sisters my aunt and uncles and my grandparents she was walking home from school with her friend and her friend was like Jenny I think the building that you live in is on fire and my mother ran home and luckily my family got out but they lost everything but the shirts on their back and my mother had never told me about this growing up wa so like I never knew any of this it was until like I actually was down and out that my mother sat me down and I was like I don't know what to do Mom how am I going to like it out of this and she was the kid of immigrant parents right yeah both she actually born in columia she was born in Columbia okay yeah and how old was she when she came I think about 6 years old okay wow yeah and um she told me she was like she had to beg her school teacher to uh allow her to take night classes so that she can get a job they didn't want allow her but she like basically begged and they let her take night classes and she couldn't get a job in Jersey so she went to Canal Street it was like winter time my mom's telling me this and starts crying and she's just like when I went through that just so I can get make a little bit of money to help your grandparents put a food on the table and I was the oldest sibling of all your aunts and uncles and we were able to overcome that and now I put this roof over your head you best believe that you better go out there and you can do it again because you can lose everything Gerard but they can't take this away they can't take this away from you and that's why I feel so blessed to have such great parents um because they these are the things that like they instilled in me like those are the values the the mindset both my parents throughout my entire life have really I I owe it all to them um not for like what they've You Know M anything material anything like that I'm so grateful for all the the things they've done for me but more than anything just like they've always empowered me and they always just like really um supported me and just seeing what they've done to to get to where they are and and my grandparents too like immigrating I always you know it to them you used to getting at least one fist fight with your dad if I'm not mistaken growing up sounds like you were a bit of a handful I was you know I wasn't the um I wasn't like the book smart do good at school kid I was the troublemaker you know I from like a young age age I just you know was the more social and I like I was a skater I went through so many phases I was like a skater then I got into hip-hop phase I was like all like wearing like fuboo Southpaw like and then I went to the BMX and I went through so many different phases as a kid um and I like was a h young Hustler and you know I I almost got into some big trouble I haven't really publicly talked about this too much if I was kind of like been scared but um I went from like street racing selling car parts and then somehow I ended up getting caught into s weed and like all my friends were smoking and stuff like that I was like young 17 and I ended up getting caught into freaking hustling like 20 bags of like weed when I was like young and I'll never forget um my family like my father one day seeing me in my room at 17 years old and seeing me put the weed in the bag and I'm my dad is old school so like growing up my dad didn't take no [ __ ] I mean he really like didn't take no [ __ ] it was the first time in my life he just looked at me and was like I'm really disappointed and this is your decision but don't come don't come home when you get in trouble wow and something crazy happened I thought I was like Invincible or something literally like the next day I'm driving my car I'm going to like drop off a 20 to like my at my friend's house and and all of a sudden all these cops surround me and I'm like oh my God and I had tinted windows I'm like hiding it like I didn't any Clips you should be able to like hide by the transmission and all of a sudden all these cops are surround me and I'm like my whole life flashed before my eyes I'm like I I just ruined my life my family this everyone that that like in school thought I was going to be like this kid I wasn't going to make it all these I'm like I just proved them right like what is I can't believe I did this and and then lo and behold these cops all pound in my window lower the window and I'm like and I lower the window I look at the officer what are you doing and like I'm like I'm picking up my friend from high school and I had just had called him right before the cops Spang on the window he comes out hey it's just you know dra picking me up from school and lo and behold somebody was committing Grand Theft Auto right in front of me that's why the cops came and they arrested this person for Grand Theft Auto right in front of me and I was at that moment I was like oh my God like I felt like I had a first of all Guardian Angel my grandmother passed away from cancer like always been my guardian angel and I would just but that I was just like whoa like I this is not what I'm supposed to this is my you know I need to really think about think twice about my life and my path and that's when I was like all right I need to channel everything about my ambition and like who I am as a person and my you know how I was raised like I need to channel that into business from that moment forward I like completely switch gears and wanted to go into you know really focus on getting into a good college at that time yeah I haven't really talked about that but you know it's like you know when you you you're succumb to your environment and I was surrounded by an environment where all my friends were smoking you know doing drugs gangs fights street racing um and I was just like succumb to that and it became the norm for me um how'd you get out of it so fast though like I mean you started really taking yourself seriously certainly right after you drop out of college which you can't be more than 1819 at that point yeah I was 18 years old so what was it that incident that caused you to really buckle down and get serious or yeah definitely as from a from like a mindset definitely and then I went to go to college CU like okay my parents are saying in order for become successful like I got to go to college get a good education you know I wasn't able to get into Princeton like my dad wanted so I got into cwell college and my my goal was to eventually transfer and wenton hopefully right and my first semester I was like y everyone is partying more than freaking high school here and they're telling me what classes to take in order to earn credits just to get to the classes I want to take to learn about business while getting into debt and I was like this is the biggest business in the world I'm like education they're they're you know this is a like in my opinion I was like this is like a scam you know we have the internet like I'm you know so I was like I'm going to I I want to double down on the internet and um luckily I found a mentor pretty early on at that time at 18 years old and um having that conversation with my family was really tough that you were dropping out yeah because again it's like up you know it's he going to be here we go you know he he's is now did they think you were just being lazy no they saw my they saw me like you know up till 4: or 5 in the morning every night on that computer they saw me educate working on a business plan or yeah working on a business plan working on a website working going on different forums were you already thinking stock spot at this point I was thinking stocks yeah and I was starting to ideate the the stock spot because I was going on all these other forums to learn about stocks to learn about like you know investing and trading and none of them had a rating system none of them you didn't know who was who it was like the AOL almost like AOL like back in the day when they had chat rooms and just like screen names you know you don't know who's who so I like man there's got to be something out there and if there isn't I should create it and that's been like you know that's that's the way I've continued to be an entrepreneur to this day that's where your business ideas come from Yeah scratch at onich yeah so it's really interesting so at Quest I because we were Manufacturing in the inner cities um I worked with a lot of former drug dealers and it is utterly fascinating what an amazing education that is in entrepreneurship like just let go of any moral judgment for a sec like the product is essentially risk that's what you're really selling like you're willing to tolerate the risk and so you get a hold of this thing that's illegal that makes you have heart attacks when police are nearby um and that's essentially What You Broker for people is I'll take this risk to get you this thing um but because it's so highrisk and because when you're really serious about it there are people that actually will try to come and kill you and take your stash and whatever you're encroaching on their Turf I mean it obviously can be incredibly incredibly violent but they also know like the cops and how they change shifts and who has what car and so that they can really like keep an eye on everything and I was talking to one of I wasn't that uh I wasn't that yeah right you're sort of a little earlier stage but talking to some of these guys that had like legitimate businesses that were passed down right so they weren't just like your random street Hustler these were people that like their parents were in the drug trade and so it was a family business and you know for whatever reason you end up having to take it over and I remember one day just like I really want to understand this because it like this guy was really really sharp no matter what you put him on like he would just get it he'd be able to do it he was good with people like he understood like what are the business objectives and how is what I'm doing like apply to that and how do I have to get people to work for me to make it work it's really pretty interesting like did you feel entrepreneurial while you were doing it oh yeah for sure you know um you know the risk every single day um you know you start to make money that you never seen you know never had money like that so for me it was like the taste of like wow okay I'm I'm able to and what did it feel like is that like freedom for you or or yeah definitely some Freedom um freedom to start being able to kind of do what I want like kind of control like what I wanted and do certain things um and what what is the like value of risk for an entrepreneur like the the ability to take risk it's everything it's part of my DNA you know um it's just like I'm constantly every day trying to challenge myself you know to push myself to take risk whether it's in my personal life you know pushing myself to new environments try trying new things me new people it helps me grow you know I grow as an individual every time I try to do something that scares me I just like afterwards like I just it empowers me I feel you know I feel like I've learned something I've grown I've learned about a new culture learned about a new person I always feel like I can learn something new from someone no matter who they are you know so um and then with ideas like I you know I just love I'm not afraid to fail you know for me there's nothing more powerful than creating something and if it's going wrong like solving okay how let's pivot let's figure out why it's not working and continuing until you know we actually built something that people you know see value in and has grown and the when something does work the reward of like seeing people come together for one thing and all everyone kind of believing in that mission and believing in that idea a and believing in it it's just like there's nothing more rewarding to me that's like it's a it's best moments of my life have been like when I've taken a big risk and I've seen it come to fruition and like it's gone from this idea to people to like act people like you know all making it reality something tangible seeing the emotion that it creates in different people and like the it's just awesome you know and then I don't know I forget I think puts me to like the Elite Daily like the moment where me and my co-founders when we had that exit and we didn't plan it and we looked at each other in the eye and we're like man like we [ __ ] did it like forget about the money like there's 200 people back in the office that are all happy freaking working at a common goal 80 million people that are reading this thing on a daily basis like remember the days it was just three folding chairs and we didn't know if this thing was going to really work and now you know it was to me that's like it was the greatest thing in the world all right so rewind me back you're 1819 you get out of the drug freid very wisely uh and you drop out of college that seems like at that point probably the biggest risk that you took from certainly from the perspective of everyone now thinks I'm exactly what they told me I was going to be right I am the failure I am the Dropout and I didn't get into Princeton the way that my dad wanted which I'm assuming he'd been beating into you for a very long time so what was it that gave you the courage to quit how did you convince yourself that you were actually the right person to bet on that you would be better at educating yourself than the education system you know for me it was like what I was passionate about was like learning how to invest what made company successful understanding how to read an income statement understanding how to read that balance statement understanding what made this you just started looking that up how do you read a balance oh yeah I started just re going on all over the Internet um I would read like Silicon investor um Raging Bull you know y finance. yahoo.com like these are the sites that I would go to and just start to you know read and connect with different people on those message boards and if I had asked you at that point what do you do like you dropped out of school Gerard but what do you do like you're on the computer all day but what are you doing oh well you know I'm learning I'm starting to learn how to uh trade I'm starting to you know research companies understand you know the they're fundamentals you know um and did you get good at it oh great at it so how did you get the technology built like I'm putting myself back in the time where the internet is isn't exactly new but it's certainly not robust in the way that we think about it today you're 1819 at this point the first hurdle for virtually everybody is a I know nothing about stocks I don't know how to read a balance sheet so when you dive into stocks and you realize the first thing you have to learn is about balance sheets you stop because it's like Jesus this is such a world unto itself but then even if I get over that then when I realize that wait forum is a technology somebody has to build me the technology I don't know anybody that builds these things like how did you keep hitting these roadblock after roadblock after roadblock and go there's a solution here and I'm going to find it yeah how' you do that I mean just young Hustler I mean like are you a born entrepreneur do you identify as a born entrepreneur I didn't call myself that but yeah I would say that since I was a kid from like hustling lollipop pops as a kid to then t-shirts Mark EO t-shirts to like it just how are you selling Mark Eko t-shirts uh one of my friends fathers worked for Mar Eko you know he had all the shirts like and I would basically get them from him like from the father wholesale and wear them to school and then sell them that's amazing okay so like the very Advanced Lemonade Stand yeah yeah and um and like I I was taught to work you know like I worked at the supermarket the& growing up where myom mom worked yeah tell me about your mom and dad's work ethic oh my gosh my mom worked seven days a week you know almost every week um at a local supermarket and is she telling you like this is what you have to do like you do whatever it takes to make ends meet or was she like [ __ ] the man this sucks I can't believe I have to do this no my mom loved it you know um you she was a bookkeeper and she just like you know she took pride in it she dressed every day like you know it was inspiring for me as a kid to see her do that every single day um and my father worked for credential um you know and just saw him every single day and he I would watch him as a kid doing the budget in the living room and like watch him as like you know um you know working and providing for the family and he used to leave notes for me throughout the house of little quotes from different leaders as a kid be like ah here's another you know I didn't really get it right um but looking back like he was definitely subconsciously building me into a leader for sure and what is that mean like what are the qualities of a great leader for you um courage someone who has is is is has the has the courage no matter what to um believe in something hold heartedly and follow that with faith and courage to just go and and no matter what be able to also um I think for me leading is picking up the people around me and putting them before for myself um caring about everybody around me and and putting them in a position to thrive and as you see before myself and basically leading by example um of how you live your life Leadership to me is a is character you know who you are not what you do and when did that come about in you did you always have that or was some of that from Gaining things so quickly only to lose them and realize way this was largely a problem of ego I the ego was one of the biggest lessons for me um in my life because you know as a as a young guy when I started to finally it started to work and I started to make some money like you can really easily and I see it even today day and a you can get caught up in like caring about like making the money and you know for me I lost touch with you know who I was and like the fact that yeah I aspired to have all these nice things and it was great but what is it all for and I didn't think about Legacy you know I'm just a young guy like I want to give back to my parents I want to pay off their mortgage I want to you know I want to be able to buy my sister one of my greatest moments in life where was when my sister thought I wasn't going to show up to her 17th birthday cuz I was out hustling and I surprised her and my parents couldn't afford her first car and I surprised her in the driveway with the car that she always dreamed of with a poster board says happy birthday sis I love you and putting a bow on it and seeing her break down crying hysterical and like picking her up and spinning her and then her saying like I didn't even know you love me this much that's what she was you know and like for me the you know that was like what I strive for um were moments like that and then also like being able to get all these things and being able to go into the store and I'm a sneaker head like you I just remember going in the store and being like I want every dunk like Nike Dunks like I give me every color and you know I was having fun and living but um I wasn't thinking about impact I wasn't thinking about Legacy I was thinking about like how can I make more money more money more money so that's got to make it even harder than when it all starts falling apart how did you handle that obviously mom sort of ultimately gives you the clinching piece of information um but how do you how do you get back on your feet um I love pressure I love adversity I actually like th I'm actually I perform better with pressure in adversity for sure I wasn't the kid who like was able to like study for like the test but when it came time to take that test like I'm like I get really focused and prepared for that it's the same thing with speaking engagements now you know like I'm really bad at like preparing for tedex like people prepare for like months like my tedex I didn't prepare I waited it was like the day of like Ted X and I was like wow you know all right it's game time like get focused and what are what is it that we want to accomplish here what is the message um that was great because my mother that was the first time my mother showed up I dedicated it to my mom but I always thrived over adversity and when it what are you saying to yourself at this point like how do you leverage the pressure is it just literally subconscious and you show up or are you saying like hey there's pressure there's people that want to see me fail there's no way I'm going to let this happen yeah um it's definitely subconscious um just throughout my entire life I've had moments like that where I've almost even died you know like scuba diving almost drowning and like my air breaking and me me being like [ __ ] I'm under water right now I don't have air I may die what's going to happen and then like lo and behold like somehow like the person next to me like sees that I'm choking and like boom gives me their air and I'm like okay and get to the top or like when I'm snowboarding back country and you know my friends all lose me and it gets dark and I'm in the middle of the mountain and like I have no helmet and I'm like [ __ ] I got to get to the B B of this mountain and there's rocks and trees and I'm like okay put yourself together this is adversity and it's fine it's like you got to get down this [ __ ] Mountain you know like throughout my life I've had moments like this happen and it's just like over time I see that fear and I'm like I'm running right through it you know there's nothing that's going to help me there's times I'm flying in the plane I'm like this plane may go down but you know I'm okay with that I'm okay with dying like that's because now it's like I'm doing I know I'm doing everything I possibly can every single day to inspire and impact the people around me and if I die I know that I've done my part as much as I possibly can and was that part of the driving desire to get back up on your feet and do something yeah that's that's the driving force of like every day like pushing myself and um that's when I was like I want to step up as a as more as a more as a role model for this generation and be a better leader I started looking on social media and seeing a lot of people portraying success and creating this perception of success um and there I felt that there was something missing out there from Millennials as you know there were people that were being vulnerable and talking about the the grit talking about the adversity talking about the failing you know and also also talking about like the some the real path to success and what it takes you know what I mean you know and um I just I wanted to be able to to start to speak up and share that and share that story and and get out there and do more of what I loved what I realized is that I love mentoring you know with Elite Daily my CEO was 19 years old he was my intern wow for me like I want to see the people around me succeed more than I've succeeded so walk me through the moment you go see Tony Robbins you start thinking about what that next move is going to be you're legitimately contemplating when I said that you could have retired to Miami that wasn't a throwaway line like you were actually well my accountant told me to just not retire but go to Miami for the save on the state income taxs and like you're getting getting ready to get these big wires go to Miami um and I was this close I had this like freaking beautiful place in the sky ocean views and um was like getting ready to sign and I just had a moment like on the balcony looking at that ocean and was just like nah this isn't where I'm supposed to be right now I'm I don't deserve this yet right now I have I have more work to do like and uh going back to Nork where my family was from and seeing kind of what was happening there and then like being asked to speak at in Silicon Valley and seeing these ecosystems being built to support entrepreneurs and give resources but you didn't see that where near where I grew up so I wanted to I was like that's what I need to be doing I need to be back there I need to be building that and um that was it you know so much of uh of the youth there I can see like they're getting succumb to the environment that I got succumb to growing up and they're talking to me about hustling now and they're talking to me about like yo that's the only way we know otherwise I'm supposed to my teachers telling me I'm supposed to go get a job at McDonald's you know and I'm like nah let me tell you how let me tell you if I was able to do it you can too you know and but you need to start making that choice you need to make that choice right now for yourself dude going to Founders was amazing the energy there was unlike anything I've ever seen I was so glad that we had a camera with me because so to give you guys a little bit of a setup was in New York for something else you hit me up on social we had met at South by Southwest you hit me up on social said dude if you're like in Manhattan you got to come to New York you've got to see what we're doing and you had told me about it I I literally couldn't believe that it was real but I was so caught by that notion of you in the penthouse in Miami I know that view you're looking out at the water you're about to sign and you don't like I am still freaked out by that you don't sign you go back you don't just go back to New Jersey you go back to like a gnarly part of New Jersey and and literally I'm thinking I've really got to see this for myself somebody that is so connected to these kids and so wants to like give back cuz I'm thinking I know what the kind of money you've made can do like it that doesn't change your life a little that changes your life a lot and in this really beautiful way it moved you backwards in a beautiful way but it moved you backwards you went from I'm sure a much nicer neighborhood to spending all of your time in a really downtrodden area but you like so smart get a a real estate partner to help you come in you buy the stuff it's live work play you're bringing uh you're revitalizing the neighborhoods the art gallery that you and I shot you've got the food there to really draw people in and then when I came in I was I was just supposed to be doing a talk for Rutgers which ironically had no idea it was down the street by the way so I set up a computer so we can do a Skype and I'm like hey if you've got kids there like let them listen and the [ __ ] kids were on fire man like their energy was through the roof they all had like these really good business ideas like the kid that gave me a bag full of like crickets and it was like branded it's like ginese or want give out Jim like I was like what is going on in this like hilariously random corner of New York New Jersey so what is the Magic Man like you've captured something you've done something to these kids so it's about Community um first and foremost uh both building the community within fers for people to be a part of it um but also you know we're a social Enterprise so getting back and revitalizing these parts of the city you know what we are as a progressive education company um you know teaching through the principles of Entrepreneurship and just our it's similar to like a general assembly you know we it's basically our different curriculums and these are these are curriculums that are based upon all the things that I've learned over the past 14 years that I wish I learned if I were to go back to school back when I was 18 1920 21 22 this is the you know this is what I would have wanted to learn you know in a in a High intense Boot Camp style 12 weeks through personal growth personal development emotional intelligence financial literacy then into like business model canvas understanding how to really launch an idea test experiment Market storytelling Story how do you be able to get customers how do you able to do all of that and and basically bringing in mentors so you know I've fostered relationships you know like I'm so grateful for our relationship but the the impact that you made like they never would have been able to ever meet you and have you in a room and the fact that now we're able to bring in these type of experts into that space to be able to share their stories share their lessons do do you even the impact that you made that day was so like deep and longlasting you change so lives that day and that happens every single day every day we're teaching them we're meditating in the morning we're working with them Tai Chi physical working with them on their mental their physical and then you know and then we're bringing in these mentors and experts to share and and really get them to level up and understand what it really means to be an entrepreneur because a lot of people throw this title nowadays of being an entrepreneur but it's like you know building a real business is you know is is not this glorified thing it's [ __ ] very difficult and you really need to understand how to um how to be able to overcome all those challenges test experiment fail fail fail fail fail fail you know until you until you get it right and um and that's basically what we and that's what we're that's like our secret sauce you know is is giving that education and teaching that over these 12 weeks with some of the best lead leaders in the world how do you teach them to so I've heard it defined and I forget by who but success is the ability to go from failure to failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm how do you teach them how to do that which is so important teach them how to figure out their their you know their why man it's it's really comes down to that but you know that's the truth it's figuring out what really why are they doing it what really truly drives them to to to solve this problem and do you try to help them look past the money yeah it's um it's definitely it's definitely tough for them and the entrepreneurs have the definitely have their lows and um a lot some of them don't make it you know some of them break and they's like ah this isn't for me and that that's a great question can anybody become an entrepreneur can anyone become a great entrepreneur yes but do they do they have what it takes are they willing to do whatever it takes um a lot of people give up and that's just the you know that's just the truth can you tell who's going to make it and who won't um us yeah usually I mean the first four 4 weeks I'm breaking them I'm not there to be their friend I'm there to be their mentor and I'm breaking them down to figure out do you really really want this and how do you do that because this like understand this is such an important question for me so we have an internship program here and for anybody interested lean in a little closer and I want you to hear this is my criteria I just want to know if you can work I have no [ __ ] idea how to tell ahead of time like you can look at somebody maybe they're really bright maybe they've got something special but will they do whatever it takes are they going to grind I have no idea like literally Gerard I've interviewed a lot of people I'm talking, 15500 probably more people in every like Stratosphere you can imagine so I've interviewed people that are fresh out of prison and they want to be a janitor and I've interviewed people up to the EVP of sales and you know these are people that have worked for Fortune 500 companies and um and everyone in between I can't tell you how to determine if somebody has drive people can tell you grit right is another way to say it people will tell you that they have ambition they're all going to tell you that right um they're all going to tell you that they really want it they're all going to tell you that they're compassionate and that they're caring and that they want to see other people succeed but whether or not like how they react when it sucks yeah is is a whole another Beast right like who can deal with self-imposed suffering that's really the question and to your point like what's your why have you read Man's Search for meaning by Victor Frankle no I have not Gerard a you must read that book and B seriously I will I will in fact right now I'm telling you I'm going to ship you like a hundred of those [ __ ] books any kid that walks through your doors read that Victor Frankle survived he actually survived five I believe concentration camps wow five including aitz and he said literally you would know 72 hours before someone was going to die because they would give up and he said once they gave up you you can't survive that kind of hardship if you don't have something in you that is so important to you that is pushing you and driving you forward he said the moment they lost their why they were done and there's that awesome Nichi quote if you have a y you can survive almost anyhow yes so when you hear this and he's a neurologist so this guy is just like bright in the extreme very educated and very articulate about psychology and the brain and what's happening neurologically to these people but what I found so unendingly interesting is you can never predict who the people were that were going to break once they broke it was so evident and so immediately obvious they're like okay they're they're done now like they they no longer know why they're suffering right and when you were like I'm suffering because I'm going to go find my kids or I'm going to go find my spouse and I'm going to build something back up or even if this is the [ __ ] interesting part even even if your why was I'm going to [ __ ] kill every one of these guards the second this war is over my friend I will know nothing but Bloodshed great like at least that like gave you something to keep truly right and I've got a whole thing about beauty and rage both can serve you and let me assure you in a concentration camp I'm going to lean a little more on the rage than anything else but having your why like understanding that so I need to understand what you do to like put these kids to the test to figure out who really wants it because I want this to work more than you can imagine and I know you're not you don't play being an entrepreneur so I know you're actually trying to solve a problem yeah so what is it tell me cuz I want to put it to use in my own life I don't I just really try to see if they'll Break by me questioning the fact that like well I don't know if this is I don't think this is going to really work and I think you should maybe go in a different direction and seeing like is it they they really really at the end of the day no matter what say to me Gerard one way or another however it however it's going to have to happen like I am pushing this thing forward and going to make this a reality um and like once I feel that and see them actually put that into action that's when I know they have whatever they'll do whatever it takes and they have it um but for me it's just constantly trying to question them and see if you know if they'll break I love that I love that so much all right so what are like some key team building things that people should have um well first and foremost it's understanding uh you know it's really the self-awareness so it's like for first and foremost with the founder it's like what are you really great at because as an entrepreneur you typically want to do it all and a lot of times in the very beginning you are wearing every hat and trying to do it all and you have to be resourceful you have to be willing to get your hands dirty and do a little bit of everything in the beginning but then it's like okay really buckled down and I even had to go through this with myself you know there was times I was like trying to do too much trying to do trying to do it all and like figure out like what am I really really passionate about what am I really great at what is that one thing that I can do the very best on my team to add the most value you know for the you know for this idea business and then figuring out okay who who do you really need you know do you need that Chief Operating Officer that person that's going to really help you with the operations and Logistics and the infrastructure who do you need that you know Mar someone that's going to handle your marketing that's just badass and all they care about is like how they're going to be able to tell this story to the marketplace and be able to retain people that become customers and you know who are the people that you need you know around you and what are you really truly great at um is like the first the first thing that we really we teach and then it's um helping them understand what it like what it is they're building in a very concise way to get people to understand you know what it is that they're actually building why they're building it um and then basically getting out there talking to people it's like you know it's it's at the end of the day we teach them you get out go and talk to people share this idea as many you know as much as you can go out and Network online you know uh build relationships with people online and look for these people put it out there like actually leverage social media to talk about document we teach you know we're telling our entrepreneurs document the process you know like is this that whole notion of social currency that you talk about yeah it's it's part of social currency you know like what social currency is yeah yeah it sounds like you're going to die so basically we just you know we time delete daily right uh but I wouldn't do it again building a publication now we are the publication we are the media platform so you know at this point in time like you need to be telling your story you need to be taking your personal branding like serious you know and um I that's what we basically teach is like how are you branding yourself how are you telling your story how are you sh sh sharing that story through your personal brand and also your your business and how is your your business branding itself online how are people perceiving you when they come across you and um CU like I truly believe that if you if you do that in the right way the Law of Attraction you're going to start manifesting opportunities your circle of influence the people that you surround yourself with it's going to happened it's happened with me I never cared about my personal brand my entire career it's it's extremely important today that you understand how to share your story how to document the process how to put that out how are people discovering you in today's day and age consistently day in and day out all right I want to bring it I want to wrap up the the quality thing so I derailed us a bit on how to build a team but you said basically they have to be right or die they've really got to know their why uh what you look for on entrepreneurs and then they've got to be good team Builders and then what are a couple other things you really look for in your Allstar are entrepreneurs uh if there I guess the ability to um get get customers like test and be able to proove like it's just an idea until people actually willing to pay for it they love it they're able to or they're using your product consistently you know every day um so I want to see that the entrepreneur is willing to get out talk to their customers talk to the people that it be that this would bring value to and see that they're able to get those PE those you know those customers or those um that audience to be using their products day and and you know consistently you know something else that I'd like to see is just like their confidence overall the fact that they're willing to be be out there get out be able to share their share their story um and uh get people to believe in them you know believe in their idea and you know and then other than that it's like just their grit you know being able to see that they're able to really really uh put in the put in the work to see it through and do you think confidence is something you can teach yeah for sure absolutely I mean a lot of our entrepreneurs when they come in they don't have that's something that they lack they um scared of what people will think of them scared that people maybe steal their idea they're going to get they're going to fail they that's like a big um a big thing in the in the beginning of our accelerator that we try to teach and how do you help people get over that we do something called failing forward so every Friday we have them stand up in front of the room and front of all the other entrepreneurs and talk about an obstacle that they're facing personally and professionally and be open about that and teach them to be a little more vulnerable and like speak up about that and then the group all of us the mentors the leaders and the entrepreneurs will help push them through that and it's been transformational that that that that particular exercise um where I've seen them you know come like week three of them like speaking in front of everybody building relationships like getting out there um feeling now that they have support all of a sudden you just start to see I've seen them break down cry like man this is the first time I feel like you know people believe in me like I actually have support like I can do this you know and a lot of times that's what it is you need to surround yourself with the right energy the right people like that are that are as passionate of you like-minded people that positivity and that energy is infectious and that's like the environment that we' create within Founders that's pretty incredible um so so the last thing that I want to talk about is specifically you're known as the millennial Mentor what what is the unique struggle that you think Millennials are going through that um they need help with I think um the one of the things that I see that I've just recently been really talking about is the their perception like we live in this day and age where like social media is so strong right you know it could do so many great things connect but like really digging into like what why you know why are you here like what do you like what do you want to give to the world you know and are you really discovering that within yourself because there's so much consumption happening on a daily basis because of social media and everything you can get so caught up on like living a script of what you think you should be doing rather than digging down inside yourself and shutting off all the noise and like figuring out like what is it that you you know what is it that you really want to do and what is it that you want to give to the world and I think that Millennials right now a lot of them you know haven't figured out who they really are and like because of and and and then and then their fear they fear they fear how people are going to judge them and what they look like and all that stuff instead of like really figuring out who they really are not trying to be something that they're not and and then starting living a true authentic life and putting that out you know um what does that process of self-discovery look like how do you find out who you are I think it's um for me it was a lot changing my environment it was it it was breaking the pattern of like what I was doing on a day-to-day basis look changing my habits changing my patterns starting to go and travel see new cultures shut off the you know the phone the noise and all that stuff I started meditating I started really thinking things through I started reading more I started um and and my faith I started praying more um and that that alone time I started writing I'm a writer um so I love to write I think that's one of the best things that you can do too believe it or not is just you know get your thoughts on paper make them real and just write you don't need to know what you're going to write just write your thoughts spend that time to yourself you know um stop looking for so many opinions and I think it takes you know you you have to you have to at a point really um you have to really do that for me that's what I that's what I do no for sure yeah all right so before I ask my final question where can these guys find your amazing content oh well I I mean I shout out to the G Squad that's out here we we we that's like the common denominator for me throughout my entire career has been content I just love obviously sharing on a daily basis um my number one platform right now is Instagram um and YouTube I have that show leaders create leaders on YouTube Tom is in season 3 it's about to be lit our episode was unbelievable that just day when you came to norc you shared with the founders community so many everybody was like that was the best speech that we've heard yet at Founders and um and in our episode it went deep I caught I caught you on a couple questions you've never been asked before which was cool brought back some memories so the show leaders create leaders I would love to see you guys on YouTube it's under Gerard Adams TV season 3 will be launching in July um and then Founders we're going to be opening up our online community come July as well so I'm excited that's exciting can you do you have details on that like that could be amazing yeah I'm really looking forward to it you going to make your courses available and stuff yeah so a lot of live so people can live stream be able to get a lot of the live you know live instructors I'll be be doing aot of more live mentorship um a vault I have so much content from 14 years of like my mentors and I have my team just been been editing it for over a year now who yeah so it's like literally going to be like Netflix for entrepreneurs like rose like just like Netflix and just all these different categories of what we typically teach all our members we would invite them to our workshops and then we're going to start doing different experiences when we go on tour where it'll be like 3-day weekends and really try to create create some really cool travel experiences as well so we want all our members to be a part of all of that nice did you give your Instagram handle oh Gerard Adams there you go follow the man iware iware all right final question what is the impact you want to have on the world basically does it matter where you come from you know you know what your background is um it that at the end of the day it it's it's that truly possible when you're able to truly find who you are yourself your authentic self your why your purpose you know and truly believe in yourself and you know at the end of the day anything is truly possible and um for me the impact that I want to leave in the legacy is you know through changing the face of Education you know through the principles of Entrepreneurship and and you know little little by little every day we're hoping that we can just be able to give hope give this the right skills strategies mindset uh for the people that felt that they never had the resources never believed that in themselves and hopefully be able to have them bring to the world um what they've always dreamt of I love that J thank you so much for coming on the show brother that was amazing guys all right I have seen the magic firsthand you are going to want to look into Founders and oh dear God if you're anywhere near New York New Jersey you have to see this for yourself to believe it if I hadn't been there I don't know that I would have really understood how much this is the future of the way entrepreneurs are going to learn it is ultra Hands-On he attracts some of the most amazing people that have been through there like in this little room but there's so much energy and juice and he is so giving like understand for a second this is crazy people work they fight they build businesses they do all of that for the exit that's literally what most entrepreneurs think about all they care about is the exit once you get the exit it's the exit that's when you leave you retire you go somewhere nice where there's no mosquitoes to quote my boy Jay-Z like that is what people are trying to do and so to be there on the precipice in Miami Beach where he would have saved millions of dollars just by moving to Miami Beach signing on that condo in the sky and never worrying about all the people that come after him and just go do it again when he's ready take his time that could have been his life but it wasn't he looked Inward and he found a totally different answer something that compelled him that why that thing that drove him to really do something and if you want to know when I look at him do I see somebody who will do whatever the [ __ ] it takes yes I do and he didn't go into some of the Amazing Ideas and I don't know if he just doesn't want to go into them so I won't rat him out but he has some really cool ideas and I'll just say this he built an art gallery in the middle of of the ghetto I just got the chills with some really amazing art done by local artists it is phenomenal these are people that never would have had a chance if it wasn't for this man it is one of the most incredible ideas it's what I call mining for astronauts right now the next great mind the next great thinker the next person to do something great truly to become an astronaut is in the inner city somewhere and they don't believe in themselves because nobody has ever believed in them but to be able to give entrepreneurs a platform a way to give back to to find their why and to do something amazing while building business opportunities along the way I think is one of the most important and greatest entrepreneurial Endeavors anyone is undertaking right now and I believe you're the man to do it so guys check him out Gerard Adams you won't be sorry I promise if you haven't already be sure to subscribe and until next time my friends be legendary take care Gerard thank you bu thank you e