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uUc0Yil-6gs • Bryan Johnson on How to Become Aware of Your Blind Spots | Impact Theory
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Kind: captions Language: en I think as a species I think we're teenagers I think that the decisions we make in the next 20 years 20 30 years are going to have enduring consequences of the sort that previous decisions did not we need to figure out as a species what we do with ourselves we need to figure out how to co-evolved with AI we need to do all this I currently don't think as a society we have the literacy do that everybody welcome to impact Theory you're here my friends because you believe that human potential is nearly limitless but you know that having potential is not the same as actually doing something with it so our goal with this show and company is to introduce you to the people and ideas that will help you actually execute on your dreams all right today's guest is the modern American rags to riches story he started with nothing his dad battled with drug addiction in the family was so broke that his mother often had to make his clothes and yet despite that he would go on to amass nearly a billion dollars in wealth my question is how after spending two years in Ecuador as a Mormon missionary and seeing just how hard life could get he returned home with a fresh perspective and a commitment to spending the rest of his life improving the lives of others to that end he started his first company and paid his own way through college that early success however was quickly met with some crushing failures and the harder he worked on his businesses the deeper he seemed to fall into depression a depression that would threaten to take his life nearly every day for an entire decade always willing to do the hard things however he persevered and in 2007 believing that he saw a way to disrupt the multi-billion dollar payment processing industry he founded Braintree as a solo founder and with only the money he could save himself he grew Braintree into a beast that was twice named to the Inc 500 list of the fastest growing companies in America and was ultimately sold to PayPal for 800 million dollars giving him the resources he needed to make good and his promise to build a better future armed of the belief that would the right tools of creation we can author any world we want he has thrown himself into solving the grandest challenges that we face as a species he's pledged two hundred million dollars of his own money to building the tools required to expand our cognitive capabilities through his company kernel and through his investment house OS fund he is set out to radically extend human life by backing the scientists and inventors that aimed to benefit all of humanity by rewriting the very operating system of life so please help me in welcoming the man who was climbed Mount Kilimanjaro climbed out of depression become a pilot started a family and written a children's book all while building some of the most audacious companies in the world Brian Johnson it is so cool to have you here you were one of the people that was like on our fantasy list because of your involvement in XPrize and the connection to Peter I was very aware of what you were working on and thought it would be amazing to get you on here essentially to ask one question how do you think how did you go from where you started to where you are now it's it's a pretty incredible bridge to cross I guess the first time I really thought about how to think about life was when I was 21 when I returned from doing a mission in Ecuador and it occurred to me I was making very big decisions on what to study in school what kind of job to get how did in my life because once you set on that trajectory it's harder to change and so there was one question that mattered to me among all which was how could I create the most value of the species it was the only question that I cared about I didn't care about making money I didn't care about retired at 65 was just that single question and that led me on the path that I went on but it wasn't obvious initially to me so what I did is I looked around in the world to try to evaluate what I could find so I can see you could go to Africa and help people who were in poverty or you could I'll work at the United Nations you know Council with the students at school but I'd really didn't find anything that spoke to me that was a good fit and so I thought I'll become an entrepreneur I'll make a whole bunch of money by the age of 30 I mean in my mind it was like of course I'll do that it just didn't kirtaniyah wouldn't be possible but it happened I got lucky and I got to the point where I could then ask the question what do I do and it's been a markable experience and I feel tremendously grateful to be in the position I'm in and hopefully something useful turns out from it so you've talked a lot about assumption stacks well first what is an assumption stack and then what was your assumption stack pre Ecuador and post I think an assumption that could be revealed for example if somebody inquires of advice and they say please tell me give me advice about your life and I think of those situations the best advice to is to not give advice because in doing so you conveyed to another person everything you've learned in your entire life and you also include your biases your blind spots things that are particular to you and so you actually do someone a disservice I think in many ways by giving them advice because you almost bury them in your information and they accept those assumptions which gives them less a lot less of an opportunity to come up with something novel and unique in their own regard and so I think in trying to improve how I think over the years every time I make a given I make a given judgment or I make an it I understand I realize I'm thinking about a given thing I'll ask myself why did I arrive at that particular conclusion and what's behind it and you can usually grow back why why I like four or five times and then for some example I think the best story about this is I told this a lot of Braintree is you have five monkeys in the room and so there's a basket of bananas at this ladder and when a monkey tries to go up the ladder to get the bananas they're all sprayed with cold water and so the monkeys soon learn if they go up the ladder to get the bananas they'll go straight of cold water if they stop the behavior so they pull out one monkey put a new monkey and then new monkeys okay bananas so it runs up it gets frayed and so soon you have this scenario where a new monkeys put in and when it tries to run the ladder all the monkeys grab the monkey before it goes up to pull it so they don't get sprayed a cool but cold water but soon none of the monkeys have been have actually been sprayed to cold water to learn the behavior is if a monkey goes up grab it before it goes up so a new monkey comes in and they say o wise one ye who have been here for years tell me why do you not go to the basket and that one monkey with that question can make the entire assumption stack of that monkey colony collapse by asking a single question and so many give things like that are true in life if you just ask these questions you can just collapse entire systems what are some questions like that the us coming back from Ecuador if you could develop do one thing in your entire life and to create the most value for the human race what would you do that's a pretty powerful question it's interesting so you and I were talking before the camera started rolling in in some ways we're pointing at the same thing and coming at it from very different angles I would say but with some of the same assumptions about belief system belief system matters the example do you give the monkeys is is so incredible and I think really gets at that issue I believe that all of the beliefs that we have that govern our world the way that we look at it and how we proceed are malleable changeable is that a thesis that you share as well it is latter person so I'm trying to imagine a kid growing up somewhat impoverished did that give you a scarcity mindset were you thinking like Oh making money is hard and then what was it about that experience that was so transformative that it it shakes everything I was taught to be a responsible child a responsible person in society and so for example when my parents split my mom was a single mother with five kids we didn't have money so you mentioned she made clothes for me go to school and when I was at school I figured out that I could buy a day-old croissant for ten cents if a post lunch and so what I'd do I made a deal to the lunch lady where I would clean the tables and pay ten cents and get this croissant and then I didn't have to cash my mom's check that she'd written for twenty-five dollars for a monthly fee to say for the 25 dollars a month so I didn't for a month or two my mom finally found out and I think she was partly embarrassed like you my child was not eating lunch at school and everyone think there's something wrong with the family but to me that just made sense that it was my that's the way I could contribute to my family has saved my mom twenty-five dollars a month in my in my lunch via school and I guess I've always felt that sense of responsibility which my my parents did a nice job of teaching that some of the things you're doing with your kids I sound really abnormal hey let's start with that but also just really incredibly you said that you've started companies with your kids yeah and what I'm trying to to get at is don't give advice right because you're passing on your blind spots you're some writing stacks and all of that and that becomes limiting in its own way like even if you're trying to be as expansive as possible you are passing on those limitations and basically at this point in my life I essentially give advice for a living so it's really interesting to look at this from the potential downside and the problems and I'm always looking for okay how do we improve this to really impact people especially the people I care most about are people that are antagonistic to change yeah so yeah what is it about like starting a business with your kids or writing the book with your kids like is that your way of making them think through their own problems and the ATV example might hint at something yeah that's true that's a good example I wanted them to learn how to drive an ATV and we were up in the canyon and I gave them 30 seconds of instructions and here's the brakes like the front brake the back brake here's how you accelerate here are a few things you may not want to do for example if you get on a hill and it's too steep you may roll that's not desirable I'll put you in trouble so a few general guidelines but it was 30 seconds of instruction and I said go I go figure out how to drive an ATV and then when you return I want you to tell me your thought processes how did you assess risk what did you do and win how did you solve problems when they encountered so they came back and they did that they walked me through three minutes and their thought process and the brothers were messing with each other I know you'd like draw up the hill faster than you almost ran into that tree and like they but I actually saw their thought process of how they actually deconstructed their experience and how they could gain knowledge from it and to me that was satisfactory is that they felt accountable to me to deconstruct how they thought as an exercise that has utility in itself and I didn't say anything to them about their lessons they just simply know that that is their opportunity to learn how to think it's interesting so I think a lot about the future and how rapidly it's going to come and so we're despite what I think we look like to the outside world right now we view ourselves as a creative so we make content we're actually making a comic book right now that centers around what happens if AI comes faster than we think and there's this rush of joblessness and there's an adverse reaction to that you know how do we think through those problems and so thinking about your concept of being able to author the world that we want knowing that the future is coming at us really fast you'll even likened it to like a stage five hurricane or something that's gonna really hit us hard how do you think about that is that something that you think a lot about I know that you're you're really looking towards what new economies are going to look like and things so how do you use what you're talking about now of experience experience being our most profound teacher so that we don't get the assumptions from the previous set of monkeys but with a world that's coming so fast we can't experience it that's right I would say that as a society we we acknowledge literacy is a high value thing we to learn to be able to collectively read and write empowers everybody because we can communicate ideas have debates share knowledge there's another form of literacy I don't think we have and that is future literacy and so talking about your mental models and frameworks future literacy is a mental model and it's a way in which we try to understand the future and it packed in that is knowing that when we think about the future we are crushed by our biases we have this poster in the wall at work which is 188 categorized biases like all the things your brain does that makes it run so well I need some examples I mean so for example like confirmation bias is one that people know or familiarity bias and there of all sorts we collapse information based upon our priorities or how we're primed we just understanding how cognitively impaired we are as humans is a form of enlightenment and even when you explain to somebody how these biases work my experience have been the first thing they say is I know I know so many people like that they're oblivious to the fact that they have these impairments and then if you start deconstructing them in their thought processes you actually open up this window and they get accept it and say wow I could actually not see the world the way it really is I maybe have these blind spots maybe I've got these that's I think when enlightenment opens up any Socrates of course famously said like I'm the most wise person in the world because I acknowledge I know nothing it's a different way of saying that and I forget where we were on this question but I think the that the first thing is this humility to achieve this higher level of enlightenment to understand while we are top of the food chain right now and while we are impressive the species it could be the case that we are an extremely primitive primitive form of intelligence and that we would look back upon ourselves in twenty years from now and be aghast and saying how did we deal with the world unbelievable that that's that's a bias we just can't extend our thinking beyond heart and the heart what we're familiar with a couple things on that so one really intriguing story that you told about your girlfriend who was composing music using AI and you said a human musician will never surprise for the way that an AI can what do you mean by that when you and I had this conversation we we both come from a similar background where we grew up in the United States like were both white we both have there's there's similar things that we share in common therefore our conversation has a certain bound of surprise I'm it's unlikely I'm going to say something that can just like shock you out of your chair because you're pretty familiar with with my rough structure of intelligence but an artificial intelligence is an entirely foreign form of intelligence and while we try to build our values and our intelligence into that thing it's not necessary if you just let it run that the output is going to be what we expect and so what is interesting is the true value of AI is not that it is a it is a task rabbit the value of AI it is an ACO evolutionary partner that is a different form of intelligence that when we start Kolia völva ng with it it's going to radically change our intelligence and that's what I think most people miss in this conversation is the whole AI competition thing is wrong anyways it 2017 was a year of Chicken Little like we're all so scared about AI nut ran away whether we like it or not ai is essential to our survival we cannot manage the complexity role without it number one number two is going back to our biases and then the challenge we have is our intelligence if humanity were a stock I would short it I do not think our cognitive abilities are equal to the challenges we face and only through this co-evolutionary approach where we can actually amplify our intelligence do we have a shot and so going back to my girlfriend's the creation of music when she's playing with this AI going back and forth in this co-evolutionary process it can give her beats that she would never get from another human because it's combined all kinds of things that are foreign to us and so that beauty in that co-creative process but we have to acknowledge that I get through the whole different topic but we have to acknowledge the rate in which arrow artificial intelligence is improving and no matter what someone believes whether they think it's an exponential curve a punctuated equilibrium where you know stepping or whether it's like straight up it's up and to the right and if you look at Native human ability not we have better tools we are flatlined so you have one like going up and the others like this and so it doesn't require a ton of analysis to say there may be something about I'm looking to right here it's really interesting dude so one you're one of the few people that are talking about the very notion of human intelligence you're certainly the only person that I've come across that's talking about the that I would short humanity if it were a stock which I love I think that's really fascinating and the comic book that we're working on is about a guy that is reanimated so he's cryogenically frozen long story but he's reanimated in the only way they can do that is by replacing the parts of his brain that were destroyed to cancer with a chip and so he has to like am I still human like what does it mean but now he's augmenta Baldauf grade his intelligence and what does that mean what are the effects of that and so it's really interesting to me when you marry the concept that you have future illiteracy is terrifying for one reason it is an absolute must and we don't have the ability to really accurately predict a future right and so looking at where you're putting your money into especially Colonel it's it's pretty fascinating that on two levels one that you as a person are willing to allow yourself to face something so difficult to say I'm going to take this challenge on and then to the if you're right you're able to do this that that notion of coevolution so bringing all of that together what does our future literacy look like what are the steps that you're trying to take at Colonel that are going to help us get to a positive future if I could I'd like to ask you a question sure if as humans we love to make plans we did a plan to do this together we have plans for social events we have plans to have kids in to retire like we plan our entire lives out as a species what is our plan yes so what are the plans you've heard about that you like going to Mars okay I think that and that value is that's pretty cool that value and monetary value why is that a compelling plan for the species what I find interesting about it is the spirit of adventure I'm so inspired by people that look at Grand Challenges that it inspires me to dream bigger to push harder but it it is that it is inspiration more than I think a necessity now other people will tell you it's important that we become a multiplanetary species so that something that wipes us out here can't wipe us out there I don't put a lot of stock in that but I get the point okay let's say we succeed we put some people on Mars we we knock it on the park and we get a million people on Mars what else like what's are their plans after the the seven point or I guess eight billion of us by that point of us here what's our plan beyond what you're doing not a lot well extending human life and things like that but yeah it's not exactly clear so I guess the plans I hear that Marge is one that we have that contemplation to is minimum basic income where it's like you we wave the white flag and you see like yeah we just can't cope anymore we need money and then you have the singlet Aryans were like we're just gonna merge with AI in like roughly 20 30 years and it's gonna be awesome but how we get there we have no idea I don't hear practical plans on how we solve the problems in front of us other than we just keep on grinding away two things we're doing and have these debates that's what concerns me and that's why I come back in future literacy is I'm not suggesting I have the answers but what I am suggesting is that if we could develop future literacy as a mental model to think about it we may do things differently we may be more introspective and we may be able to start contemplating successive steps in advance so I know that you've recently written an article about this which I've had the good fortune of reading and one of the things that I was most struck by is you talking and for people to understand this you're gonna have to lay out exactly why privacy matters so much and that we can actually assign it a financial value which I had never once thought of yeah and that you believe that privacy should be a fundamental human right so how does privacy have a monetary value and and you're talking like serious legislation like this actually needs to happen why is that so important the the privacy debate that most people are familiar with is we do things online and with our phones and companies capture that information and people say I hate that because they invade my privacy it makes me feel uncomfortable some people are like I don't care because I get better services because I do it and people like I have nothing to hide that's like roughly where we've hovered but I think it's actually the wrong debate and this is the reason why is the sci-fi author Frederik Pohl has said that it's the sci-fi authors job to not identify the automobile is to predict the traffic jam so where is the traffic jam in the continuation of our existing privacy practices and there's a few one is human value like we the reason why we you and I have value it for three things one is our data that's everything about us that's the coffee we drink and what we like it with almond or soy or cow milk it's where we drive is our driving data it's how we metabolize things it's what we think it's how we solve problems its worry it's everything about us is data number two is the predictive value of that data so that's what Facebook and Google build the business is on is they acquire data from you and they build models to then create predictive models of you and advertisers are like hey I'm an advertising I know what you want and so they create this loop where you are giving data and they're giving you nudges and you're doing the nudge and you're basically living in their algorithm matrix-style a second and the third is our cognitive abilities and the marketplace for that would be my employer so if I agree to be paid fifty thousand dollars a year that employer values my entire cognitive skill set at $50,000 a year that includes my physical what I can do physically mentally and all the above and the problem is that's our economic value as a human we are giving most of that away for free so you would give it to Facebook we give it to Google we give it to everyone around us and so if you take the natural progression where what they're doing it today so a Facebook can make if the if the digital advertisers make $250 a year on a per person to advertise that's peanuts what they really want to do oh I get the highest potential is to create a digital avatar of you so now imagine in if we take this privacy out I have a neural interface so I think about the socks of course I'm building their owner faces and now imagine they can see every thought you have they can see how you solve problems they have they see your total saw sequence they know what you know how you know when you think of how you think it and they build it into their model it wouldn't take it's not a big leap to imagine they take your data they build a predictive algorithm and they build an avatar of you that is as good as being you as you are and then in 30 minutes they're gonna make a better version of you now with this model we have in the US now what they really want is your salary so right now they make a couple bucks per user but if you're paid $50,000 a year and they create a digital version of you that can do your job there's nothing stopping them and building these avatars putting them in virtual worlds and augmented worlds selling them out as tasks rabbits that's the value of mining the data building intelligence all right so let's get really specific on this so are you saying so and let me back up a little bit so your company Colonel right now today this is one of the notes I took this technology is here this is not a future tech you did something with a pocket he had Parkinson's right deep brain stimulation had Parkinson's you have him turn odds off and seizures so had him turn it on and off and you see him lose control and he like can hardly talk and then he gains control again just by flipping the switch on and off so deep brain stimulation is here it's real you guys are doing it are you saying that we will act actively be able to build a whole brain AI based on the firing patterns of that particular mind and so what I'm saying is right now if a company like Facebook demonstrated their predictive algorithms about you about everything you've acquired about you we already they've already show cases they've showed off and they said we know you better than your significant other knows you right they've said that and so they've already built a predictive model of you now if they acquire more data for example your neural interface and they can see your thoughts it's only a matter of time before they can actually replicate you that's where privacy takes that's why human by privacy needs to be a human right because privacy is the right to own your own value these ideas are like brand I'm just working on them for the past couple weeks so they're still not as tight as I'd like them to be but I'll try to make this concise three other ideas one is the continuation of our current privacy standards could lead to the most extreme forms of inequality we've ever imagined and the reason why is because once you get someone's a billow and you get creative break the value that person no longer has value in society but the algorithm people would do build enormous value so you basically have two casts of people you have people who can pay for privacy they're protected and you have people who are the predictable who live in the matrix style algorithms who are nudged to wherever they want to go and so we think economic inequalities are we just today privacy inequality is are worse in dehumanizing people in the instability created society and the abuse that it creates for the potential number two is the value of data increases exponentially over time so imagine you had a voice recording from somebody from 1988 and you listened to voice recording just three minutes from that recording you could probably determine the person's age their gender rough approximation of their education etc right just rough approximation so you take that same data set and you apply it to an algorithm develop today not only could it do these things those orders of magnitude more accuracy but it could also predict your mental health well how so that's so that's where it's headed now you you can listen to a voice record like these these algorithms were ran against Reagan's speeches they could detect his mental illness two years before they diagnosed it and so that's the same data center so Reagan spoke then they that's the same data set now if you take that same data set and apply better algorithms tomorrow then what's what can they break then can they tell if you were lying can they dissect your personality into a hundred and sixteen different classifiers and so the point is that while people may think this is like really far in the future there's already enough data out there on you already through your videos and your writing that someone could probably create an extremely good avatar of you on how you think how you talk how you process information it's already happening it's already there and so that's why this is urgent that privates becoming human right cuz you have to own your own value otherwise someone else is gonna do your job yeah I mean when all the like oh the Russian bots are influencing people and all that first sort of happened I literally know what are they even talking about but now getting a sense of that they act like real humans they respond like creating the right tweets that you once you're in a digital world you can't tell exactly that's what's really freaky and like as somebody who creates content and engages with my community I think about that sometimes like what percentage of these are real people and what percentage like how often am I talking to a bot it's so interesting have you read Matt Ridley is the rational optimist I know other I have think I've read it you'll disagree with it fundamentally because that basically the argument that you laid out is exactly his argument which is hey we've solved things in the past you can't look at you know whatever 200,000 years of human evolution and always getting better always brighter future and say oh but tomorrow is going to be different whereas you guys take the exact reverse approach the thing that I find interesting in and what I really want to go hard on now is it takes a really particular kind of person thinking in a really particular kind of way to make Moore's Law happen and I'll explain what I mean so Moore's law has been technology doubles and power and halves in price every 18 months roughly and it's been happening for whatever 58 years so what no one ever talks about in that they make it sound like it just happens like oh if we walked away and everyone went to Mars that Moore's law it's like going back on earth which of course it wouldn't it's Moore's law says more about human determination than it says about just some sort of natural law like humans decide they're gonna push that hard and it just happens to take roughly that long the moment human stopped pushing that hard then it's gonna break down so to me you're the reason Matt Ridley is right and I think that you are going to solve these problems it's gonna be hard as hell and if you weren't absolutely convinced that it was all gonna go to hell in a handbasket unless you stepped in it really would go tell in a handbasket but because there's something in the human psyche where there are some people and what I'm hoping you can give us is to take what it is that makes you step up to that problem go this is my problem to solve and make it an infectious idea that will infect the thinking of the people watching the show because the more people that go no one else is going to solve this this is my problem yeah that's when it gets interesting so how on earth did you like literally think for a second I'm gonna show you what you look like from the outside you were an underprivileged kid growing up in nowhere USA you had no earthly right to become a successful entrepreneur you certainly had no right to be the kid that when the guy approached you to sell the phone service went after two days actually I'm gonna get people to sell this for me if this guy can get me to do it for him why can I get people to do it for me then you take 48 hours go start your own company and actually get people to do it never having done anything like that in the past so but you do all of those things and you do all of those things because you're you understand one one fundamental principle which you've already given to dear viewer which is assumption stacks ask the question why until they all fall away and you realize you can do what you want to do but how do we get more people to pick up the Assumption stack falls how do we get them to pick up start their own company or whatever it doesn't need to be that but that they take ownership of these big problems hmm like how are you gonna do with your kids I explained these ideas to my kids and they get them before I finish the sentence that's astonishing they do and I spoke to my my son's high school last week and walked through all my roughly the same things we're talking about now about the future and I guess two things happened one is the number of comments I got from the group of like wait what like that exists in the world and there are people who think like that and these are ideas that can be considered it I've received I don't know 25 emails and people are like I've changed the way I think about the world based upon this conversation and then number two is that the system they're in for schooling them is not even close to being equipped to prepare them for the future it's there's such a massive disconnect between how we prepare people for the future on what they actually do and so when people are saying what do I do with my life like I'm not surprised that they're on the end of this system that they've learned how to think that way and it's a very big problem I guess I I'm sufficiently self-aware to realize that I may seem out there to a lot of people I mean or maybe I should say it stronger like I am out there and people make that observation about me and I look at the world and I think the world is insane I oftentimes feel like I don't understand why they think the way they think and to me the only thing that matters is the differentiation between finite games and infinite games this is an idea by James cars' where a finite game is a game where you have a beginning and an ending so basketball right and the only purpose of that game is to win so you do whatever you have to do to score more points to be winner an infinite game is a game where all you care about is to keep on playing we don't care who wins it just want to keep on playing the game and to me when you ask yourself a question what do I do in life the only output that's sensible to me is anything that contributes to infinite games I love life I love playing the game of life I don't want that to stop so if I see something that's going to potentially stop my gameplay I identified like hey that thing needs to be solved I don't know how we could be oriented any other way what's interesting is you went through a decade of depression where you were oriented an entirely different way how did you find your way out of that I was 24 I remember the day my brain broke I remember the day I start a depression and I would lay in my bed and just want to die they just I didn't want to exist I wanted an anesthesiologist to come and give me a shot it's like my soul adjust and at the time I was in a belief system where there was an afterlife and so that wasn't possible you couldn't get you couldn't be gone you were around forever no matter what you did and in fact if you took your life you would you're not behaving in a way that this belief system and you know rewards you and so I was trapped in existence and it was the worst feeling the entire world so I had no out but not only that I had kids if I had you know like I felt responsible for being a father and so I was building brain tree and you know I had challenges at home with my significant other and I had kids who are sleeping I was like myself working 24/7 having companies break and like all the pressure and it just drove me into the ground to a point I just I was just delirious I mean I was I was broke and so I climbed Mount Kilimanjaro at the tail end of the situation and I got sick I got a stomach virus and like three or four days in and I had the virus for a couple days plus I was out I was sick with altitude sickness and I just felt terrible like the worst I've ever felt and we got to Basecamp and there were 15,000 something and I had to make a decision where he's gonna climb to the top the next morning and I thought let's do it like I'm not gonna back down from this and so I did it and the four hours the summit changed my life where the mountain became my problem and it became a presentation of my life and I started this in two mmm my favorite artist and um his um his defiance against uh problems anyways I made at the top and I just put down cried out and it was like it was the mountain was my depression it was my marriage it was my belief system and um I went home and I was changed I sold I I sold my company shortly after Braintree I got a divorce I left my religion and I was back at my 21 year old age and I said Who am I like what how do i rewrite myself from scratch what I care about what matters what exists what's true what's not true all how did you rebuild yourself like what is that process of answering those questions everything I'm doing now is the answer so the Mormonism you know it it still is the best story I've ever heard a motel it's like if you obey these rules you get an unbelievably awesome afterlife it's just like anything you suppose you could ever imagine and more in fact we can't even imagine it's so awesome is we're told and all you have to do is obey the rules like super clean I get that and when I was taken away from me it's like well okay so if there's not an afterlife where is there not to life I don't know what do I do and that's why infinite games is the only thing that makes sense to me is I grew up with this idea that I could continue to play games forever I want to play games forever how do you define play right now this is fun it's meaningful it that guy fill it deeply right you're enjoyable to talk to being on set with your team it's fun this is play you know when I was researching you and you kept bringing that notion up of playing games of finding something that you enjoy and I just thought that's like that's my mission in life quite frankly is to help people find that thing that gives them more energy than it takes that they can enjoy it and I always tell people that I live in the friction between I really want to live forever and thanks to people like you I actually think I've got a shot but I know I could have an aneurysm right now in the middle of this episode I could be diagnosed with cancer tomorrow like I fully understand the realities that I may not but I don't understand when you say that you think people are crazy when I hear people say it like they actively want to die at some point I literally sounds crazy to me I don't understand and that just tells me that you don't enjoy your today but why their answer would be to die instead of change their today I will never it's it it reveals human cognition the idea that if someone says they want to be immortal or they want to live forever I don't say that specifically it'll say that because it triggers people I want to play and so the frame I work with is if you say to somebody do you want to live forever it basically crushes the human mind if you were like no I mean I would get bored because all they can do is imagine the future like it is today and one I think that's totally false I think that we are the most primitive form of intelligence we can imagine and that the moment we begin opening up our cognitive expanse there's an existence that if we knew we could get to we would do anything in the entire world to get to so that's one number two is I don't have to think about like a thousand years now all I can think about is I care about being around tomorrow because I got stuff to do and I'm excited about it and I have great relationships and I have fun things planned for the weekend that's all it is and so what point in time are you gonna say if someone says I don't live forever it's like okay well do you wanna live tomorrow well yeah I got stuff to do what about next Monday yeah what about in 20 years yeah like if you March if you walk it out like if you go day by day at what point in time is something to be like I'm good if their health is good and they feel and they're you know they're taken care of in life at one point in time to get the tonight o'clock at night you're like all right man let's sign off I'm good I think it goes back to to what that moment is I think it goes back to a deeper underlying issue of something that you've talked more you've used the right words to reach my soul I will say and that is that with the right tools and we're living through the moment where these are really real we can author any world we want I know that you have painted at your company Harry Potter and Gandalf and the wizard with their wands to the sky and it just says dream yeah and tell us about that and what is world creation and what does all that means I did that for my children there were there images that they identify but the point is the authors of those two epic stories Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter started with a blank slate and they created entire worlds that we inhabited yeah my thinking is people that think there's some point in the future where they want to tap out they don't believe they can author their own life they don't believe that they can create anything they don't hit the problem that you it was just looking at so to give people context you held those with 12 dinners ever a year or two years and had the brightest minds you could think of come in and and identify like what the biggest problems were that that we face and none of them said the brain yeah that's right and that like that moment for you was a moment of action it was a moment of okay well if no one is thinking about it and I know it to be the right answer then I have to do it most people don't even if they had the realization that nobody's looking at the problems that I really believe need to be solved they feel powerless yeah is there anything so when you go your kids are in public school right yeah which I found very surprising but so your kids are in public school you go and counter them the breadth of parenting going on behind the scenes I'm sure is diverse to say the least so when you see the ones that struggle with a limiting belief system that their parents have handed to you I remember growing up and while my parents didn't say this a lot of my friends parents said it life's a [ __ ] and you know every day is just another day or life's of [ __ ] sandwich and every day is another bite and that you just heard that over and over and over and I thought that was so funny and I remember thinking wow that's a really dumb thing to like repeat and repeat and repeat so do you have a way to help kids that are in a mentality like that get out I think that the best thing is just to ask them questions help them discover they think that way for a certain reason let's go back to the the a TV thing what do you do you think that people parents especially think you're a little bit crazy to let your kids and like how do you judge like so your question to them was what was your thinking how do you judge you know risk and reward how are you judging that as a parent who I'm sure would be beyond crestfallen if your kid got hurt yeah so did my children have their friends over the house and we regularly do a lot of things and I'm always apprehensive because I don't know what their parents think about the situation but the basically the normal boundaries we have in society bore me to death and if I'm stuck in that system I just can't deal with it because I find joy everywhere not in a box and that's the same with my children and the example I think about is my daughter was planning a park and there's that there merry-go-round is going around this big metal thing and she was gonna run up to it and grab one of these things and it's very obvious if she grabs it he's gonna like slam her into the ground because the forest far exceeds her weight and she was with another child and they both marched forward and I saw it happening I thought this is great she's gonna learn a really important lesson about moving objects and there was a mom adjacent to me and her child ran there and she ran and grabbed her child and pulled her away and my daughter went up and start like touching the things and it's filling it out I was really impressed that you you got it like you understand how dye can roll your way in to capture a moment of motion and that mother probably thought I was extremely responsible which maybe I was but to me that seemed sensible that she had the opportunity to learn that lesson I know that's a you know that lesson we learned it somehow and it's probably likely someone told us we probably experienced it so I guess we're going back to high school kids aware that we the other people in life is just asking them questions where you at why are you there what's supporting that that assumption stack and we're work we go if we break it all apart how far will you let your kids deviate from the norm of go to high school get good grades graduate go to college how far we let them deviate before you nudge them back in none they can do whatever they want I've told them so many times that the way in which they spend their time at school is not how I would do it if I was running the system and that they have options in life so I don't want them to be to think that the systems are delivered as a foregone conclusion and the rules are changing extremely fast and so whatever they want to do I'm just very supportive people charting their own path and why send them to public school that's obviously a choice you could certainly send them to private and build your own University if you wanted to is there something to gain and having to figure that out in a potentially suboptimal system they've got to make their own way in life I don't give them a handout that's interesting do you plan to let them inherit your wealth so I I've gone through a couple evolutions on evolutions on this thought process when I was building Braintree I get credit trust for them and I put some stock in there and it became worth quite a bit so they do have some money in a trust and they know that but they also know that we have an agreement on how they deal with money and resources and so they will like we went out shopping and my son this like two Saturdays ago and he looked at her shirt he said dad I really want this shirt but I think the price points a bit too high and I think if I got this I would be spoiled so I'm not gonna do this so great let's go find something else and they understand that the moment they cross a threshold with me where they feel entitled or they can somehow do something else then it stops and they have self managed and of course like they have other kids stuff but we have a relationship we never fight they're never in trouble we get along remarkably well and we do have this open dialogue they know exactly how much money I have they know they've seen my bank accounts they know the investments they know the deals they know everything I so I'd chose a path of transparency and said like here's the game cares how I'm playing it now like you do your thing but I believe that they need to carve their own way their own life and if I can be useful to them and work with them and help them think through problems cool that I just don't think it's in their best interest for me to soften the blow in life all right before I ask my last question working these guys find you online I wish the answer was a neural interface [Laughter] coming soon yeah yeah I guess on the in and the neural interface I guess the question would be like what how would I communicate how to find my neural interface but yeah Twitter is my most public interface just at Brian Brian John Bryan underscore Johnson yeah with a why everybody with a while yeah awesome all right my last question what is the impact that you want to have in the world I think as a species I think we're teenagers I think that the decisions we make in the next 20 years 20 30 years are going to have enduring consequences of the sort that previous decisions did not we need to figure out as a species what we do with ourselves we need to figure out how to co-evolved with AI we need to figure out how the problems that could that it could threaten our extinction one extinct us we need to figure out how to avoid an anarchic society we need to figure out how to avoid it this topic society we need to do all this in a span of it's a couple decades and I currently don't think as a society we have the literacy to do that and so what I hope is that more people will sign up to become future literate in all its various forms and that we collectively acknowledge the importance of our time because I think if we don't we are going to be blindsided and it's gonna be painful and regretful if we lose our chance because we can build an existence that's remarkable beyond anything any of us could imagine I'm convinced of it and I hope that enough people will rally behind that in all their different forms and that we have sufficient momentum to do it so I hope I can be a part of that group all of that awesome fine thank you so much for being on the show guys if you take nothing else away from this interview I hope you will take the following because it is the single most profound thing you will ever find in the show it is the most interesting thing that I've ever found in any of the human beings that I ever meet and that is when you reach something that seems impossible that seems daunting but it seems important will you act and in the face of that regardless of where he started you guys know my obsession it does not matter where you start it only matters who you want to become and the price you're willing to pay to get there and this man has not only paid an extraordinary price not only gone on to do extraordinary things but with that he does not retire from the world and backtrack and go away he makes good on the promise that he said which is he's going to dedicate his life to helping improve the lives of others and looking at the grandest challenges that we face as a species and being willing to act in the face of that that to me is what this infinite game is all about are you willing to take action are you willing to be the author of your own life are you willing to realize that you can create the tools with which we can create the world that we want to build but you've got to be willing to face the hard things you've got to be willing to push through the depressions the hard times the failures all of that to get to the other side and in this precious few people that do that it is virtually nobody that does that at the scale that this man does it so I hope that you guys were as inspired as I was all right if you haven't already be sure to subscribe and until next time my friends be legendary take care [Applause] everybody thank you so much for watching and being a part of this community if you haven't already be sure to subscribe you're going to get weekly videos on building a growth mindset cultivating grit and unlocking your full potential