"You've Been Trained To Be Broke!" - NO BS Guide To Make Millions | Wallstreet Trapper
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Kind: captions Language: en in prison uh I had a fight with two of my homies in prison we fight for like four hours Chase back to back I'm just fighting one after another one like we just fighting um and I go to solitary confinement and at this time all these prisoners considered like one of the worst Parish prisons in the United States of America right and I go to the sale and I meet this white guy that was the turning point of my life I get myself with him and I'm frustrated like I'm kind of bust up um and he sees me and I guess he's in awe of the idea of so many black people are in this position he says something to me he says man y'all playing the wrong game and so in my mind like I'm fresh I'm like man what the [ __ ] are you talking about like we're like don't make me whip your ass in here right now like he's like no no he's like listen bro I don't mean no harm no disrespect but y'all like why so I guess he's like perplexed by this whole dynamic of all of these black men in here and I'm like man what are you talking about man like this this ain't no game like this it's real and so he says something he said that's the problem like y'all don't even know it's a game [ __ ] and so when he told me that I'm like like it's something about when you mad and you in the moment but like something when it makes sense it hits you like a ton of bricks so I'm like what he was like man listen man there's a game that's being played and you're playing a game that you can't win for a minute I just start thinking about the people who I knew that was in the streets everybody lost everybody suffered the same fate there was nobody in the street that I knew had 16 at one everybody I knew had either been to prison been shot got killed their father like everybody suffered the same fate so my rebuttal to him is this well if it's such a game you know the rules while you're here with me it's a good question right he says I'm in here 2.8 million dollars embezzlement I paid 800 000 restitution I kept two million have you ever seen 2 million I'm like man get the [ __ ] out of here you [ __ ] lying so one thing about prison and in jail you can show your paperwork like you can lie all you want but your paperwork tells me um so I said let me see your paperwork day so in in New Orleans I had a red band so a red band means attempt murder on robbery kidnapping call Jack and violent offense he has on a red and white band at the time the Red and White Band means you're in federal custody and it's crazy because in prisoner in jail like if you get a federal brand that's like a hierarchy like you know something that we don't know you next level right so um he showed me his paperwork and it's right damn black and white and immediately he got my attention because the red and white man makes me respect you a different level at 16 but then when I see it in your paperwork I had never seen 2.8 million dollars written down nowhere right so that changes my idea like damn so tell me how do I do what you do so how do I do that he was like nice sniping about that so he tells me these the first three things was he said listen man wealthy people do three things man they stop trading time for money they make their money work for them and they give as much value to people as they can I want to stop you there for a second yeah I know where you're going with this we're going to go there but one thing I love about your [ __ ] story dude you don't say one thing that white people do is no one thing that wealthy people getting people to see that to me that's the game is recognizing that this isn't it doesn't break along uh racial lines the way people think it does and my time working in the inner city showed me this is not about that but this is about class for sure and getting people to understand that they can move between classes Ah that's the [ __ ] game sorry I just had to say that's so important there is a shift but and there's the exposure part so like just coming up in the streets you only see the game from the lowest level and you look at everybody else in part admiration and part like jealousy because you see it and you're like damn I'll never get there right and so the only way that I think I can get that is through Sports a hustling that's it that's the only a rap and those are the only three options that you have and so you you make a decision on which way you want to go right and so you look at it from like damn and so me I'm at the time like when I came rap damn [ __ ] when I can't play sports so hustling is what I got you limit yourself and nobody comes along and teaches you anything different so giving us three things again the wealthy people so you say wealthy people stop trading time for money they start making their money work for them and they give value to as much value to people as they can the caveat I mean you know we got a little deeper into that he said the reason why you give people so much value is because if you give them so much value they'll never leave you they'll always be there for you and you will never need for anything as long as you give welcome value to people and so I learned that as I got older that part really didn't make sense to me at the time but the money working for you part and I was like what the how do you make your money work for you again all I know is how to go get money that's all I know so later on in that he says wealthy people do three things so this may be in a Cell for about 45 days so all of his conversations now that you said it's never was black or white every conversation with him about money and transition it was always wealthy people do it was always it wasn't white people do it wasn't black people it was always wealthy people who do this right wealthy people do this and I was like damn and now that you said that this now makes sense to me again so he says wealthy people first they get into stocks then they start a business and then they get real estate so if when people ask me how do I get into stocks is because I follow that rule or like first let me if you say real estate business I would have did I'd have been the real estate but he said stocks first and I was like damn and so I just my my rest of my time in prison I wanted to be that I wanted to be a part of that wealthy conversation so in prison it's easy to get you know I took my time I researched the Warren Buffett's and the Peter Lynch's and I'm not gonna lie in the beginning that [ __ ] was like Chinese to me right right this is a foreign language and so what happened to me was it started reminding me of being in the streets everything about it and I heard this term one time that said the real gangsters are on Wall Street the real gangsters are in the government and I was like damn and so once I started getting into the stock market I want to [ __ ] with that idea for a second I'm thinking through this in in real time so forgive me if I'm seriously but this is one of the things about you that I think is so interesting when I hear so I'm good at making money I'm not good at investing money so when I hear you talk about stocks you make it sound [ __ ] edgy and cool and makes me want to like learn about it and get into it and there is this idea of um making something cool that I think people try to uh wash it away but when you think about the phrase the real gangsters are in Wall Street it hopefully it helps people break through some idea of like oh well they were born into that and that's why they have it that isn't true they were taught something which they happen to be taught because they were born into it but once you latch onto they were born into it you think then it's not for me once you realize no no it doesn't matter how or why they got taught they got taught and that's what allows them to move like a gangster to give that word a you know there is definitely some negativity in their people in the the financial system that really are like [ __ ] gangsters in their [ __ ] Sinister but if people can let go of that idea not everybody with money in Sinister and getting money doesn't make you Sinister and that's why one thing that I think is important and I know we talked about before we started rolling you're a little bit conflicted how much do I show my growing wealth and I think that I normally hate when people flex and I I I won't say that I never flex but I never go out of my way to flex but it's important for people to see that you by living the way that you live you don't just get a talk cool you actually live in a different way which is really [ __ ] interesting anyway so the real gangsters are on Wall Street yes I love that and so and what happens is and just let me say this right quick the reason why people think wealthy people are people with money or Sinister is because that's what you kind of taught in the hood like you kind of taught like the people who really have money like they did some Wicked [ __ ] to get it they did some backstabbing and cut those [ __ ] to get it and you'll never get that right and so that same mentality now happens on a lower level right the hustle and the dope dealing so now you think like yo I gotta just do send a [ __ ] to get money and then the people who are successful in the drug game they're looking at the people at the top like damn I want to be that but the people at the bottom will never get a taste of that and so now we just kind of living off ambition and so now the people who are in the middle who work and they're like all them people with money they all Crooks they all because being at the bottom teaches you to envy people at the top right it just happens it's a it's something that grooves down there right it's kind of like you cook I don't know if you had gumbo before right but it's kind of when you cook food right the base goes to the bottom and so most people live in that bottom never knowing how they'll get up there right I remember so when I was working in the inner cities I remember having this moment where I was like wait a second this is not an intelligence problem intelligence is evenly distributed like in I remember saying to my wife the next [ __ ] Elon Musk is going to be found somewhere in Compton the problem is he doesn't believe in himself and so he's not going to do anything and so I became obsessed with this idea that generational poverty is not about money it's about mindset now it will manifest as money but it is that so I remember I had one kid come to me and and I was the first person that told him you can be successful like what the [ __ ] why do you not think you can be successful it didn't make sense to me and he was like well my mom always told me that the world didn't want to see people that look like me succeed I was like I'm sorry what I'm like even if your mom had good intentions that is the worst [ __ ] advice ever because if you think you can't be successful that will govern the way that you move right so Kobe Bryant people that have listened to me for a while have heard this quote a thousand times but booze don't block dunks the world the world can hate you all they want but if you're good enough think about this the best basketball players in the world were paid millions of dollars to stop Kobe Bryant from scoring and the [ __ ] scored 81 points in a single game 81 points when you've got five people paid millions of dollars actively trying to stop you and they can't because you've gotten that good that to me is the game of money people can not want you to succeed all they want but if you out invest them they can't stop you they can't stop you they can't stop you and so getting people to break through that so that was the first time I realized whoa wait a second we've got people thinking in a way that governs their behavior such that and now I'm going to quote you which I had never heard this before but this scares the [ __ ] out of me if you want to hide something from a black person put it in a book [ __ ] so that's heinous in ways I can't even explain and I'll say that it really again doesn't break along racial lines it breaks along economic lines so if people are not encouraging you to read you're not going to read it's [ __ ] hard in the beginning it feels like you're learning Chinese how do you how did you break through that so there's a few things where we can get into that so there's this economic thread that weaves itself through the hood and one of the things we do got to understand is that there has been intentionality when it comes to preventing Black Culture from thriving economically so we look at like Black Wall Street we look at Durham North Carolina we look at Rosewood every time affluent black neighborhood gets in that level where like yo we about to do it and they set the tone for the rest of them that get bombed it get pillaged it gets that happens and so now that becomes discouraging right it's like yo like every time we try yo like [ __ ] man right and so now what happens with that is that mindsets get that mindset gets impregnated in the Next Generation for fear of survival right like yo don't try to become this as a collective because they're gonna bomb this and I don't want to see you dead so we'll low-level things like that is intentional what happens is now no one now believes that it's possible once you keep passing that down you start accepting the lower level and then there's a few of us or a few people who say no I'm an outlet you're like I'm about to go for it and then whatever happens I'm with that [ __ ] you feel me so for me again one of the greatest things that happened to me was my mother telling me like the world is raw and you got to get this share how you live but I also saw my grandmother be a legal entrepreneur so I saw it from Both Worlds the greatest thing that ever happened to me was going to prison because I was able to sit down and mature in that environment whereas had I been in the world I'm not saying I wouldn't still be this but the path would have been completely different did you do all 10 years I did eight years and nine months God damn 85 of it and so had I still been on the street I would have now been struggling with survival one of the things that happens often in the culture of black people is survival mode you never get a chance to play offense you're always on defense one because of mindset because you don't see it again the dog dealer and the rapper everybody who's working is struggling and so you never want to be that you never want to be that you're like damn like why is everybody struggling I need to do something different so while I'm in prison I I pick up a habit of reading that was the game changer for me on the streets I never had the opportunity to just sit down and read because I'm always trying to survive imprisoned there was no longer a survivor mode there when we look at it from when we break everything down we break everything down and we look at it from a skeleton I have a roof over my head I have a bed it's not the most comfortable bed I have a bed I get three meals a day whether I like it or not I have the the essentials right um I started hustling in prison so I was working in the laundry and so uh your clothes don't really get clean so I found a hustle like yo I wash your clothes when we do it but it's five dollars or twenty five dollars a month so that gave me a whole another set of money and then I started being like a numbers dude how Vegas have the numbers the betting I became a numbers guy so I had actually you know that's it self-taught I used to get the USA Today I said look at this guy Danny Sheridan he used to put out the line and then I would take his numbers and put those numbers on my ticket and my ticket was called Braveheart so now I did college football NFL football and laundry I had a whole thing going I checked this out there's five units in prison I had people in each unit selling tickets for me as in Distributors so the streets was the same in there right and so in each unit there are six eight domes so one person was spraying he had Runners and everybody worked for me and so that's how I survived but I had time now to just sit down and read and I would rewind my first book ever reading was Sister Soldier Coldest Winter Ever changed I was like damn this is dope so I went through the reading the hood Classics and then I jumped into like let me understand assistant Soldier like the hip-hop artist yeah she had a book the coldest one to ever sure phenomenal book I read it and I was like damn like this [ __ ] is dope so I went through a phase where I was reading like the Hood books and then I was like man I lived this [ __ ] already no matter how many times you tell a Hood story it's still the same I've lived this [ __ ] for real I don't keep me to read this and so I used to get up in the mornings and watch CNBC so Mario people in prison they love to watch The Young and the Restless and so I would have to get up before them to watch like Squawk Box Jim Cramer I'd be like damn these [ __ ] making all this money and they not risking their life some gotta change for me like something got to change and so I just started listening to him every day and I started comparing it to the streets a good business is just like a good Hustler a good business has great product they have great clientele a great Hustler has a great product he has consistent clientele a good business on the stock market has what's called a moat a Competitive Edge that keeps his competitors away a good Hustler on the street is going to have that Competitive Edge where they'd be like nah yo I ain't rocking on you I'ma just wait to trap come back right so there's the Competitive Edge a good business has a good branding my name is good right so a good Hustler on the street yo trap got that blue magic I'm good on you like if I can't get trapped I'ma just go try but trap got that blue magic that's what I'm rocking with Brandon move right that's it a great business on the stock market has more assets more liquidity than debt a good Hustler on the street is if you don't learn how to fund your business if you're operating well all you have is re-up money you're not going to last long so those components reminded me the same in this on the stock market or in the world if a company's paying terrorists that's the equivalent to a business a dude on the street going paid draft to go hustling somebody Hood like you can't hustle over here unless you pay me draft it's the same as a terror it's the same thing yeah so once I under once I broke the game down to a way that I can understand it it wasn't about me just being brilliant it was like yo how do I make the game winnable for me people build a business yep the business needs something though that thing is capital yeah it's money so the people building the businesses in the beginning they often don't have the capital and so they need a way to go out and get the capital or it's going to get a little bit complicated faster but I'm gonna go through come on let's see if people can hang something all right you're building a business one of two things is true you either don't have money and so you need somebody that can help you get the things moving that you need to then generate the capital okay I'm sure people have heard the phrase it takes money to make money she's entirely true but certainly as you scale that is very true you have to pay employees and all that okay so it takes money to make money so you're building a business you need the capital you can get somebody to give you money early on you can make a little bit of money and reinvest it yourself but what most people do is either they need that money or they've managed to get the company going this is what happened to me at Quest so you get the company going you don't have to take money from other people in the beginning but all of your money is in the company so I was worth hundreds of millions of dollars right and I couldn't access it I'm driving a beat-up car and so it's like I'm rich on paper but in actuality not so much okay so one of those two things is true either need money to get this thing going or all the value that I've been able to build is trapped in equity in the company so to unleash some of that value they create shares you're now a public company and this is what you're talking about so hey you've got this JPMorgan realizes I'm not an entrepreneur I'm not going to be able to build something but these entrepreneurs are in a tricky situation they're maybe brilliant with business but they have another need yeah and so as they go public which is just turning creating shares out of your company that's a very technical bringing it down to Pieces exactly break it into pieces now you're going to sell those pieces to the public they can then buy a piece of that entrepreneur's endeavor right a piece of that company and so now the entrepreneur or the business depending on if they're selling their personal shares or if the company's selling treasury shares either the company has just gained a ton of money or that individual has taken money off the table and now they've actually got real wealth which always makes me laugh when people think that Jeff Bezos has 190 billion dollars his company is worth that he doesn't have that unless he sells the shares right so anyway so now it's like whoa whoa so as an average person I can go buy a piece of these storied companies but what I really want people to understand you just went and learned that yeah like you I can't tell you how late I came to this game you figured this out before I did I was building businesses already this is why I'm so [ __ ] enough when I think about how far down the road I went I learned the game of building businesses you learned the game of buying businesses okay maybe people don't want to do the thing that I did some days I wonder and you went down another road which is available to everybody okay so now the people have their little primer and how all of this game works right one how why don't people do it in fact let's start there we'll we'll definitely talk about how to do it well but why don't people do it I think because America has painted this picture that is dangerous so think about TV I'm going to lose my money I'm going to lose my money uh stock market crashes right and then every show that you've seen about Wall Street is about people that are crooked that take advantage of people's money and then get rich you know and so people don't associate with that right people feel like you know what I don't want to be a part of that I don't know enough about that right when investing in the stock market isn't an IQ game it's not about it's not about being the most brilliant person in the world right it's about understanding basic economics and basic economics is what we know every day you understand this supply and demand right supply and demand says that if Michael Jordan drops a shoe then the line is going to be wrapped around the corner right but if you find a way to get that shoe hold on to that shoe and then later on you can now sell that shoe at a top tier Price Right supply and demand right if we can understand that you understand certain parts of business economics right you understand that if Michael Jordan were to release a hundred million yep shoes won't be worth much it won't be worth but if he releases a thousand exactly now price gonna go crazy and then over time it becomes worth even more because most people will wear the shoes lower the value but for anybody that holds on to them so now you've got decreasing Supply which creates a even if the the demand stayed steady if the supply decreases now you've got um a positive Dynamic 100 and so that's and that's that's the that's the most amazing part about investing is everybody won't be able to build a billion dollar business right but everybody can invest in one and that's why I love it right so the three the three things in my wealth pyramid is stocks business real estate I believe you should have all three right but you can get away with two how are you differentiating between stocks and business so when I say stocks and means like me buying shares of a business yeah business second is me creating a business and then real estate third so you think everybody should create a business no no no that's why I say you can get away with two out of the three you know what I'm saying so everybody doesn't have to create a business because it's just not for everybody but you can see what we do know is as America evolves through this business as business evolves there are some brilliant people that says for that business there's a problem for that problem I have the solution that's a business you like to invest in right and so if we can invest in the solutions I always say that if we invest in the solutions we cannot help but win invested in a solution okay making Amazon was a solution to so many things getting us information faster getting us books faster getting us it changed the game it revolutionized how we how we got uh packages if ever it made somebody say you know what I could go to the store today but I'm willing to wait one day to get this package the truth is hitting your career goals is not easy you have to be willing to go the extra mile to stand out and do hard things better than anybody else but there are 10 steps I want to take you through that will 100x your efficiency so you can crush your goals and get back more time into your day you'll not only get control of your time you'll learn how to use that momentum to take on your next big goal to help you do this I've created a list of the 10 most impactful things that any High achiever needs to dominate and you can download it for free by clicking the link in today's description all right my friend back to today's episode can I just say for for the young people in the crowd who grew up with Amazon yeah there was a time you'd have to wait four times six weeks to get something in the mail exactly exactly that's insane if you can order something in the morning and get it in the afternoon and some places you get it the same day and so when we think about revolutionizing the game evolving that's what I love about investing right I'm thinking think about Tesla and I'm not advocating for anyone to invest in these businesses but I'm just showing how how the world has evolved and you can build your wealth for me 100 if you're bold enough to bet on the future if you're bold enough to bet on the future and be patient enough to let it take place you will win and you will win big that is that's without a doubt so we we see the evolution of Tesla and we see what's going on with this business even if you don't agree with everything that Elon does you say okay well Rolls-Royce just dropped its first EV car for four hundred thousand dollars right they're saying they're going to be all electric by 2030. General Motors and they're going to be all the electric by 2032 Ford is drop electric cars now what is that telling us right now the landscape of vehicles is changing right so what do I say okay I want to be a part of this Evolution I want to be a part of not only the electric car Revolution but the charging stations the batteries right these are the components the supply chain that makes this whole um sector possible and so for me that's betting on the future and if we can't understand if we can truly grasp that that your money is not doing you know Justice in a bank it's not especially now right it's not doing you know Justice in the bank why not well because the more they print money the more your money loses value right the more inflation goes up the more your money loses value so a hundred dollars spent in 2019 that same hundred dollars now takes a hundred and nine dollars right so your money is lost you need to buy the same so buy the same thing right so if you bought this mug for a hundred dollars in 2019 I mean it's not in the mouth if that's what you did but yeah it now costs you 109 right you need that much more money so we understand that One Lie we've been told is sitting our money in the bank so that's probably should add that to the equation earlier right putting our money in the bank thinking that the bank is the safest place to have our money right that's probably the most dangerous place because I always say a dollar that's not moving is a dollar that's losing right so sitting on money in the bank is not the place to be right so what would be how do you make your money move how do you make your money move by making great Investments or just investing so I'll give you an example for me personally I literally don't have but like twelve thousand dollars sit in the bank all of my money is in the market 90 of it is in the market so I use What's called the vo which is the Vanguard index fund for the spot um S P 500 I use that as my savings account so every month or every week I'm putting money in a well trap what happens when the market is going down well my money wasn't making no money in the savings account anyway so I'm putting it in there right and then what happens when the market rebounds we won't be here forever we won't be here forever what happens when the market rebounds well talk to people about realized losses versus unrealized losses okay because I think this really messes good that's good that's good so unrealized loss is when let's say I have a hundred dollars on something and that goes down to 89 right if I sold it today I wouldn't be able to sell it for what I paid for but so you you buy something at a hundred dollars it goes down to eighty dollars if you don't sell it you have an unrealized loss of twenty dollars I mean you didn't sell it your Equity just decreased if you sell it you realize that game you have now made that game realistic I mean at loss you've realized that loss you've made that loss realistic so you've now essentially lost that twenty dollars right that's a uh that's a realized loss not realize gains is the complete is the exact opposite right so if you go up to uh I buy something for 100 it goes up to 150 unrealized I have a hundred I have fifty dollars in unrealized gain so it's there but I didn't sell it it's there realizing it is saying I've cashed out I've cast out on it think about like you talked about Jeff Bezos right his net worth is what 180 something billion dollars something like that last time I checked 60 of his money was an Amazon stock 60 of it so this is why you wake up one day and you say damn Jeff lost 18 billion dollars well that's unrealized because he didn't cash out so he didn't lose it it's still there wants to stop getting backs up he recoups all of that and so that's the adult part about the mark yes it fluctuates yes it goes ups and down but that's also the most scariest part about the market because people who come from a lower income working class environments the worst thing that can come to their mind is losing money that I bust my butt for that's what makes the market so scary for them and that confusion keeps them out of the market yeah so this is where now people have to get into the intricacies of money so it's probably worth belaboring the point a little bit about the people don't even get to the starting line so I forget the percentage of households of people that live paycheck to paycheck but it's ungodly it's astronomical it's more than 50 72 that's so ridiculous so this is for people even making six figures like most people live paycheck to paycheck 100 if you're living paycheck to paycheck one you're not going to survive any difficulty financially so if you get sick and now your hospital bills the number of people that go broke because they're already they have no savings and now they get sick your car breaks down I remember that when I was broke and your car breaks down it's like well then I don't have a car it's not like I can even choose to go get it fixed so of course people in that situation are not thinking oh I need to go put money into the stock market I'm not saving money anyway so that's number one to your point about people spend money that they don't have so whatever a dollar four out of every dollar that they make the only way I found where I could do it where I could save I had to gamify it I had to make it fun I had to get myself obsessed over watching the number go up so that I would get more of a dopamine rush out of looking at my I used to use mint I don't know if they're still around into it a stock they dig at home yeah yeah exactly well said well said so I would because it connected to my bank account every time I made a deposit into my bank account my dashboard automatically update and I'm like oh damn like I've now got five hundred dollars 527 and it was like cool is it going up is it going up is it going up and so people need to find that hook whatever that is to get excited about beginning to save money but that's interesting I like that you use the Vanguard as the savings account so do you is your money automatically allocated no so I do it one because I have I found on that Financial discipline and myself so this now is a this is my routine how did you how did you develop that so growing up you realize that there's a thread that runs through just through especially poverty-strick in America right and it is that we have no Financial structure right if everyone is living paycheck to paycheck right so let me go back a second for a second Reaganomics cause so much Havoc to that low-income black community right why why so let's think about this in 1982 yeah I was born they were written Ronald Reagan took one million people off of welfare he took another half a million people kids out of a free lunch right the economy went through a real recession in 82. but then in 85 but I was getting into all of it around 65 tons of cocaine pillaged lower income Black America in a form of crack cocaine 85 tons that came from Nicaragua which then was a result of Ronald Reagan being told he could not put illegal guns in Iran so he supported the South American contract go look that up this amazing story right that wreaked havoc so a lot of times in my culture we look at slavery and we look at that and that's cool but this generation can't identify with that right they they it's too far but what we can identify with is that everyone from 82 to now has been touched by the crack era cocaine crack abuse it's separated families and so now think about the mindset that came with money during that era right everything was lack right you have people trying to work you have functioning families now broken up by drug abuse followers locked up mothers now with the term crack babies now another way to separate black women from kids so it pill is cracked pillaged the black community especially in major cities La Miami New York pillage them so now the idea of money is separate I want you to think about the mindset that you have to have as a man as a as a friend I grew up with this brother I grew up with his mother and now his mother is buying cracks for me right for me to sell my friend's mother crack what type of mindset monstrous mindset that has to have and then that becomes the norm right and send them from that error we go to Bush where now the War on Drugs is important but how can we have a law on drugs if we are now pushing the drugs in this community right and then we get two non-mandatory minimums and then we get to Clinton where we get three strikes you out so now before we can even deal with the money mindset we got to deal with the pillage and the breakup of the family that happens and so now when a family is in survival mode we can't think about money because now we're trying to how is this next meal possible right Financial trauma Financial trauma now is anchored to who we are so for me when I was in prison when I got exposed to damn I'm playing the wrong game I had to look at the pieces on the board like in my a night in my bishop and my Rook I damn sure ain't the king so I mean I'm a pawn s always get sacrificed so I'm always being sacrificed how the hell can I win this game something got to change and so one of the things I knew that I had to change was my relationship with money because that's how you change what piece you are on the board that's how you change the piece you are and then what happens with the poem on a chessboard is if the pawn can find a way to get to the other side of the chessboard he then could become whatever he wants and for me it's the two things the information and learning how to use money I can become any piece on the chessboard and so now for me once I learned about money once I started healing my own Financial trauma it was easy for me to now start talking to people about it but also improving my life because now money is not the thing that dictates me it's the vision it's the how do I become successful for the next Generations how do I help the people that I know heal their financial trial we can't even talk about money we can't talk about wealth we can't talk about winning in this world if we don't disattach ourselves from the things that's keeping us from being successful and that is for me Financial trauma that is a harsh pill to swallow and just a form of that is just think about it like this why is that a hard pill to swallow well because if you think about it most people like to reflect I mean deflect right it's not my fault um um you know think about the years of slavery think about this people like to deflect they never want to take full accountability for it right but healing that Financial trauma saying yo check this out we talked about it earlier if you have more money under your bed in your closet than you have in your investment account or your savings account and that's Financial trauma if you are saying things if you're doing things like you know you're badly making you know you live in check the check but for Christmas you go spend money you don't have to say well my kids can have a great Christmas that's Financial trauma because what you've now taught your kid is it's okay to spend money you don't have to have a good time and then come back later on and have to pay that or digging yourself in a deep hole so somebody has to break that Financial trauma if not the family the generations that follow will all follow the same suit you need one outlier you need one person that's disrupt disruption you need one person to do that and if nobody ever does that you can look at a whole lineage of the people of a family and realize why nobody has never changed it and so for me to change was if I can become Financial literary if I can become financially conscious if I can increase my financial fortitude then I can not only change myself and my life I can lead by example and change my family and then that can have another effect that people around my friends you know so on and so forth but it was me being able to heal that Financial trauma in the beginning man that was important the only one I hear talking about something that I think is actually really connected which is values and knowledge to get the outcome that you want when did you start like hearing you talk about the disruption of the family um the more I look so I think you know my background yeah but so my story I saw Big Brother room for a kid in South Central and I'm I was just too young to understand what was happening and so I have no idea why he's acting out why everything is just a mess and start getting older Star Quest thousand employees that remind me of the kid that I and I Big Brother for him for eight and a half years so it's a long time yeah from the time he was eight till he was 16. yeah crazy yeah uh and seeing then later when I was finally old enough to understand what was going on a bunch of people that were growing up in the inner cities it is this is this is the fiery debate right now is it culture or is it that the deck is stacked against me and I felt like a man screaming into the void trying you've you've given such a cool analogy if people play chess so you've got the pawns the pawns are always sacrificed but if you get to the other side of the board you can replace them with something else That's The Human Condition uh-huh traversing the board is knowledge but if you learn and no one can stop you this is the age of free information if you can learn then you really can become whatever you want booze don't block Donuts no one can stop you from doing the thing that you want to do and so I was just like screaming and screaming and screaming like no no the only thing that separates you and I are ideas I found a better set of ideas and those ideas govern my life it's what I call frame of reference so if your frame of reference is poverty and I remember saying this before the internet was like really popping off and so there was nobody there to freak out and yell uh but I was like the day I realized oh poverty isn't about money it's about mindset I was just like whoa and then you encounter the first person that's like offended by that idea and I was like whoa what do you mean I don't I literally didn't understand why that was offensive I'm like this means that you can set yourself free you could do whatever the [ __ ] so getting people to understand okay there's taking it back to the family for whatever reason the predictive nature of a two-parent household is crazy if you have one the odds of you doing well are really high and if you don't have one they begin to decline [Music] why well so there is a disparity in what poverty is lack of information lack of resources money is infinite they never stop they've never stopped printing money the problem is getting the belief to understand that getting a getting a belief that you're capable of being something nothing against rapping and entertaining but for a lot of people that come from my culture that's the only way out Stone the way out that's it if you can't rap you can't play sports then you're probably gonna sell drugs or do something illegal because 87 percent of crimes are behind money origins of a mediocre just leave and so nobody wants that right and so now we we understand that there are better opportunities in better segments just in White America just 100 but what happens is that can't be the defining part like I know what I said all right cool but what stops me well what stops me is me what stops me is me playing the blame game all my life what stops me is me keeps saying well I'm black they White well that's you're not going to go far doing that what stops me as saying I didn't have the opportunities they have that's going to keep it from going there if you can get past the [ __ ] inside these are real issues but the biggest issue is the belief of myself the biggest issue is I need to spend more time reading and researching than partying I need to spend more time reading researchers and chasing women I need to spend more time reading and researching then you know trying to go hang out playing that being on Netflix all day playing a game all day I need to speed more time developing a skill set okay boom as I evolve as I learn how the game is being played as I get exposure to their game my confidence builds up so the reason why it is more the success barrier is high in a two-parent home a healthy two parent home that's important I think though the stats are and I'm sure just because the sort of average to healthy ish uh homes it just overwhelms it is the the number but the the statistics and I don't remember the exact number but your odds of living above the poverty line it's over 70 over 80 something like that if you in a two-parent home structure so in a two-parent home there's a form of structure there's a hierarchy and then there's you know there's a man there's a woman and then there's kids so now you have an infrastructure to when you don't have when you don't have this is good but you don't have a two-parent home not saying you can be successful but now there are so many other different influences in your life and I'll give myself for example right like again I'm homeless at 16. right but was your dad around when you were growing I never even met my dad never ever in my life right so now the influences became like anybody who I saw had so when I'm looking at the hustlers I'm like all right yo like he got the girls he got the respect he got the money that's what I want to be like and so I'm getting that from him I'm learning I'm getting it from the hustlers and then boom dead jail but because that's the only image I have this is what I'm holding on to right and then when I go to prison you know you get with the OG's and they start telling you yo don't do this don't do that okay cool now I've pivoted right I've pivoted from this to this because this information is going to get me through prison this is the information is going to keep me alive this is the information that's how I carry myself this is how I talk that's how I maneuver that's how you you know okay cool I got it but then you come home and I come home and I'm a 26 year old man but guess what I still never had a father so I'm still missing something in my life still missing something and honestly that void didn't feel so I had my daughter right but then I'm missing that voice so now I'm still influenced by anything that I feel has structure right so that two-parent home even the father may not be the best or whatever but it's structure you understand his position in life you understand his position in that family structure you understand that Mother's position structure is so important it limits the mistakes the less mistakes you can make on a journey the easier it is to become successful yeah this to me so this is a really important idea this is what I talk about with business and mindset I always tell people you have to understand how the game works and and what I mean by that is there's a physics to everything so there's a physics of business so thinking from first principles how how these things are actually structured and I think the big breakthrough and I've heard you say this I think this is really smart there's a difference between the basics and the fundamentals yes the basics is just one-on-one yeah so here are the sort of words and phrases you're going to need the fundamentals are the physics this this is how it works and once you know how something works then you can get good at it but if you and and I really think the vast majority of humanity and I don't care what class you're in the vast majority of humanity does not understand how the world Works therefore they are at the mercy of the world and the people that figure out how it works can change things you know I mean we'd use a negative word say manipulate but it really isn't that like this is power close your eyes imagine a world better than this one open your eyes get the skills to make that world come true and go actually make it come true that's [ __ ] power and that imagine being able to close your eyes imagine something open your eyes and actually be able to create it that's [ __ ] power so to whether that's to change you know people growing up in the inner cities whether that's to create generational wealth in your own family whether that's to learn architecture and build a bridge or a house whatever like that is the point but to be able to do that you have to understand how things work and like yeah that's that is to me what is so powerful about you you understand a game that a lot of people that are disenfranchised understand the streets and you're saying [ __ ] this is just physics let me show you the correlate over here it's all the same [ __ ] it's the same that's it and so that's that's important for me the understanding the basics and the fundamentals like once you start understanding the fundamentals you give yourself power because you now understand like you said you see how the machine works right and so most people look at the machine in Marvel and say Eva I'm like most people look at the stock market most 98 of the people who I know look at the stock market say yo that's not a game I can play I'm staying away from it and so the ways the way it's set up is the world is set up well listen cool I don't even want you to play just give me your money I'll play it for you so we look at like Banks like we understand that Banks don't necessarily work in our favor right so Banks only give us 0.05 interest on the money we have there but we can get eight percent just by putting our money in the index fund so why would I just set my money in a bank and let the bank make all the money because all they're going to do is invest the money for you so they're not operating as the plug they operate now as the man who I'm gonna front you this I'm gonna make my money I'm gonna take the cut I'm gonna give you just enough to keep coming back I'm gonna go to the plug who is the plug the stock market man right and so once I understood the fundamentals of like the most important thing too is we don't understand how money works that's a whole different language in its own the relationship with money in my community is you make money just enough to pay bills and so once you get tired of paying bills you say you know what I need to treat myself to something right no matter if I got to go in debt no matter the fact I need to treat myself to something to take this misery away so you treat yourself to something that you can't afford at the time right but it makes you feel good in the moment and so because it makes you feel good you say you know what I'm living this is a reprieve from everyday struggle let me get back on the hamster web and so the sacrifice now becomes hard because now you're saying I gotta work work work and never get that reprieve I'm not willing to do that right and s
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